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I need boyfriend help.. guys? gals?

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by got tha feva, Jan 11, 2002.

  1. got tha feva

    got tha feva Guest

    Okay so I met this guy, and he's totally blowing my mind. He's smart, funny, high energy, extremely attractive, artistic, COOL AS FUCK and just all together well rounded as far as personality and hobbies go. I met him at a party about a year ago and was hyped on some pills that made me throw up so I had to end conversation about an hour after it started. Then I met him again last week at a club. I was breakdancing with my crew, he was drunk and trying to be funny/show off with his friends, I told him I thought he was gorgeous and he should take me out on a date. He was like whaaaat? I've been checking YOU out all night, blada blada blada... I gave him my number and he called me on my cell 2 hours after I left the club. Took me out for dinner the next night, then to a house party in cincy to meet a bunch of his friends. So far, so good, right? Well my question is this. I'm crazy about this guy, I'm not used to liking anyone.. and it's been a week of knowing him and I'm already infatuated. We have some intense conversations and are always laughing and joking around together, and he's told me how hot he thinks I am... so my question is this, if you thought a girl was hot, and you could hold a good conversation with her, would it put you off if she wasn't into playing games? I'm used to playing hard to get (because I don't really want to be 'gotten'), and guys fall for that... But I'm afraid if I'm honest and open with this guy about how I feel about him, then he'll think I'm desperate..

    The other thing is he just got out of a 4 year relationship about 5 months ago and I'm the first girl he's dated since then. He said it wasn't like some great relationship with the girl he wanted to marry, they were just together for a long time and grew apart.. but now he's just kindof clueless about the dating thing.. which is understandable but I feel like even though we call eachother about the same amount, I'm always the one who initiates us hanging out. If he's receptive to everytime I hint around at wanting to hang out, does that mean he's just to shy to ask if I want to do something or does it mean he really doesn't want to do something but doesn't want to hurt my feelings by saying no? Oh, and also, we've only kissed twice, so no booty is involved in this equation...

    Help a sista out, pleeeeeease!

  2. graffsurgeon

    graffsurgeon Banned

    Joined: Dec 20, 2001 Messages: 1,500 Likes Received: 0
    well you caught me at the end of the day and my braincell allowance usage is at an all time low..i did not bother reading this except for the part that said "he is cool as fuck"..because of the outstanding letters...heres a question for you.. a kid in the mix but with a different crowd is going after a varsity cheerleader jawdropper whom he knows she likes him but if these two different clicks collide there could be some self esteem damage..what does this guy do to convince the female it is all good...this guy needs this info for the weekend..


    a 4 year relationship eh? go easy on him...us men are scared to deat of women and their evils after that long. let him set the pace.:D
  4. fr8oholic

    fr8oholic Veteran Member

    Joined: Apr 23, 2000 Messages: 9,256 Likes Received: 2
    WHAT DO YOU DO TOGETHER WHEN SHIT'S NOT ON AND POPPIN.??? i guess if you can answer that then you're...??
  5. avils

    avils Senior Member

    Joined: Jul 26, 2001 Messages: 1,574 Likes Received: 0
    Apparently my advice isn't good enough to quote....

    EAT IT :mad:
  6. You Are a Toy

    You Are a Toy Member

    Joined: Mar 13, 2001 Messages: 307 Likes Received: 0
    fuck him without a condom.
  7. got tha feva

    got tha feva Guest


    I know you aint' tryin to steal somebody's thunder.. :rolleyes:

    Anyway, I say be your charming witty self around her friends. Be polite, but be cool. don't over do it and seem like you're trying to hard.. and don't under do it and come accross as a dick. Cosmo says when you're meeting a signifigant other's parents or friends you should focus on letting him/her hold the spot light. Laugh at their jokes, say little things that make them look good. Your s/o will appreciate your complimentive nature and how good they felt when they brought you around their friends (and want to bring you around more often), and their friends will appreciate how well the two of you click. There's nothing I hate worse than when one of my homies brings a girl around and she's making jokes and being a bitch at his expense to make herself look better.

    Anyway, even the most different people in the world can find things in common. You just have to ask the person question about themselves, find out what makes them tick, then play off of that.


    now back to me...
  8. got tha feva

    got tha feva Guest

    He better be scared. if he thinks 4 years of that girl was evil, wait until he's had 4 weeks with me. mua ha ha ha ha :crazy:

    seriously though, 4 years is a long time, no denieing it... but it seems like he's over her. he doesn't shit talk her ever, which is a good sign that he's not holding back some resentment or something. he actually barely ever talks about her, period, unless her name pertains to the story. I think with 5 months and the right girl, he'll forget she ever even exsisted. And the best part is I must seem like the most interesting girl in the world compared to knowing someone for 4 years... what do couples even talk about after 4 years? gas prices? :wink:

  9. T.T Boy

    T.T Boy Dirty Dozen Crew

    Joined: May 18, 2001 Messages: 21,803 Likes Received: 41
    be careful, 4 years is along time, he cant just forget about her ina few months, no matter if they grew apart or what, its not that easy. just dont let your self become the rebound girl. make sure hes sure about everything in the relationship. just take it slowly.
  10. got tha feva

    got tha feva Guest

    We practice doing head spins on carpet and seeing who can kick higher? I don't know, shit's always on and poppin.. I know what you're getting at though, and no we haven't sat in comfterble silence yet.. however, there's been some brief silence paired with some intense eye gazing.. I looked away everytime though. i suck. He's a hyper active gemini and I'm a fidgeting leo, what do you expect?

  11. Secret

    Secret Elite Member

    Joined: Apr 20, 2000 Messages: 3,169 Likes Received: 0
    I believe men are avocadoes. They don't do much at first. Then they start to ripen and they're so good and hearty. Before you know it... they start to ROTTEN and they're no good anymore!!

  12. got tha feva

    got tha feva Guest

    Funny you should say that. Me and my girlies all got tested after new years and made a vow to use condoms no matter what until we've been monogamous(sp) with someone for over 2 years. Too many people sleepin around and having unprotected sex.. I don't want to be a statistic.


    REGULATOR Elite Member

    Joined: Sep 6, 2001 Messages: 3,383 Likes Received: 0
    alrite he thinks ur hot and he likes you...SO ASK HIM OUT

    i wish a girl would like me shit.....im desperate as fuck
  14. Intangible

    Intangible 12oz Legend

    Joined: Jul 9, 2001 Messages: 17,479 Likes Received: 7
    im not even gunna read that...just date me..
  15. Secret

    Secret Elite Member

    Joined: Apr 20, 2000 Messages: 3,169 Likes Received: 0
    Here's MY advice to you...

    Don't screw him unless you're getting everything you want from him... your private parts are your most prized possession. Remember that.