try being responsible, that would help. I'm not puttin you down or anything, but you both put yourselves in the situation and to take the easy way out (abortion), is pretty wack, but that's my opinion and i'm sure it doesnt matter to you...
if you push the issue of abortion on her, shit may get ugly and she could wind up hating you for life and sucking you dry for child support, so watch out with that one. You shouldnt PUSH anything on her. yea, it's your baby too, but it's her body, not yours.. guys gotta realize that stuff.
good luck with whatever happens..