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To touch or not to touch

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by Giving Tree, Jan 4, 2005.

  1. Giving Tree

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    To touch or not to touch

    Discussion started by Giving Tree - Jan 4, 2005

    ok, i'm bored at work and debating this issue, so why not throw it to the wolves;

    i'm hanging out with this girl, younger than me, she's only 19, im mid 20s. she's cool, not terribly attractive, not ugly by any means, your basic cute girl. doesn't snap your neck at the mall, but you'd buy her a drink.

    now we've made out a few times, whatever... and she's been starting to sleep over. it's SUPER early on, so i can clean house if needed, drop it to friends, and keep things kosher. the problem is




    she has a 3 year old. *(dramatic, no?)*



    so here is the deal. she's not the one, she's not even a girl i'd keep around very long.. might be a bed buddy, whatever. i just got out of a terribly whack relationship where i had my heart served to me volley ball style and honestly i was REAL depressed about it for a good while. the girl still calls, she's trying to get us togeather or whatever, and i'm just not hearing it because i'm on the one strike you're out end of things. whatever.. this girl is a nice filler, pacifier to fill the gap till i get someone i want to be with or see on the regs. the problem is she's got a baby... i dont know if she's lookin to settle down or whatever, but i don't need that headache.

    so: do you call her tonight after work, eat some shrimp and get your game face on or do you chill, watch some sopranos with some pizza and call it another lonely night?


    on a side note, my new neighbor who lives below me is absolutely gorgeous. like a suicide girl but more adorable with a great smile. any idea on how to game her, let me know. *(not good at the random introduction shit, but did however introduce himself at random, meaning this girl has potential.)*

    so yeah, touch or no?




    giving: just ordered some fur lined boots.
     
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    <KEY3> - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    some girls with kids I know are way more together than others their age.
    Having a kid should force a bit of routine and maturity into your life.
    However... I've seen the exact opposite too.

    One girl I used to know now has 2 boys from 2 different fathers
    and she is actively trying to get pregnant again so she can have a girl too.
    Avoid this kind like the HIV.

    that said.... as long as you and the girl are honest with each other, there shouldnt be stress.
    Keep in mind that if you get bored, or meet someone better you will have to break up with two people.
    My good friend dated a girl with a little boy and he practically became the kids Dad.
    Then he realised that the girl was a manipulative bitch (who tried to sleep with his brother).
    It was easy for him to say 'see you never' to the girl but he hard a hard time getting over the kid.

    just follow your gut.
     
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  3. Giving Tree

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    Giving Tree - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    thats a problem i became aware of.


    thats why i want to keep this as chill as possible.. like i said i don't wanna be her man, i just wanna have her spend the night when the snow gets extra cold here. (seeks knows whats up.) so i don't know if i should just come at her like "look, i just wanna make out" status because that's weak game to drop, but might be necessary in this situation so there is NO confusion. I am NOT looking for a family/settle down anything. you read my other post.. i don't even know what i want to DO, let alone if i want to have a baby in my life.

    but i gotta say, the little girl is damn adorable. i'd definately chill with just the kid.



    giving: trying to keep it clean and above the belt.
     
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    kevin crusher destroyer - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    I'm saying it's a no go.

    The girl is 19 and has a three year old kid so that shouts tramp, which I suppose is good if you are looking for a "bed buddy"(I like that, more tasteful than fuck buddy.) But considering you are in your mid 20s she is probably looking at this as you being a potential father figure for her kid which is something I would never ever do and hopefully you don't want to do it either. Is someone to fill in those lonely nights worth a girl trying to get you to raise your kid?

    About your neighbor> I say go for it but if shit doesn't work out make sure it ends on a good note because you know you're going to have to see her every now and then since she lives in your building, plus if she's crazy not only will she know where you live, but it's a very short walk...or short toss of a bomb.
     
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  5. Giving Tree

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    Giving Tree - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    not a tramp as far as i know.the kid came from a bad decision when she was younger. (not that the kid was a bad decision, but the situation around it was) as far as her track record, of course i was going to check that before i put in work.

    sound better than the married girl who's been trying to 1 and 2 me to NO avail, not even completely hammered (i don't drink, so i was EXTRA smashed) did i let her touch me.. Mrs. YuckBody.



    giving: i should be rockstar. hook me up. anything is better than "member"
     
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    MESTHREE - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    if she knows you see her a "a nice filler" then do whatever. If not, make your intentions or lack there of clear or else it makes you a bit of an asshole.
     
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    Giving Tree - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    ^ planned.



    giving: mes3's got nothin' on me.
     
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    <KEY3> - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    aw jeeze

    < 3rd person talking is getting played >
     
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    Giving Tree - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    it was played when i disappeared the FIRST time.
     
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    GucciCondom - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    19, 3 year old kid, what a piece of shit. i wouldn't talk to her. ditch that.
     
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    <KEY3> - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    what are you talking about?

    so the girl got pregnant at 16? so what?
    Dont be so quick to hate. It doesnt mean she's a bad person,
    just that she made a bad decision and decided to make it better.
     
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    GucciCondom - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    I guess you have to know her to make the distinction.

    Every girl I've known to get pregnant before they reached 18 has been some white trash wigger girl that got pregnant so they could stay home and not have to go out and get a job or goto college.
     
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    graff goon - Replied Jan 4, 2005

    ^ ^^^word with the paste blonde hair and the baby blue fubu outfit i know them bitches. always fat 2
     
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    hahaha ^ money hit it.
     
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    i hate it when americans call eachother "money", "b", "black" and other words

    money is the worst though..it just doesnt make sense
     
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