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What would you do?

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by GnomeToys, Jul 13, 2005.

  1. GnomeToys

    GnomeToys Elite Member

    Joined: Jun 24, 2003 Messages: 2,616 Likes Received: 4
    This is kind of long...

    Ok, here's my current situation. October of last year I was forced to move because the building I was in wasn't up to code, and the city was condemning it. At that point, I was also drinking very heavily at any chance possible. I ended up moving in with a couple of drinking buddies. May of this year I quit drinking, because of health reasons (possible ulcer). Soon after I just decided to quit for good. Once I was sober I slowly began paying attention to what had been going on around me, and decided that I needed to move out of here as quickly as possible, which will be happening soon. Now I'm faced with a moral dillema.

    One of the guys I ended up with is ok, he's kind of an ass sometimes, but he's a good guy in general. The other one is 31 years old, and drinks a minimum of two cases of beer every day. I'm going to call him Chester. His current girlfriend is one of his employees at work (he manages about 5 people), has drug convictions and has been through rehab and a couple months of jail already. She is 18 years old, 17 she started "working" for him. Her parents know she's dating him but I don't think any of them know exactly how old he is. He can pull off looking like 22 or 23. His last girlfriend was 17 when they met and he dumped her around when she turned 21. She had cerebral palsy, and like the current girlfriend, very low self esteem.

    Now the current one is still on probation, and is pretty much living at this place now. She smokes pot all the time, and Chester feeds her whatever alcohol she wants. She has no plans to go to college because she wants to stay in town with Chester, the love of her life. Her brother has already met Chester while he was trashed and unable to form a complete sentence, and has told her that he doesn't want her to be staying here. The other roommate, the half-cool one, who is 26, was telling this young girl that her brother was "just jealous of what they had" and that he doesn't know. I don't know about you guys on here, but if I have a daughter and catch her fucking around with somebody 13 years older than her when she's still in high school, she's going to catch the permanent grounding and the dude is going to catch the permanent brain damage.

    Normally I would have kept myself as far away from this situation as possible, but now I'm stuck with it even though it's only for a day or two more, and I kind of feel bad about it. I'm not normally the type to go around narcing people out for things like this, but I don't like seeing kids fucking their life up, especially when they're being led to do it by old drunk ass perverts. She's always bringing friends from high school over too, which kind of established the house as the high school party zone over the winter, and although I was too drunk to realize it at the time, drove all of my friends my age away from the house.

    Anyway, time is getting short to rant about this, but the way I see it I have two options:
    1) Contact her father and explain the reality of the situation to him. Watch ensuing assbeating from afar.
    2) Forget about it and let her fuck up her life.

    I'm leaning towards #2, but only because I don't want to get my ass kicked if somebody finds out. I'd like some advice. I've got a few friends I need to ask about this too, but I'd like the advice of random internet people.
  2. frankie the porn magician

    frankie the porn magician New Jack

    Joined: Jul 7, 2005 Messages: 59 Likes Received: 0
    stoolie over here.y cant u just say shes hoing for whoever the guy is?if the bacon really wanted to investigate they could find out ur addy pretty fast.on another board this one guy posted someone elses address and phone number some how.if some dickhead with a comp can do it the donut jockeys can do it faster.do what ur gonna do narc.u shouldnt be asking e-friends over something that could get ur head bashed in.also any mods out there im not being a dick to him for no reason like he has to me in other threads.hes getting whats coming to him.
  3. GnomeToys

    GnomeToys Elite Member

    Joined: Jun 24, 2003 Messages: 2,616 Likes Received: 4
    That's nice frankie, but:
    1) You're mentally retarded.
    2) The cops don't care, as nothing illegal beyond simple possession has happened. This is a moral question.
  4. Fondles

    Fondles Veteran Member

    Joined: Mar 31, 2001 Messages: 7,866 Likes Received: 27
    Fuck it man, don't waste your life and time worried about what other people do. You gonna be outta there in a couple days, and forget in a few after that. You aren't a superhero and she isn't a damsel (sp?) in distress. Their actions are made by them. Rule is don't snitch, except when it comes to child molestors and sick shit like that. She's not a child anymore and is more than capable of making her own decisions (she's not brain damaged or slow, is she?).

    I've had some shitty roommates myself, that did some fuck shit to chicks, and 10 out of 10, they end up telling on themselves by continuing to do what they do. If you (they) continue to do fuck shit, it will catch up to you, and this isn't on some karma shit.

    Good to hear you got your shit together, though.

    *edit for shit that didn't really matter.
  5. GnomeToys

    GnomeToys Elite Member

    Joined: Jun 24, 2003 Messages: 2,616 Likes Received: 4
    There is no prostitution going on, to clear that up. Thanks Seldoon, I'll reply further after work.
  6. FunktionOne

    FunktionOne Member

    Joined: Jun 30, 2000 Messages: 589 Likes Received: 0
    Sounds tricky, unfortuantly the girl is an adult now and can make her own choices as bad as they might be... It's hard to stand by and watch someone fuck their life up, but it sounds like this girl lives for "chester". At best you could occasionally pull her aside and tell her how great college is and in a subtle way get her thinking about other things... don't snitch, there's always an alternative...

    ENO ELPMIS Senior Member

    Joined: Aug 18, 2003 Messages: 1,885 Likes Received: 1
    is this the chick whos pussy stinks up the whole house when they fuck?
  8. oneeightyone

    oneeightyone Senior Member

    Joined: May 23, 2003 Messages: 1,289 Likes Received: 0
    ^^^^^^^ that reminded me of something and now i have to spray air freshner to get it out of my head.

    yea, just narc on the dude, a lot of people might say,k "forget about it" "let them fuck themselves up" well obviously you want to narc but your waiting for someone to push you to do it, or else you wouldnt be asking for advice.

    it feels good to help a person out sometimes, they might not know they need the help but in time shit gets resolved.
  9. CACashRefund

    CACashRefund 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Oct 8, 2004 Messages: 14,171 Likes Received: 272
    Sounds like a job for captain save a hoe!
  10. hungoverseas

    hungoverseas Member

    Joined: Mar 24, 2005 Messages: 588 Likes Received: 0
    i say let it ride. it seems like she's very attatched to this toolbox, for whatever reason, and you getting involved probably wouldn't solve anything for her. from the sound of things, she's young, high, and stupid, so the choices she's making aren't going to be the brightest anyways. let her have that sobering moment when she's about 24 and thinks "what the fuck happened to me?"

    move out.
  11. dubsface

    dubsface Member

    Joined: May 26, 2005 Messages: 488 Likes Received: 0
    Gnome the situation sucks, however:

    -if her parents really didnt want her there, shed be on lock down in their house.
    -her brother met one of them and knows the situation, which takes the responsibility you may think you have and place it onto him.
    -anyone who acts in such a way or is attracted to such people have deep rooted problems that will only recover once the person realizes how fucked up they are being. Furthermore, you tell her parents or the cops is only going to create slight changes that will not last that long. But once something traumatic happens to her maybe shell realize what the hell she is doing.
  12. nomadawhat

    nomadawhat Veteran Member

    Joined: Aug 24, 2001 Messages: 5,001 Likes Received: 2
    so wait.. your friends stopping kicking it at your place because there were too many drunk high school chicks there?

    she's 18...don't worry about it.. she'll come around before long. doesn't sound like there;s much there for a long term relationship....
  13. Gunm

    Gunm Banned

    Joined: Aug 31, 2003 Messages: 12,427 Likes Received: 2
    Tell the dad

    A) take comfort in the fact that you'll be making a move that'll save a life in the long run as well as probably keeping one less person off the street/out of rehab

    B) the dad coming over like an avenging revnant and kicking this guys ass.......get video

    seriously....over the years it was always my policy to avoid stuff like this. After all, what business was it of mine yeah? But it's just as selfish to turn your back and not do anything as you think it is to tell the dad.

    This chester guy sounds like a real piece of shit gnometoys. Sound the horn and bring down the calvary on this cradle robbing mother fucker.
  14. !@#$%

    [email protected]#$% Moderator Crew

    Joined: Oct 1, 2002 Messages: 18,517 Likes Received: 623
    stoopit people don't like to take advice
    and in fact, they often end up doing exactly the OPPOSITE of what people tell them to do (even when it's in their best interest), often out of some misguided attempt to prove what they know (how life works) or that they can do whatever they want no matter what anyone says.

    in short, reverse psychology might even work better with a genius like this.

    at 17/18, i am not sure her dad will be able to have a powerful influence on her actions, especially judging from what kind of girl he has raised.

    good looking out, but you are probably not gonna get anywhere with this one.

    on another note, any grown ass man willing to get down on the regular with a teenager is a fucking bastard and obviously not working with too much brain power himself..what the fuck do a 33 year old and a 17 year old have in common? sex!

    if oyu DO tell her father, just tell him the age difference, probably best not to bring the other shit into it. she is an adult after all.
  15. SteveAustin

    SteveAustin Veteran Member

    Joined: Mar 12, 2002 Messages: 7,042 Likes Received: 2
    she's old enough to make her own decisions and you're not her parent...so leave it alone. hopefully shit will turn out alright and she'll learn and chalk it up to one of those life lessons.