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sexual peak?

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by loopsnew, Nov 19, 2004.

  1. loopsnew

    loopsnew New Jack

    Joined: Jun 3, 2003 Messages: 95 Likes Received: 0
    i haven't posted here in a while; never really even posted that much so hi again. got a question for you about sex and peaks and age and men and women.

    i'll be 28 tomorrow and this is alll i can think about. a few weeks ago i had a .. romantic interlude with one of my best friends... all i wanted to do was him, all weekend long.

    he, on the other hand, didn't. even though he just traveled over 600 miles to be with me. so... wtf?? i realize the fact the we were friends first makes it a little awkward, i mean, at one point he said he felt like he was belittling me.... ??? it was by the 3rd day that he began distancing himself, didn't even touch me that day/night.

    so i've been just trying to figure out if i'm a sex fiend and was expecting too much from him? or if it was something else? granted, there are waaay too many variables in this situation... i flat out asked him what was up... he said he felt smothered...??? and i'm thinking the whole time... if i was a guy that had just flown all that way for some ass that was all for the taking.... um, yeah, seems like a no-brainer to me.

    so i guess what i ask of you, aside from my own situation ( although your thoughts on this would be enlightening and welcomed cause i'm damn confused and could use some unbiased views/ advice) do you find that your sexual intensity is at a discord compared to your partner? does age and sex ( male/ female) have anything to do with it? what are the things i can expect to encounter in future relationships that i should be wary of in this sense? i mean, shit. i thought i was being straight forward. :sigh: so yeah... thanks.
  2. iloveboxcars

    iloveboxcars 12oz Royalty

    Joined: Jul 29, 2002 Messages: 20,506 Likes Received: 450
  3. loopsnew

    loopsnew New Jack

    Joined: Jun 3, 2003 Messages: 95 Likes Received: 0
    i'm not :) ... for a "veteran", your response shows an astonishingly absurd amount of substance. i can see why you have over 5k posts ;)
  4. iloveboxcars

    iloveboxcars 12oz Royalty

    Joined: Jul 29, 2002 Messages: 20,506 Likes Received: 450
    holy shit, when did i become a veteran.

    And some of my posts actually do have substance. But when someone comes on the board asking for relationship advice i give them bullshit. why? because how the fuck are we supposed to know. every situation is different. all i did was give you the first short answer possibility in my head. if that isn't it then maybe you are annoying and he doesn't enjoy giving it to annoying girls. i know i cant stand it.

    Also, the "sexual peak" thing is garbage. I know a lot of 28 year olds that are still sex hounds.
  5. Verbal Kint

    Verbal Kint Member

    Joined: Oct 25, 2004 Messages: 760 Likes Received: 0
    either you're busted or your friends a faggot

    the only 2 options

    I guess he could not be a fag and just be a pussy

    .....I've met a lot of old sluts that are banging hella dudes at like 40 - 45 - --- -- I think they are into sex until that ripe old age because guys have all there sperm depleted and think whats the point
  6. iloveboxcars

    iloveboxcars 12oz Royalty

    Joined: Jul 29, 2002 Messages: 20,506 Likes Received: 450
    wrong verbal.

    there are a lot of reasons why i choose not to have sex with a girl. that doesn't make me a faggot. that makes me a man that doesn't go after every piece of tail just because it's there. you'll learn when you get out of highschool.
  7. »§ÜGÅR«

    »§ÜGÅR« Senior Member

    Joined: Aug 16, 2003 Messages: 1,519 Likes Received: 0
    i'll state the obvious, but..

    did you ever think maybe he just wanted to visit with you, and not fuck all day/night? Maybe he felt like you wanted a serious relationship out of him and was tryin to corner him there. Eh...that's all that comes to mind for me.

    you can pay my receptionist on the way out. thx. ;-)
  8. JohnnyHorton

    JohnnyHorton Senior Member

    Joined: Apr 2, 2002 Messages: 2,201 Likes Received: 0
    he was talking to the thread starter dude
    he wasn't calling you a faggot, he was calling the dude who wouldn't fuck her gay

    edit: typo
  9. iloveboxcars

    iloveboxcars 12oz Royalty

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  10. Herbivore

    Herbivore Senior Member

    Joined: Oct 12, 2004 Messages: 1,431 Likes Received: 1
    post pics (nude, preferably)... it'll help us develop our assessment of the situation. help us... help you.
  11. !@#$%

    [email protected]#$% Moderator Crew

    Joined: Oct 1, 2002 Messages: 18,517 Likes Received: 623
    it's always disconcerting for a woman when a man doesn't want it.
    it happens though.
    and it isn't neccesarily a reflection on you.
    i've broken up with a couple guys because of our crappy sex life.
    there were a few different reasons, in one case, the dude just didn't want it that much (about once every two weeks).. i also took his virginity from him. when he was 25. (????)
    still don't get that one.
    i used to think maybe he was gay.

    as a 28 year old woman, i understand where you're at
    but don't trust that "sexual peak" stuff.
    every person, and couple, is different.
    it is good to be straightforward about your expectations before you get into a relationship.
  12. LadyNapua

    LadyNapua Senior Member

    Joined: Nov 6, 2004 Messages: 1,376 Likes Received: 52
    Sometimes no matter how cool or sexy someone is..the other person doesn't want to fuck them.....I have known guys that are awesome in looks and personallity but that doesn't mean I wanted to drop my jeans for them just because we hung out.
  13. iloveboxcars

    iloveboxcars 12oz Royalty

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  14. <KEY3>

    <KEY3> Veteran Member

    Joined: Mar 24, 2004 Messages: 6,878 Likes Received: 2
    hi loopsnew, how ya been?
    It's been a while, we used to chat when I was know as 'kilo7'

    but yeah... I date a 28 year old girl (or woman I guess?)
    and she was insatiable. I mean like days straight where
    when ever it was possible, we would go. It does get tiring,
    but dont worry about it. Everyone should be able to find someone
    with a matching sex drive. Otherwise, have fun looking.
  15. Rodney Trotter

    Rodney Trotter Senior Member

    Joined: Aug 23, 2001 Messages: 1,683 Likes Received: 1
    I'm just guessing here but he probably doesn't like you in that way. Simple as that.