I dunno. I don't know how shit gets to these kinds of levels. If kids said some crazy shit, most of the time it was funny and i would laugh and then let them know to never say that shit again. If they did it again, the boy got cracked and the girl got snatched up and thrown in her room for undisclosed amounts of time.
The key is, you give kids shit that they really want, not because the want it, but so you can take it away later.