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Originally posted by chicken bone

Why are girls more forgiving about a guys promiscuous past? Probably the expectations of society (men are meant to fuck a lot and have lots of women, while women are supposed to be virgins

 

we're not, at least i'm not. we're just as jealous as men probably even more so.

(i've heard this complaint b4 on this board ) some girls get weird when u go out with your friends, or want to spend time away. or harass u when u don't call. it's cus they are just as jealous or insecure as you are.

my boy now is in the century club and better believe i keep tight watch on that ass. i'm not going to leave him unless he actually does something, but i keep an eye out. the number of people you are with effects both men and women.

also i bet most women have been with more people than they let you know, so men don't have to deal with the issue as much. just a thought.

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i havent read anything in the thread yet but that is because i've been wanting to start a thread like this for a while now. I almost broke up with my gf of a year and 6 months the other day because i see her once a week and i could not stand all the time shes been spending with her "bestfriend" while i know she hasnt cheated i've heard she flirts a ton with this guy and people have asked if they are going out. but other people told methis so i dont know if i can trust but the way she talks about him it seems like it is true..i know she used to like this kid and he's one of those "hardass" avirex pleather jacket rockers.... i don't know what to do we didn't really talk about it because she left to cancun I want to let her know how much it bothers me that she puts him on the same level as me? what should i do and am i right? :confused: i wrote her a letter saying it was him or me basically but that was after i told her to just leave and she picked me but we neevr talked about it in its entirety....like i'm mad still at the time i was just happy she picked me without hesitation..i want to let her know that it was wrong that she spent so much time with him and that she told me "i can see myself with him, maybe in a a couple years"

 

 

i read the thread now sucks chicken ahhhh man just when like heard shit like her liking this dude you get like the worst ideas in your mind...ahhhh i get jealous so quick ahhh i dont know what to do i guess you shouldnt worry she didn't do any of those things with anyone else while she was with you and maybe with you she took some kind of turn for the "better" ?

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does her reputation precede her?

 

its all about how much you like her and what you're willing to look past..

 

and remember..it's not girls being more accepting of a man's promiscuity , it is SOCIETY..

 

men are congratulated on their 'conquests'

women's purity has ALWAYS been the prize

 

another hint..don't believe everything you hear!!

 

when i was younger and was a lot more active in the club/bar scene, i heard so many stoopid rumors about MYSELF!

 

if i had a nickel for every dude who said he fucked me to his boys, when in reality he didn't get ANYTHING from me, well damn, i'd have more than 2 bucks.

 

i feel ya..i mean shit, sometimes i wonder if there is a man out there who falls in love and truly devotes himself, without flirting with other chicks, checkin em out, lookin at porn, going to strip clubs....damn! sometimes its very tough to come to erms with some of that bullshit..and decide that hey ..

fuck that, i cannot be in a relationship with some womanizer, even if i do like him when we're alone..

 

remember..you can afford to be a little choosy..there's 3 billion bitches out there..

 

surely thers a sweet one for you that hasn't been around the block, to the candy store, down the alley and back...

 

or get over it..

show the girl some hot lovin with tenderness and a gentle caress and maybe you'll give her somethin she's never had..??

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hoes is hoes regardless whether they are female or male. i dont "accept" it from a guy any more or less than i do from a girl (although i really dont make it my business to know about other peoples sexual endeavors).

 

but... not everybody is gonna always be a hoe. i know plenty of people who got around and had a bunch of one night stands and then KAPOW they fell in love and have been totally happy and monogamous with their significant other.

 

 

ps. people are gay.

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Originally posted by Facet

hoes is hoes regardless whether they are female or male. i dont "accept" it from a guy any more or less than i do from a girl (although i really dont make it my business to know about other peoples sexual endeavors).

 

but... not everybody is gonna always be a hoe. i know plenty of people who got around and had a bunch of one night stands and then KAPOW they fell in love and have been totally happy and monogamous with their significant other.

 

 

ps. people are gay.

 

 

i completely agree.

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SWIF: OHHHHHHhhhhhh SHIET... SOMEONE was HIP to the slump. I grew up reading that comic. Toriyama Akira is really awesome. How do you know about it?

 

Miss D: man. Ill be out there this month. Hopefully. Please believe that Ill be hittin you up. ;)

 

Chicken bone: ok. check it out man.

 

We are not forgiving of promiscuous men. I hate whorres. They are disgusting.... Its just modern society/Media thats brain washed us into thinking that there ARE NOOOOOO monogamous men that TRUELY LOVE women.. the way women love men on a steriotypical basis. SO. I guess thats your explination. Plus... with all these skanky ass dating shows that promote illicit random acts of casual sex, etc. etc. dont help sistas to elevate their standards... or to actually HAVE standards....*shrug*

 

-- females have sexual partners like they change shoes for outfits these days... suck it up. deal.

 

whatever, man... just fuck what you hear and focus on HER. and how you feel when your with her. PERIOD. As long as shes diggin you-- and your diggin her.. she aint gonna cross you.. and i think thats all that counts.. just get checked...? and fuck the rest.

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Originally posted by doctor_slump

SWIF: OHHHHHHhhhhhh SHIET... SOMEONE was HIP to the slump. I grew up reading that comic. Toriyama Akira is really awesome. How do you know about it?

 

i read about it in an anime magazine (animerica) a few years back. it said this was the series toriyama launched after the end of the dragon ball series. how is the show anyway? how's the comic? i never really paid too much attention.

 

samura hiroaki is fucking thug, though.

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im here from the Penguin village....

 

Originally posted by swif1

i read about it in an anime magazine (animerica) a few years back. it said this was the series toriyama launched after the end of the dragon ball series. how is the show anyway? how's the comic? i never really paid too much attention.

 

samura hiroaki is fucking thug, though.

 

whats crackin Swif....!! Actually--- Dr.Slump is the comic that made the public REALLY notice Toriyama... and THEN... Dragon ball took off. I was a dragon ball fan till it got really trendy over here in the states... but yeah-- Dr. Slump is the Shit. Its about a scientific GENIUS(Dr.Slump) that creates a allmighty super-powered girl Robot (Arale) that lives amongst civilization-- basically a frankenstein story with a twist... All the characters on there are super sick. thats one artist that is underrated... Its not all gory or action packed like princess mononoke or ninja scroll... but anyways-- it was QUITE popular back in the day-- and i dont think that there is one japanese person that woudnt know Dr. Slump the cartoon.... id say its like the equivalent of.... Transformers over here...

 

i know this post makes me sound like a fucking animation maniac...

haha... im not....;)

 

whos Samura hiroaki...?

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ghost in a shell, ninja scroll, vampire hunter d, Princess Mononoke, magic knight rayearth and my favorite tehe.. sailormoon

 

 

yeah i used to live in japan, i have alotta dorky ass cards, and collectable items.. haha ;D

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o wOw.. no shit?

 

Originally posted by alure

ghost in a shell, ninja scroll, vampire hunter d, Princess Mononoke, magic knight rayearth and my favorite tehe.. sailormoon

 

 

yeah i used to live in japan, i have alotta dorky ass cards, and collectable items.. haha ;D

 

Where abouts? for how long>?

 

anyone check out "Spirited Away?" that shit was the shiEt

Giburi collections is the shiEt .PERIOD.

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I rekon that would be hell bad chicken bone but its fukn worse when u been with a chick u reall dig & really know her everything is all good then bam outta no where shit fuks up & u here the nastiest stories through friends bout what she been up2.Fukn girls love 2 play with ur mind especially when they came after u in a way but when they relize that u care bout them things change.But the best rememdy is 2 hook up with some new pussy no dout.

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Double standards are fucking stupid.

Just because the girl you're interested in got around doesn't make her any less of a person. She still is who she is. Maybe she's just having her fun and once she meets the right guy sleeping around might stop.

Why is it when guys sleep around, they get the high five but when girls go after what they want, they are labeled sluts? Maybe she's really into casual safe sex, what difference does it make if you are into her? Believe me, even if a girl doesn't sleep around that doesn't mean she can be trusted more than some girl who is honest with herself and gets sex when she feels like it.

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Originally posted by SukiSukiNow

Double standards are fucking stupid.

Just because the girl you're interested in got around doesn't make her any less of a person. She still is who she is. Maybe she's just having her fun and once she meets the right guy sleeping around might stop.

Why is it when guys sleep around, they get the high five but when girls go after what they want, they are labeled sluts? Maybe she's really into casual safe sex, what difference does it make if you are into her? Believe me, even if a girl doesn't sleep around that doesn't mean she can be trusted more than some girl who is honest with herself and gets sex when she feels like it.

 

agreed.

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Originally posted by ana

I think a lot of guys worry about whether or not their girlfriend has "gotten around" because 1-she'll have had better lays and will know if they're inadequate. 2-his friends will lay into him for dating a slut

3-the whole "used tire" idea (which is reprehensible and makes me wanna barf)

If a guy has gotten around, girls think 1-he's exciting 2-that they will be the one to change him 3-they must be special if he chose them over everyone else

The whole idea that if a girl has experience, she's a slut; if a guy has experience, he's a stud is pretty powerful too. Which guy really wants a slut? Which girl doesn't want a stud? This gross idea is everywhere in society and most people pick it up and injest it without even thinking.

 

You hit it on the head with a very large nail!!!

 

I mean even as (I like to think of myself as an understanding guy) I find it hard to exempt myself from this way of thinking... Like not once have I ever called her a slut or thought of her as one but I mean it just makes me uneasy and like jealous ( :mad: ) when I think about it... But I mean thats the same with any lover I guess (imagine a person you hav a crush on or is your gf/bf having sex or whatever with another person its like "GRRRRR!!!").

 

I guess its just I need to come to grips with my own ego and what I expect from another person. I think its blessed if you really have feelings for someone, to go into (or continue) a relationship UNINTENTIONAL about things and wihout EXPECTATIONs to hold your partner to any standard. (well unless they are a total shit, then you shoudnt be with them in the first place haha!).

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Re: o wOw.. no shit?

 

Originally posted by doctor_slump

Where abouts? for how long>?

 

anyone check out "Spirited Away?" that shit was the shiEt

Giburi collections is the shiEt .PERIOD.

 

HAHA! I missed all the manga/anime posts!! Dr. Slump is a good cartoon haha I like Dragon Ball better though.

 

Spirited Away is fantastic I have it on DVD... My Neighbor Totoro, Graveyard of Fireflies, Akira, Mononoke Hime, and this other one I can't remember..

 

Katsuhiro Otomo is the shit.. Studio Ghibli is consistently the shit. And Dragon Ball is dope.

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Hayao Miyazaki is the balls!

 

I have the Spirited Away Art Book.. Its so crunk. So many concept sketches and also the digital renderings and backgrounds.. Oh they are beautiful. Miyazaki also explains all his symbolism and themes in the movie. So fresh.

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Originally posted by chicken bone

Hayao Miyazaki is the balls!

 

I have the Spirited Away Art Book.. Its so crunk. So many concept sketches and also the digital renderings and backgrounds.. Oh they are beautiful. Miyazaki also explains all his symbolism and themes in the movie. So fresh.

 

ummm whats this you speak of?

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http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1569317771.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg'>

 

Check it out on amazon.com

 

The Art of Spirited Away

 

Cowinner of the Golden Bear at the recent Berlin Film Festival, Spirited Away is the latest fantastical creation by animation master Hayao Miyazaki. A fabulous ghost-infested adventure full of action, suspense, bizarre creatures, and compelling human characters, it is the pinnacle of animated fantasy and depicts the transformation of a sullen little girl into a powerful being. This lavish coffee-table book features artwork, stills, sketches, storyboards, and illustrations from the movie, a Disney release in September 2002. "Miyazaki has done it again, folks. Is anyone surprised?" — Anime Digital

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wOwza.

 

Originally posted by chicken bone

HAHA! I missed all the manga/anime posts!! Dr. Slump is a good cartoon haha I like Dragon Ball better though.

 

Spirited Away is fantastic I have it on DVD... My Neighbor Totoro, Graveyard of Fireflies, Akira, Mononoke Hime, and this other one I can't remember..

 

Katsuhiro Otomo is the shit.. Studio Ghibli is consistently the shit. And Dragon Ball is dope.

 

Dragon ball IS really good, I do admit... but all the Mass exploitation kinda makes me EHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. *Shrug*

 

Spirited Away... I just ABSOLUTLY LOVE LOVE LOVEEEEE that movie.... Al the characters, the realness of the scenery movement... Its just so beautifully done. Fuckin DOPE. BRILLIANT-ISM dot com....

 

and OMFG. You know about Grave of the fireflies.... THAT MOVIE MADE ME CRY!!!!!!!!!! One of my Favs, PERIOD.

 

damn... I just wasnt in the know that there are people that actually know about this here in the states... it actually kinda makes me happy....

:) :) :) :) :) :)

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