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20 hours ago, KILZ FILLZ said:

Whiskers Without Borders

fantastic

 

also great names for them kittens!!

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17 hours ago, NightmareOnElmStreet said:

whiskers without borders.........😂. god damned hippes. 

Don’t forget Tijuana is only like 20 min south from me lol 

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San Diego is awesome, I have not been in a many years but would be stoked if a good excuse to visit popped up. My buddy there died of a heroin overdose, oh well.

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Like we just discussin thangs in here? I would like to discuss something I feel is not thread worthy. 

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5 minutes ago, SMdoubleXL said:

Like we just discussin thangs in here? I would like to discuss something I feel is not thread worthy. 

 

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I’ve mentioned this with a fellow oontzer recently but I just want a lil more male input. I’ve learned in the recent past that the first time a certain guy and I had relations was actually HIS first time ever. This was round about a decade or so ago. We’re still very much In touch but when it comes up I feel like such a fuckin creep.  And it’s not the first time it’s happened to me. Like I feel Like a creep. Both times I found out a long while after. How do you guys live with yourself?!?!? Hahaha. Just goin in aimin to be the first. I feel like a real pos finding out later haha. 

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2 minutes ago, SMdoubleXL said:

I’ve mentioned this with a fellow oontzer recently but I just want a lil more male input. I’ve learned in the recent past that the first time a certain guy and I had relations was actually HIS first time ever. This was round about a decade or so ago. We’re still very much In touch but when it comes up I feel like such a fuckin creep.  And it’s not the first time it’s happened to me. Like I feel Like a creep. Both times I found out a long while after. How do you guys live with yourself?!?!? Hahaha. Just goin in aimin to be the first. I feel like a real pos finding out later haha. 

how did the guy feel, tho? Was he ok with it?

 

it's not your fault you out here pulling v cards

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1 minute ago, glorydays said:

how did the guy feel, tho? Was he ok with it?

 

it's not your fault you out here pulling v cards

There was NO WAY I could tell  

 

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1 minute ago, SMdoubleXL said:

There was NO WAY I could tell  

 

exactly!

 

And i dont mean to make a mountain out of a mole hill...but there is a symbolic weight to the value of virginity. Virgin girls are "prized" and virgin guys are "chivalrous". Virginity is held on top of a high pedestal.

So feeling guilty after taking someone's virginity is not surprising. Girls who lose their virginity "lose value" while guys who lose their virginity  "are now men". 

I don't understand this value system placed on virginity as if that was the be all and end all of someone's worth.

 

Don't feel bad about it, even though the guilt is warranted....People who shame others about that kind of thing are fucking weirdos anyway.

 

You're good, @SMdoubleXL 

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13 hours ago, Deine Mudder said:

@NightmareOnElmStreet..to make this quick - was the original plasti wrapping with the pull-tab still around the box when you bought it?

 

If yes you don't need to worry the thing has been tampered with after it left Apple's factory.

 

 

 

Definitely no wrapping or pull tabs. Shit is used from 2017/18. I am slightly less worried about the same worries from the initial posting. Been a couple weeks. Nothing I can see thus far has me thinking im being hacked. But then again I guess I won't know that for a while. 

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@SMdoubleXL

 

 First off. Let me just take this opportunity to personally thank you for coming out here just discussing shit. You are doing it right. 

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My male perspective is as follows. @glorydayssaid it properly first. Since it is in fact 2020, we gotta cut the fat first with "was he ok with it?" LOL. No but seriously, that's what it is these days, right? Consent and feelings and all that shit. Anyways, I don't see any reason to think about this shit passed if you were fine and he was fine and you couldn't even tell anyways. Good on you taking part in a collective conquest dudes have taken all the credit for since the beginning of virginity awareness. I can't say I chased that shit but I was pretty happy to find out I got one post high school lol. I find it weird this person didn't disclose said information for a decade?? I guess dudes are a little more self conscious about still being a virgin nerd and would rather not be upfront because well the whole masculine pride thing?? Idk. Nothing wrong with stacking v-cards if that's your thing you know. Keep on clocking, fam! 

 

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4 hours ago, morton said:

San Diego is awesome, I have not been in a many years but would be stoked if a good excuse to visit popped up. My buddy there died of a heroin overdose, oh well.

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San Diego is best of the west imo. I haven't been back for far too long now. 

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5 minutes ago, NightmareOnElmStreet said:

@SMdoubleXL

 

 First off. Let me just take this opportunity to personally thank you for coming out here just discussing shit. You are doing it right. 

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My male perspective is as follows. @glorydayssaid it properly first. Since it is in fact 2020, we gotta cut the fat first with "was he ok with it?" LOL. No but seriously, that's what it is these days, right? Consent and feelings and all that shit. Anyways, I don't see any reason to think about this shit passed if you were fine and he was fine and you couldn't even tell anyways. Good on you taking part in a collective conquest dudes have taken all the credit for since the beginning of virginity awareness. I can't say I chased that shit but I was pretty happy to find out I got one post high school lol. I find it weird this person didn't disclose said information for a decade?? I guess dudes are a little more self conscious about still being a virgin nerd and would rather not be upfront because well the whole masculine pride thing?? Idk. Nothing wrong with stacking v-cards if that's your thing you know. Keep on clocking, fam! 

 

bro....consent always and i agree

 

they will destroy you for that shit

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1 minute ago, glorydays said:

bro....consent always and i agree

 

they will destroy you for that shit

There is no more chill. I think about this shit a lot. Applied to far more than just sex stuff. Not that I think being rapey is chill either. There it is right there. Fuckin auto correcting yourself into not saying some sideways shit lol. 

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1 minute ago, NightmareOnElmStreet said:

There is no more chill. I think about this shit a lot. Applied to far more than just sex stuff. Not that I think being rapey is chill either. There it is right there. Fuckin auto correcting yourself into not saying some sideways shit lol. 

the fear has changed me...I'm not saying it's bad to be a good person LOL

but there is a cloud over your head...what did RZA say, "protect yourself always"

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14 minutes ago, SMdoubleXL said:

@NightmareOnElmStreet

I don’t know what took him so long to tell me. I should ask. It’s not like it was the only time.  
Also. 
I’m tryna to get him to come see me 

What if you are the only one ever? You should find that out too!

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5 minutes ago, mr.yuck said:

What if you are the only one ever? You should find that out too!

Oh I know I’m not. I trust what I know from him 

 

but would that explain the fucking gifts and flowers every valentines day ? Sand we haven’t lived in the same state for about 7-8 years. (I know that’s not the reason for flowers on v day) 

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33 minutes ago, glorydays said:

the fear has changed me...I'm not saying it's bad to be a good person LOL

but there is a cloud over your head...what did RZA say, "protect yourself always"

It's dead ass changed EVERYBODY. Emphasis on changed though because that part only applies to a certain era and the ones before. Young people. Kids like gen z or whatever are born thinking about this type of shit I feel. It's a good thing at the end of the day but I don't like how it invades everything else that shouldn't be so unchill. 

 

 

Hey, @mr.yuck I'm post poaching these days. I poked around the internet for those statistics about people gone missing from the ACT (Appalachian Trail). Couldn't really find a damn thing but individual cases and more generalized numbers across the state parks of our country. Nothing really specific to the ACT. There has to be numbers somewhere. But I did stumble upon this documentary I now want to watch. 

 

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Also..... @smdoublexl if a dude is sending you valentines day shit after banging a few times nearly a decade ago I can't imagine it would be terribly hard getting a long distance booty call. It's kinda just weird this mans hasn't already been visiting.....Unless I missed something in your storyline. 

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42 minutes ago, NightmareOnElmStreet said:

Also..... @smdoublexl if a dude is sending you valentines day shit after banging a few times nearly a decade ago I can't imagine it would be terribly hard getting a long distance booty call. It's kinda just weird this mans hasn't already been visiting.....Unless I missed something in your storyline. 

I think there's an important piece of info she isnt sharing with the class.

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9 hours ago, SMdoubleXL said:

I’ve mentioned this with a fellow oontzer recently but I just want a lil more male input. I’ve learned in the recent past that the first time a certain guy and I had relations was actually HIS first time ever. This was round about a decade or so ago. We’re still very much In touch but when it comes up I feel like such a fuckin creep.  And it’s not the first time it’s happened to me. Like I feel Like a creep. Both times I found out a long while after. How do you guys live with yourself?!?!? Hahaha. Just goin in aimin to be the first. I feel like a real pos finding out later haha. 

I can give you some male input har har.  Honestly not clear on what you're asking, you feel bad you were his 1st and are asking how to deal w/ related guilt?  But wait, there's more you added after that adds to this, so as someone said, what's still left unsaid here?  My immediate thought upon reading your 1st post is how could you not know you had sex w/ virgin guys, from the perspective that when you're a virgin you're not exactly known for stamina or knowing how to fuck?  If they made it past 30 seconds without busting their nut they may not have been virgins.  Unclear what's causing feelings around this.

 

From your addition I'd say caution, potential red flags.  This person has kept in touch w/ you, is this a mutual exchange of contacts or is it every V day you get cards/flowers but you otherwise never hear from him?  Do you respond to his contacts? Do you initiate any or is it one sided?  What is your attraction to this person- because you were 1st?  Because he has pursued you?

 

If I only looked at your 1st post I'd say it reads like you took a dude's cherry and a little piece of his heart and he has pined for you ever since.  From a female perspective perhaps that's romantic.  If it was a dude telling that story about a girl I imagine the stereotypical male would not share that sentiment.  However, there does apear to be more to this story.... perhaps you have some feelings involved too?

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8 hours ago, NightmareOnElmStreet said:

 It's kinda just weird this mans hasn't already been visiting.....Unless I missed something in your storyline. 

When he came back to Vegas he would always at least try to stop in and say whattup 

and in Pittsburgh he and a friend came and stayed with us (see below) a few nights and visited another time. They even all went painting together. 
 

it’s only awkward if you make it awkward 
 

8 hours ago, mr.yuck said:

I think there's an important piece of info she isnt sharing with the class.

oh yeah I’ve had someone in my life for a few years. We have a different type of relationship or whatever you call it. It’s an easy concept it’s just people have a hard time believing it’s actually like that. 

38 minutes ago, One Man Banned said:

I can give you some male input har har.  Honestly not clear on what you're asking, you feel bad you were his 1st and are asking how to deal w/ related guilt?  But wait, there's more you added after that adds to this, so as someone said, what's still left unsaid here?  My immediate thought upon reading your 1st post is how could you not know you had sex w/ virgin guys, from the perspective that when you're a virgin you're not exactly known for stamina or knowing how to fuck?  If they made it past 30 seconds without busting their nut they may not have been virgins.  Unclear what's causing feelings around this.

 

From your addition I'd say caution, potential red flags.  This person has kept in touch w/ you, is this a mutual exchange of contacts or is it every V day you get cards/flowers but you otherwise never hear from him?  Do you respond to his contacts? Do you initiate any or is it one sided?  What is your attraction to this person- because you were 1st?  Because he has pursued you?

 

If I only looked at your 1st post I'd say it reads like you took a dude's cherry and a little piece of his heart and he has pined for you ever since.  From a female perspective perhaps that's romantic.  If it was a dude telling that story about a girl I imagine the stereotypical male would not share that sentiment.  However, there does apear to be more to this story.... perhaps you have some feelings involved too?

I’m askin-men don’t feel creepy knowing they pulled the V card?  It’s not guilt I’ve held onto all these years it was just brought up again recently. 
 

He’s not afraid to tell me about his on and off again “crush” on me  But also lives his own life. Was in a serious relationship a while back-he even proposed and all that. Sounds trite but we have always been cool even without physical relations (which has been yeeeaaars) 

 

 

I just think I’m ready for somethin different than how I’ve dealt with men in the past. 

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