THANKYOU Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 its hard as fuck to make friends once you get older... im pretty clueless as how to do it, and its very frusterating. lately i feel like a lot of my friends are worthless, and really wish i could break into some new circles of friends, but dont know where to start. on top of that, everyone is already clicked up, has their own circles, and being a new person trying to break into that and feel accepted is quite hard for me to do... i guess my other problem is i really dont give a fuck about many people, and thats fine sometimes, cuz im cool with being on my own, or chillin with my real family, or my lil bro, but at other times im feeling like im just getting more and more fucked up and punishing myself for some reason by staying at home and not trying to go hang out and meet people and live life. right now i feel like just saying fuck everyone, fuck females, just make money, get my situation right, and worry about myself for the next 10 years... what do you guys think? anyone else feel the same way? having trouble meeting new friends or whatever? people getting married and shit, getting left behind, shits gay... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
^ . ^ Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 i totally feel the same way. If it werent for school/work, i probably wouldnt be meeting anyone new. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
podrido Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 you could meet people on vampirefreaks.com catface Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
^ . ^ Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 i wouldnt wanna steal your thunder, pod. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty_habiT Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Uh oh.... I see the next 12oz relationship forming.... hahaha, and as my little 10 year old brother likes to quote.... "There's always e-harmony." hahahahaha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
potholder Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 sell coke on the weekends. you'll met a ton of new people, and they'll always be calling you. problem solved. j/k, I'm feeling the same way. I have severe anxiety issues and find it very difficult to meet new people. when I get drunk, I'm a very friendly person, and don't have any problems talking to/meeting people, but when I sober up, I'd rather be alone. it's quite a curse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kherd russel Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 I feel like that time to time, But if you have a couple of close buddies.. your good to go Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transparent Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 thats what the 12 is for Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transparent Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 how old are you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theo Huxtable. Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 just get involved in shit. work, school, joining some kind of club or something. usually when someone has something in common and/or is partaking in the same venture as you, it usually becomes easier to make friends. i know what you mean about it being harder once you get older. back when you were like 9 or 10, you could just walk in the neighborhood and just mingle or sit there, or just join in on a basketball game at some kids house down the block that you never met. pretty much guaranteed you'll be friends after a few more meetings. in your 20's (and even late teens), if you try that shit you'll be seen as some kind of creepy weirdo or loser. just get a job where socializing with people is required. if you're going to college join a club. go to a club and become a regular and mingle with other regulars. go to the gym and workout and say hi to people be friendly. get a workout buddy or something. anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest spectr Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Well right now your options are limited since you are old.. but these guys are always looking for new friends.... or you could always get one of these... I am sure it would make a great friend.. your third option is to rent a friend by the hour... might get pretty pricey but you know you will be happy... http://escorts.com/start.asp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LANDCLAM1 Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 fuck girlz.seriously. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeweyVonGumpsteinAndTheWiz Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 "at least your friends arent like mine" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeweyVonGumpsteinAndTheWiz Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 PopGunWar is always there for ya... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LANDCLAM1 Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 or mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mauler5150 Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Damn tease, I fully relate to what you are saying. Best thing I ever did to expand my circle of friends was to go back to school. When I am out I really can't be fucked meeting new people, unless they are females. Alot of my friends have settled down/mortgaged up/kids/etc but that is what happens when you get older I guess. Work is the same thing, however I work with fucktards at my current job, however, there are some cool people who work in the shopping centre that I have met though, so it isn't a total loss. And the other option is to become a member of a sporting team or something, or even a barfly. In the latter case you have alcohol as a social lubricant so it helps you to make new friends. Or just come on 12oz and crap on to people the world over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CORPORAL-PUNISHMENT Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 thats what the 12 is for ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeweyVonGumpsteinAndTheWiz Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 fuck friends dude. power is measured in enemies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CORPORAL-PUNISHMENT Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 volunteer your free time to teh elderly.. have grandma call u sonny.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seeking Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 fuck friends dude. power is measured in enemies. then i'm pretty much king of the world. tease, you're in a tough position. you've always been surrounded by jerk offs and jack asses, which by default sort of made you one, but there was always something about you that seemed a little... different. remember the thread about your gay friend coming out? i respected you a lot for that shit. im sure i still banned you half a dozen times afterwards, and just posted that shit about getting pregnant from swallowing last week, but still, i had love for you...sort of. i dont know you, but i have a feeling you're a bit wiggerish probably. that right there is gonna be a deterrent for new people giving you a chance. normal people cant relate to that shit and it automatically sticks you in the 'dumb ass' section. i second or third or whatever the idea of school. even if it's just community college. take a class or two in a subject you're interested in, but dont really know much about. psychology, photography, religions, whatever. it will give you a chance to interact with people who are probably nothing like you, which is exactly what you need. just take it slow and remember that everyone is weary of new people. don't try to be too much, or impress everyone with how hillarious you are. 'tease' is cool when you're in high school, but you're an adult now. you gotta put that shit to rest. express the fact that you're really trying to broaden your horizons and grow as a person. the people who matter will respect that and it will allow you a lot more lee-way when it comes to being a bit socially awkward. even if you use different words, as long as you're sincere and honest, people will respect that. or again, atleast the people who matter will. the ones who don't, fuck em, they're probably faggots anyway. good luck homie. ps, don't call people 'faggots', that shit is not acceptable in the real world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mauler5150 Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Yeah, the wigger aspect is definitely a turnoff to new people, as I have been told my 'intensity' is when I meet new people. But hell, my closest friend is a closet wigger (all he listens to is old school rap) but he doesn't advertise the fact by dressing like one. But he also has a hard time gelling with new people he doesn't meet thru a binding situation (work). Just be yourself, and if you give out a good vibe you shoul dhave no trouble in welcoming new people into your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dudebra1 Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 I'm sorry to be the dick, but seriously, shut up. You'll find friends. Either though work or school or parties you'll meet new people. Unless you actually don't ever leave your house you'll meet at least one person you can chill with, then you'll meet their friends and so on. Quit being so emo about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suca Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 but how do you reallllly feel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transparent Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 ohh spectr gayest post everr...great job! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mindvapors Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 This is coming from tease. tease. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T_R_O_N Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 i had the same problem back in highschool, i choose to go the school where no one from my jounior high went, they all went to the neighborhood schools, like i should have. Meeting people was hard because pretty much everyone already knew each other. But i met my best friend who happend to strangely enough have the same birthdate as me, born in the same hospital, and at the same time as me on the same day....fucking gnarly yes? anyway just talk to people, others may find it random,but you shouldnt close your self to people. you may turn into an emo and that is a fate far worse than death my friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mauler5150 Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Mindvapors, at least tease has entertained us with the gif thread made in his honour, as well as telling the story of how he earnt his 'brown wings' (with a pic provided no less!). So the least you can do is give the guy some advice on his problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xjoshuax Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 i had the same problem back in highschool, i choose to go the school where no one from my jounior high went, they all went to the neighborhood schools, like i should have. Meeting people was hard because pretty much everyone already knew each other. But i met my best friend who happend to strangely enough have the same birthdate as me, born in the same hospital, and at the same time as me on the same day....fucking gnarly yes? anyway just talk to people, others may find it random,but you shouldnt close your self to people. you may turn into an emo and that is a fate far worse than death my friend. no joke, my best mate and housemate are the same. born the same day, same hospital, but a year apart. on a positive note, i had similar problems pretty much the entire way through my schooling life. so i started going to hardcore shows hahahahhahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seeking Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Xyeah, becoming scene is the key to finding meaningful friendships. ha.X Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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