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So my girlfriend has a few male parts..........

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by hopeizm, Apr 14, 2005.

  1. hopeizm

    hopeizm Member

    Joined: Oct 3, 2003 Messages: 578 Likes Received: 1
    Yeah, so my girlfriend has a few male friends..... but me being the (very) paranoid type dont trust them...... I know some people will say well, its your girlfriend you got to trust but yknow!......

    So does your girlfriend have a lot of male friends, and if so..... does it bother you?... how do you deal with it?... Ever kicked the shit out of one of them?... Any stories?
     
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  2. SilentBob

    SilentBob Member

    Joined: Dec 23, 2002 Messages: 683 Likes Received: 1
    How does she behave around her male friends ?
    Unless she's being really flirtatious towards them you should grow up.

    Also its a good idea to get to know them. See how they react to you. Etc...

    then once again, grow up.
     
  3. ^ . ^

    ^ . ^ Dirty Dozen Crew

    Joined: Aug 13, 2003 Messages: 8,231 Likes Received: 72
    so.. you have no females friends at all then? If you do, maybe stop being so one-sided. Unless she's all over their nuts then you really have no reason to be freaked out.
     
  4. deterrent

    deterrent Veteran Member

    Joined: Oct 20, 2004 Messages: 5,181 Likes Received: 43
    In this situation I've always played it cool. Accepted these friends and tried to get
    to know them. Treat others as you want to be treated.

    However women think differently. It has always ended with fighting, the woman
    saying if I really loved her I'd be jealous. Me explaining I do love her and she has
    my trust there for negating any jealousy. She cries and admits she jealous of my opposite sex friends.

    I've come to find it's not about dating the most beautiful ladies, but the less
    crazy ones.
     
  5. sneak

    sneak Guest

    at the end of the day, your the one sleeping with her.
     
  6. hopeizm

    hopeizm Member

    Joined: Oct 3, 2003 Messages: 578 Likes Received: 1
    Haha, I probley should have worded that differently.... dont get me wrong, i've got plenty of girls as friends and everything is cool.... the thing that gets me is my girlfriend has a couple of guy friends (not all, just a couple) who always seem to want to go there when im not and if I turn up, they seem to be very uncomfortable and usually make an excuse and leave - and its not like ive said anything or done anything to make them feel like that. She has all the trust in the world off me, its just the way some guys act. Fair enough they might like her in another way....you cant help that sometimes right?.. but I just find it annoying that they have to creep around and be weird around me....

    Edit .... a few more wordzzzzzzz
     
  7. gatita

    gatita Senior Member

    Joined: Feb 24, 2004 Messages: 1,319 Likes Received: 1
    Im one of those girls who has a lot of male friends and my past 3 serious boyfriends all had problems with. Honestly, guys can't be trusted, I know there isn't such thing as a "platonic friend." As long as she isnt getting drunk as hell with them solo then you really should just trust her. Alcohol + male friends = high chance of cheating BUT sober + male friends = trusting her. Are you nervous because you think SHE might cheat on you, or are you upset because you don't trust the guys? Remember, no is an answer, if they try to kick it with her and she says no, and then keep going, thats a whole nother set of problems.
     
  8. heavyLox

    heavyLox Veteran Member

    Joined: Feb 2, 2002 Messages: 7,196 Likes Received: 17
    whats hes worried about has lil t'do with 'sleeping'.
     
  9. beelkaemoney

    beelkaemoney Member

    Joined: Aug 11, 2004 Messages: 538 Likes Received: 0
    trust her?? guy friends?? :huh2: fuck all that..keep the louieville handy...i dont get along with my friend girls boyfriends..cause give me an opening and that bitch is face down ass up...ima be trill for all u southerners...so keep that chick close cause she will eat a dick..i aint even tryin to be funny either..trust me i know a few that buff it and then go home to there 'baby'..they been with there boyfriends forever but..when they come out with me theyre totally different people drunk or not..im a EOS (equal opportunity smutter) so HOPEIZM.. DONT TRUST HER!!! if theres any females on here reverse what i said and DONT TRUST HIM!!!

    peash..
     
  10. <KEY3>

    <KEY3> Veteran Member

    Joined: Mar 24, 2004 Messages: 6,878 Likes Received: 2
    I think it's a Chris Rock standup where he talks about this.

    When you and your girlfriend break up you KNOW who she's
    going to be sleeping with next. How do you know? Because he's
    been in your house and he's eaten your food.
     
  11. villain

    villain Veteran Member

    Joined: Jul 12, 2002 Messages: 5,190 Likes Received: 2
  12. FunktionOne

    FunktionOne Member

    Joined: Jun 30, 2000 Messages: 589 Likes Received: 0
    I forget where I heard this but, someone once said that there's no such thing as guy friends, just dudes with "guy friend status" waiting for you to mess up so they can move in...

    so yeah, your paranoia is natural
     
  13. InfiniteWisdomOfThePezDispenser

    InfiniteWisdomOfThePezDispenser Junior Member

    Joined: Oct 27, 2004 Messages: 164 Likes Received: 0
    there will always be those guys that will try getting in your girls pants via the friend route.

    like someone already said, at the end of the day, you're the one sleeping with her. If you trust her, then there shouldn't be a problem. If they step outta line, she'll straightenem out.

    and yes, liquor is quite the social, pants droppin lubricant.
     
  14. maus1985

    maus1985 New Jack

    Joined: Apr 9, 2005 Messages: 25 Likes Received: 0
    fuck that man,

    my girl of about 4 years chills with my best friend ever and i still get freaked out about it, i think its natural to be a little worried about it. tell the dudes whats up.

    and remember, bitches aint shit, theres nothing you can do to stop her from hanging out with other guys that isn't going to make you look like a dick

    so just hope nothing happens, and if it does, fuck it, she's just a girl
     
  15. isor357

    isor357 Senior Member

    Joined: Oct 8, 2004 Messages: 2,491 Likes Received: 3
    Just man up and deal with it. A few years back this happened to me and its not a big issue...... Theyre right though.... These guys want you to slip up so that they can slide in (no(pun intended) I suggest that you introduce her to your gay friends if you have any. Problem solved.
     
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