Bojangles Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I'm getting ready to say fuck mine and leave soon if shit doesn't change. We've been dating for about 3 years now and have hit that point where there's a fight about something everyday. Today was the fact the she went out and bought a futon out of nowhere for our spare bedroom. The shit came in a million little pieces and was going to take a few hours work. I just worked an eight hour shift and told her "Give me a little time to unwind before I jump into it." She got mad and started working on it on her own while I retreated to my art studio to do some painting. A half hour later I came in and offered my help to which she refused with attitude. Offered again...same thing I said "Fine...call me when you want my help." And walked away. I went back to talk to her about it and now she won't even talk to me. When I tried to join in, she got up and left. All I wanted to do was relax before working my evening away after my full day of work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tha Unibomber Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 sucks dude make her sleep on the futon after she is done 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tuff Tone Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I wish i had a girlfriend to bitch about, she bounced back in august, took the ride n everything my heart still hurts. i was with her for 3 years she i the girl of my dreams the love of my life but im a fucking asshole and most girls dont like assholes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
^ . ^ Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I agree with unibomber.. then again I'm a big asshole. Sounds like she's got some sand in her vagina. Sorry for you, Boj. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
En Sabah Nur Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 i get along really well with my girlfriend. unfortunately, i still seem to want to break up with her fairly often for some reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercer Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 sucks dude make her sleep on the futon after she is done That never works, Bojangles will be the one on the poorly assembled futon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AGOE1 Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 haha @ uni tell her if she doesnt start puttin out your kickin her out. word life homie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john_gacy Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Shit that's funny, not only do you get to sleep on the couch tonight, you get to build it too, LOL. I think you're getting cheated dude, a fight every day should lead to make-up sex every day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AllTheWrongWords Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 IM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX AND ILL NEVER STOP LOVING HER..... .....EVER.... ....IN FOREVER ALWAYS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Q666 Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 my relationship got to this point, and it constantly degraded every day no matter how much we both claimed we were going to change. in the end we separated and are both much happier people now. face it, it sucks, but people dont change. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VAJ Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Me and my ex were the exact same way Q.... I could go on about my ex for days..... ...but I won't. Haha. You all already know anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClownPrince Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I'm at the same point as you Bojangles. Our 2 year is coming up this Friday, but it's like everyday for the past 3 months, she's had a beef about everything, so atleast 5 times a week, we argue. And not the good arguing either, where the aggression gets dumped off in some good, bang-em up sex. The shit dwells in me, all her little remarks, all her attitude, it's frustrating to the point where today, after a good 10 minutes argument about me sleeping post my graveyard shift. I just laid there when she popped in, she gave me shit, I still laid there, said "fine, if you're so frustrated, just jet." So...turns out, she walked home in the pouring rain, and i'm rejuvenated. Ha, fuckin' bitches... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tha Unibomber Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 That never works, Bojangles will be the one on the poorly assembled futon. yeah I know I was just dreaming, flip the whole situation around on her and blame it on her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fun Police Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 she made your bed and you lie in it? no no no... thats all wrong. seriously though i'm no dear abby but weight the pro's and con's of the relationship before you tear it apart. 3 years is a long time and not something to destroy over a futon. but dont take my word for it.... i'm dieing single. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VAJ Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 ATWW....you are like the king of fucking emo dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bojangles Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 Plus... Anytime I try to defend myself or justify a situation, I always get verbally knocked down. I hear "It's not about you" even when I know it's not about me. Or told that all I'm thinking about is myself...which is rarely true. I'm just trying to add logic and my standpoint to the matter. Shit is driving me nuts. I told her tonight that if she wants me gone or is just totally done with me to let me know, but she wont. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VAJ Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I'm here for you Bojangles. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tha Unibomber Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 ATWW....you are like the king of fucking emo dude. for reals he should keep those comments on myspace and not here, she probably thought he was "clingy" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IOU Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Leave before you destroy each other. My last relationship ended about the 3 year mark and it was ugly. Everything was an out war over anything and everything. Finally couldn't take it and bailed out. Best thing I did even though I ain't totally over her. But its been a better year than arguing over everything. Happiness is much better than misery with company. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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BadWithNames Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 i remember getting to that point with my last girlfriend, i wish i hadn't hung around as long as i did because all it got was worse. get the fuck out and dodge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john_gacy Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 the futon is symbolic of your relationship, laying in pieces. she is offering you the opportunity to build something together and you put her aside, so she's pissed. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[mania] Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 i love my girlfriend. /nuffsaid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IOU Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Does she not share your passion for egg foo young?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bojangles Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 the futon is symbolic of your relationship, laying in pieces. she is offering you the opportunity to build something together and you put her aside, so she's pissed. You're probably right, but the point is this: I get up hella early and have been driving her to work before the sun comes up. I get enough time to come home, get dressed and go to work myself. From there, I come straight home to be with her and get put to work. All I wanted was a quick break and i made it clear to her politely. She'll lay around all day Sunday cuz she's tired from the workweek and I don't bug her for shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tha Unibomber Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 the futon is symbolic of your relationship, laying in pieces. she is offering you the opportunity to build something together and you put her aside, so she's pissed. who knew John Gacy ment Dr. Phil :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tha Unibomber Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 You're probably right, but the point is this: I get up hella early and have been driving her to work before the sun comes up. I get enough time to come home, get dressed and go to work myself. From there, I come straight home to be with her and get put to work. All I wanted was a quick break and i made it clear to her politely. She'll lay around all day Sunday cuz she's tired from the workweek and I don't bug her for shit. maybe you guys should sit down and set like a buffer zone of time to relax like 2 hour after work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 my girl keeps trying to teach me how to cook / i told her the microwave and the oven are all i need Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest spectr Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 i could bitch about my ex for a while... but I won't lets just leave it at she is the only person I actually hate on this planet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deloner Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Pee in her butt? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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