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I have known a handful of men who payed for sex, of them a couple got pretty strung out. One of whom was like totally ruined behind that shit, like 30K behind in child support, one hat owning, living in a shady cash payment motel on the strip and spending every dollar he could make on prostitutes before sunrise every time his sorry ass could get a buck. 

 

The dudes who handled it okay were very infrequent customers, like "when I am in Amsterdam or Asia" type customers.

 

It definitely has the potential to lead to compulsive and progressive behavior, something that many of us have struggled with in other contexts. 

 

And it is totally a trap, having a fuck buddy on the side I can see, maybe, but a woman who is straight with her child's father fucking prostitutes because she has a temporary medical condition related to pregnancy? Come on, you go through with it and she will hold that shit against you later. Men's Warehouse, I guarantee it.

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7 hours ago, One Man Banned said:

Did your girl forget how to suck dick?  Jeez, you really are married.

Hellllllll naw. I am one of very few semi married/married men folks I know who have the opportunity to turn a good dick suckin down because it’s that frequent. More so during our sex drought. It’s always on point. I’m fuckin over it though.....I’ve always clowned dudes I know that get all hyped on shit like “steak and a bj” day whatever the fuck that is....Laughable. Niggas gotta wait for a special day of the year for a blow.....My chick is a red head in the classic sense of the term. 
 

 

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6 hours ago, morton said:

 

And it is totally a trap, having a fuck buddy on the side I can see, maybe, but a woman who is straight with her child's father fucking prostitutes because she has a temporary medical condition related to pregnancy? Come on, you go through with it and she will hold that shit against you later. Men's Warehouse, I guarantee it.

You sex shaming me, bRo!?! 

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i mean.. tinder is still a thing... believe it or not the random times i downloaded it just for shits and giggles there were a good amount of profiles of women with their significant other looking for a 3rd or mostly women looking for a "ethical non-monogamous partnership".. better than paying for the poon i mean you could save a couple bucks.. 🤷‍♂️

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4 hours ago, Tails0nE said:

i mean.. tinder is still a thing... believe it or not the random times i downloaded it just for shits and giggles there were a good amount of profiles of women with their significant other looking for a 3rd or mostly women looking for a "ethical non-monogamous partnership".. better than paying for the poon i mean you could save a couple bucks.. 🤷‍♂️

We tried that pre oven bun cooking. Although. That could make for some interesting lulz. Tinder profile flick of me and a giant pregnant wife 🤣🤣🤣 

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What if you were sitting in your living room watching a episode of little women Atlanta, eating a 3 piece, when all of a sudden a mf plane dives into your shit??

 

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My moms lives 4 houses down from this shit. This is the second time Ive seen it happen in 22 years. These people lived, astoundingly. Last time like 5 people died and washed up on the homies back lawn. I can’t imagine the wild amount of shook you’d be in if a fuckin plane crashed into your living room. W....T....F....

 


Last photo is mine. They gotta demo the house. But maaaaaan are these niggas finna come UP on the bank acct, gahhhhhd damn lol! Millions! 
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Don't you get to keep anything that falls in your yard as yours?

 

I’ll be honest, I don’t really understand how the legal system works in this country. I think it’s unfair, needlessly confusing. I’ll give you an example. One of my next-door neighbor’s kids is climbing a tree on their property. Falls out of the tree and lands on my fence. Now I’m being told I’ve got to get myself a lawyer… if I want to keep my half of the kid. How is that fair? And who’s going to reimburse my taxidermy?  -Anthony Jeselnik

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On 8/22/2020 at 1:30 PM, NightmareOnElmStreet said:

Hellllllll naw. I am one of very few semi married/married men folks I know who have the opportunity to turn a good dick suckin down because it’s that frequent. More so during our sex drought. It’s always on point. I’m fuckin over it though.....I’ve always clowned dudes I know that get all hyped on shit like “steak and a bj” day whatever the fuck that is....Laughable. Niggas gotta wait for a special day of the year for a blow.....My chick is a red head in the classic sense of the term. 

Tried grapefruiting?

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lol 

 

A sample pack of six.

 

I have never been to a pill prescribing head headshrinker but have been to the therapist type, both alone and with family members.

 

I think that it is good, but also that it is like watching work out videos, if you are not going to actually do the work it is not going to help all that much.

 

And yea, they are not all the same and it is easy to get that whole sunk cost fallacy going with a bad one. But when they help they can really help, especially in my case with parenting a young child whose other parent was an abuser.

 

There are widely different approaches out there, having some concept of what they are might help you decide on what type of therapist to seek out. 

 

 

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I was sent a list of some in my area that are covered under my plan. Did quick internet search on the list and narrowed it down to a few. Plan to make some calls

 

i think I need to learn a little bit more about the tiers of qualifications before I set anything up. Was discounting social workers but now it seems like they need to be a graduate in phycology to get their masters in social work.. so maybe I crossed some off my list that I shouldn’t have. 
 

recognizing patterns in myself that I want to break. Been trying to self correct for a long time and always slide back in to old ways but don’t realize it til it’s too late. Looking to get some help. Maybe they can lay things out in a way that I haven’t considered? Who knows. Not looking to get on any pills, bad move for a firearms owner. 

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Psychologists are separate/different from social workers.  I'm biased positively towards psychologists but that doesn't mean that there aren't excellent social workers.  Psychiatrists mainly prescribe meds.  Some do therapy w/ meds, it can be harder to find a psychiatrist that does only therapy (and likely pricey).  I have seen psychologists and also a psychiatrist (not for meds).  

 

Qualifications.... degrees can be worth about as much as the paper they're printed on, no matter what the name says.  However it is notable if they've completed training from some of the more known schools of thought I guess you could say.  Background and experience are important too.  As for making a match, you might want to know if they practice a particular type of therapy and if that type is right for you (there are many different approaches).  You have to look at that person and ask yourself if you're going to be able to be honest with this person, and are you going to be able to handle it if they call you on something.  You don't necessarily have to like your therapist or gel with them for therapy to be productive, but it sure helps.  I might also be up front w/ them in saying I have 6 sessions to use and will evaluate what I want to do from there, what do you think you can do for me in 6 sessions?

 

If it's someone you might see beyond 6 sessions find out what they charge and then ask if they do a sliding scale if it's too much.  Insurance wise you might want to see if they cover for a third party in case you find someone interesting in your area but outside your network.

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Fellow members of the 12oz brotherhood. I was nominated as the primary male roll model in several childrens lives over a decade ago. They grow up so fast. I knew my time to shine was coming up soon but I didnt expect it to be this week. I have no children of my own and the subject we need to discuss is jacking off and porn isnt reality. 

 

Does anybody have any experience breaching these subjects with youngsters?

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I am sure I did but I do not recall the exact approach I took, on masturbation in general I recall saying something along the lines of "it is perfectly normal and every single adult you know does it including your grandparents".

 

On the porno my memory is failing me a little, I have some recollection of trying to point out that action movies are not like reality and then having to argue that one out but that may have been another convo.

 

How many is several, I would not want to take it on in like a class format but rather in individual conversations.

 

 

 

 

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