fatalist Posted July 5, 2006 Author Share Posted July 5, 2006 AWWW! DETO, THAT WAS SERIOUSLY THE SWEETEST! (regarding to myspace) :bday: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted July 5, 2006 Author Share Posted July 5, 2006 see i would have been soo happy if he would have even done that. i gotta let shit go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUR X3 Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 /no homo covers all. Period. Fatalist, happy birthday. I don't know what the situation is, but if you guys are friends other than that relationship. Then maybe he should of done more than a phone call. Chances are, he knew you wanted something, and he didn't get you anything because he wanted to make some point about how now you don't have and you're going to miss him... And he's right too, the first thing you did was pop on here and make a thread about how much it bothered you. You've only been broken up for a few weeks, you're still thinking about him all the time, you still want to know that he cares for you. You want to know that he thinks about you as much as you think about him. I've been there, but expecting things from him is just going to lead to dissapointment. If you want to be with him, call him and tell him. If he doesn't then move on. But half assed expecting for him to prove to you he still wants you with presents, and things of that nature, it's not a way to have a relationship, or start a new one. Just my two cents though. Holler. `G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted July 5, 2006 Author Share Posted July 5, 2006 you're right and i did that. On the 3rd i tried to spend time with him, but that didn't fall through, i told him how much i loved him and missed him. I can't say no more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seeking Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 let it go kiddo. he aint worth it. (happy birthday) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!@#$% Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 fatalist i don't get it sounds like you are expecting him to still do boyfriendy stuff. even my male friends have rarely ever gotten me shuit for my brithday i can only think of two examples, and i have had a ton of guy friends even my boyfriends haven't always done what i was expecting, much less what i was hoping for. get over him if he's telling you are better off without him it is time to move on and yknow, the only way you guys are gonna get past this is by not talking for at least a little while just wait till he gets another chick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!@#$% Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 happy birthday gurl :bday: there's other things out there that you'll fall in love with Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUR X3 Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 Move on hun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted July 5, 2006 Author Share Posted July 5, 2006 I fucking love this guy, it was only wishful thinking. i've done alot of random stuff for him, and it only takes a moment to show some one you care, and i done that through out are relationship. I assumed he would take every thing into cosideration and do something nice, and that wasn't the case. He talks about how he wishes he could do so much more for me, and how he hates the fact that he hasn't drew me anything, or given me any sunflowers, and even if we aren't together as grown adults, i would understand that shit is still the same, but he didn't even take that moment to show me he cared. i set myself up for dissapointment, i know. as of today i will stop, its not worth it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 its best that dude isnt getting you anything. i told you already, take a break from texas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraday Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 bahhhh, dont let boy-stuff get you down. the more you analyze the situation, the more depressed you will make yourself. trust me, i've learned the hard way. don't sweat the small stuff, babe.. have a happy birhtday and get shitfaced. it'll do you some good :) ^^that bear looks really pissed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seeking Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 if people dont act like they care, it's because they dont, end of story. as fucking hard as it is to accept, it's the truth. fuck any 'i dont know how'/'its not who i am' bullshit, it's all fucking lies. if someone cares about you, they will go out of their way to express it. if they don't, they're a selfish piece of shit who doesn't deserve you. nobody is worth crying over. i know its mad hard to understand, but it's the truth. you're young, you've got another 80 years of heartbreak ahead of you, let this one go and move on to the next. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RumPuncher Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 not entirely true seeking. some people do care, but they have the most fucked up way of expressing it. if some people just kept their caring to themselves, the world would be a better place. Now you seem to know this situation more than I do, but I know that there's been a ton of times in the past when I've come off as a jerk to girls because there was really no other option. we don't always try to be jerks, but sometimes it just happens, even when we wish it wouldn't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
26SidedCube Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 Pee in his butt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirtydoses Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 just go watch a season of Growing Pains, that will help. happy birthday anyways! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ego maniac Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee fuck these fools. ughhhh.... Happy B-day anyway Mz.Fatalist ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
^ . ^ Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 sorry sweety...i agree with seeking though. Not worth your time and pain. :( happy birthday though.. :heartbeat: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!@#$% Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 YO ms.fatalist come visit you'll be in a different place, you can meet some new people and remind yourself of how big this freaky ass world is. it is very difficult when two people who love each other cannot be together but it happens, and life goes on for both people your feelings will fade in time and as long as you don't pine for him and cause yourself a lot of pain, you will remmeber it fondly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUR X3 Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 Eat a turkey, swiss, and avacado sandwich. They make me happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 ^yes. that shit is good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
10 Dollar Blowjobs Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 why are you searching for male love from this douchebag when you have an entire forum of male douchebags who will shower you with affection Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
10 Dollar Blowjobs Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 Eat a turkey' date=' swiss, and avacado sandwich. They make me happy.[/quote'] holy shit that sounds bomb. too bad i dont have avacodo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunTimePartyTeam Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 Happy Birthday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaBeantownProphet Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 all i gotta say to that is dudes will be dudes. happy belated birthday and just move on with that bullshit. it's not even worth it. =) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 My ex emailed me today and let me know a member of her family I realy liked is dying of brain cancer.......fuck edit: happy birthday btw Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrishCarBombs Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 HAPPY BIRTHDAYY!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eye for an eye Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 happy birthday... and happy birthday to me tommorow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Mamerro Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 By the way... Weren't you gonna come round these parts soon? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
earmuffs Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 its best that dude isnt getting you anything. i told you already' date=' take a break from texas.[/quote'] yeah a break in your bed you sly devil. /no homo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardyHarHar Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 Fatalist, it sounds as though no one on this board wants to give you the real crack advice. I'm going to try and do that because the way you live your life in no way concerns me and it seems way beyond me to say 'get over him' (though that's what I'm thinking). Maybe you are too depressed to remember that love is like a game or a dance. You have to play hard to get every now and then. Leave him alone for a little while, tell him you're busy, act offhand. the upside to this is that if you do it for long enough you'll actually convince yourself that you're over him and it will give you a little space to examine things from afar. * Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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