fatalist Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 finally the guy i been seeing since december...is now my man...we made it offical with the bf/gf titled not to long ago....i couldn't be happier but seven days into our new relationship...he tells me, he has been thinking about going back home to philly to live...something about how he wants to be there for his mother while she is still young...and how he misses his siblings...but i know there're sub-reasons why he is going living here where i stay, all he has is his job and a few friends... i told him i wasn't going to stop him from leaving...cause it would be a selfish act on my part chilling with him lastnight i got this madd vibe that it wasn't the same anymore...thoughts were running through my fuckin head like "why the fuck im i still with him" so he's leaving in two months...two of my friends say im just a piece of ass till he goes...i should bail out i need to stop running on emotions and start thinking logically so what the fuck do i do..... and how do i break it down to him....that i care but i got to go.. i need some 12oz remedy. what would you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azert Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 I would become a lesbian.. The plain truth always works best, don't soften it up just tell him what you posted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyeforAnEYE Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Do what you think is right. you now you'll get a handful of real responses and the rest jsut dumb ones on here. use your gut instinct. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Telo Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Option # 1.. Be a pansy and follow him or weep about the whole situation.. Option # 2... Break it off and go look for some more fish in the sea.. There are millions out there.. I'd choose the latter.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
26SidedCube Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 My toes would be cramped. P.S. Making shit 'official' is retarded unless you're 100% both of you plan on being there for one-another for the rest of your lives. You guys need to be more clear on the type of relationship you both really intended on having with one another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GucciCondom Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Well if he is leaving anyway why stay with him longer? Gives more time to get attached I guess. I would just sit him down and talk about it and explain how you feel. If you think it would be hard to talk about try writing him a little letter so you can have all your thoughts out clear and he has to hear everything you have got to say. Then after all that you can come holler at me since im in PA. :crazy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T=E=A=S=E Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 if i were in your shoes, i'd: stay in the relationship until your man leaves, granted the sex is good. if its lowsy, go ahead and wish him luck with his move back home and break it off. simple as that. ps- if you do stay with him, dont fall in love, realise this is relationship is only for the next two months or whatever... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted May 26, 2004 Author Share Posted May 26, 2004 Originally posted by 26SidedCube My toes would be cramped. P.S. Making shit 'official' is retarded unless you're 100% both of you plan on being there for one-another for the rest of your lives. You guys need to be more clear on the type of relationship you both really intended on having with one another. too true mann.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adderall Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 that guy sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TURBOCAPSLOK Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 LADIES AND GENTLEMEN....12OZ PRESENTS TO YOU ITS FEMALE VERSION OF THE OLD TEASOLA! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyeforAnEYE Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 I think turbo will agree, throw some salad on him ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfreshsushi Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 drop him and get your groove on with someone else. waiting around for him to leave will only make you both think "what if...?" quit while you're ahead while you're still in a position to. the longer you stay the more it will hurt when he's gone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T=E=A=S=E Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Originally posted by EyeforAnEYE I think turbo will agree, throw some salad on him ;) :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted May 26, 2004 Author Share Posted May 26, 2004 Originally posted by EyeforAnEYE I think turbo will agree, throw some salad on him ;) your sweet..im waiting for homeboy's phone call...i hate to do this. but its true i will only be hurting myself if i stick around how should i act with him afterwards...we work in the same place?:confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyeforAnEYE Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 KNIGHT BIZZLES FOR LIFE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyeforAnEYE Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 you work in the same place? oh boy. do you see him during the day at all? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villain Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Damn I was going to say my feet would be cramped.... Seriously though you need to talk about this with him. Cause when you assume you make an ass out of u and me.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted May 26, 2004 Author Share Posted May 26, 2004 Originally posted by EyeforAnEYE you work in the same place? oh boy. do you see him during the day at all? yea..we see each other...but only talk like 3 times a workday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T=E=A=S=E Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 your relationship is the crap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TURBOCAPSLOK Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 http://www.enhancedweb.com/BisManMcdonalds/McDonald's/ronald.jpg'> http://www.huntingdonmcdonalds.com/images/032003salad.jpg'> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyeforAnEYE Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Originally posted by TURBOCAPSLOK http://www.enhancedweb.com/BisManMcdonalds/McDonald's/ronald.jpg'> http://www.huntingdonmcdonalds.com/images/032003salad.jpg'> :lol: :lol: that picture of ronald mcdonald kind of freaks me out. but anyways fatalist, jsut tell him exactly how you feel about the whole situation. The more turhtful you are the easier it is. it may suck, but in the long run it'll be better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TURBOCAPSLOK Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 http://www.i-mockery.com/goodpics/mcdonald-suicide.jpg'> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8onus Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 i think you're just gonna have kill him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanity Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 bend over and quit your bitchin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Sounds like you already know what you want to do. So…do it, I guess. Or you can be his piece of ass for a couple of months and enjoy the time you spend together. Whatever you do, don’t go and create a problem for yourself. That’s a common feminine mistake. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DETO Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Fatalist, here is what you do, move to New Mexico and we can be girlfriend/boyfriend. I will never leave you. :love2: <span style='color:888888'>swonk tiuqi <====...</span> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Dazzle Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 If I was in your shoes...... ......I would rub myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GucciCondom Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Deto I'll trade places with you so you can live in PA. My boy moved to New Mexico he said the herb out there is cheap as fuck. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuck Ya'll Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 Here's some advice: why don't you talk to HIM about it? And don't underestimate your intiution. Soon as you pick up the vibe that "things aren't the same", you are usually right. I believe it's time to move on. Why become attached and stay in a relationship where there is no future? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DETO Posted May 26, 2004 Share Posted May 26, 2004 it's cheap and it's killer! :dazed: you should make a trip down to visit your boy and we'll all get down and smoke that green stickie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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