Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 So.. heres the skinny. I am an owner of a promotion company with 2 of my friends, we have been throwing parties at a location since September. Now the said location has this one nice ass bartender. At the first party my one who rocks a good game started to kick it 2 her, she respectfully declined by giving dude a fugazi #. Fast forward to last party, December 22nd, Ma starts to talk to me and i make no real advances towards her. I'm basically playing cool cuz my boy couldn't cop it so i'm like fuck it i'll just kick it with her at the bar. So night winds down and i drive my one boy who is bombed outta his mind home about a good 35min away. I ask Ma if she wants to keep me company on the way home. She's down, so i'm like bet. We do whatever, whatever chillin on the way down and on the way back i get to talking. Here are the cards that i am dealt. Chick moved to NJ from VA with her man of 3 years. They met outta High School and stayed since. He beats her. She has tried to leave. Folks told her that she got into the mess with him against their wishes she has to get out on her own and come back home. She dont wanna go home and she has 2 friends up here. 1 of which will offer her a place to stay. she dont want dude in her life. Chick is mad cool not the usual snotty chicks from the area. In my mind def something to keep at bay. i told old girl to dip on dude and move out cuz she def doesnt wanna move home and to enroll back in school which dude has been putting a lock on. Basically i told her she's chill in my book from what i know about her minus fucked situation of an abusive bf that wont let her bounce. I told her i'm not doing shit unless she's out. Now question. Based off of the limited notes i gave all of you, whats your imput. I have a good idea of what i wanna do but am looking for others opinions. :confused: :D ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 what the fuck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAR Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 tl;dr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hayabusa Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 1. she wont leave her abusive boyfriend 2. she wont fuck you 3. she will do nothing but blow up your phone asking for advice and telling you her sad stories, while all the while you're single and able to be with her and provide a better life 4. she wont give a fuck about you and continue to do #3, and #1 too much drama dude move the fuck on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 jerk off on her bras Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
After School Special Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 Now question. Based off of the limited notes i gave all of you, whats your imput. Limited notes? That shit was a fucking book. EDIT: I take back my advice, it sucks. Hayabusa broke it down correct. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bojangles Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 pics? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Share Posted December 31, 2007 1 can hit it 2 dont talk about dude after the first night 3 it can go whatever way i want it to go dont get it twisted. i dunno maybe i just liked fucked up situations so i never see a dull moment make sense? i'm getting drunk 2night Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Share Posted December 31, 2007 no problem knocking dudes out, i dont need to brag. i will jeck off in her bra and get pics deal? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hayabusa Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 i dont know in my entire experience with regards to dudes who treat their girls badly, the girls have always stuck around or gone back to the guy after a bit of a break i dont see this working out but good luck man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RathofGod Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 kick it to her if she opens up to you means that she wouldn't talk to anyone else and you seem cool so get at it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 1. smoke a 20 rock 2. take a shit in the woods 3. climb mount everest 4. quit being a pussy and smash that silly cunt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Share Posted December 31, 2007 thanks for the input hayabusa. she did split once when they both moved to VA. Dude pulled a 180 and did the lovey dovey shit she likes and her dumbass took him back only for him to revert back to mr prick. no she is basically in a situational bind waiting for her friend to come back to nj after the first. (in florida for new years with family) so that they can move out. she dont want him knowing anything about bouncing. More like he comes home from work and she is gone type shit, feel me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Share Posted December 31, 2007 those were me initial thoughts too Rath peyote, i got you on the bra thing now u want more? okay i will. all u had to do is ask Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 those were merely suggestions. if you want to follow them is up to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest shai_hulud Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 Someone who drops all that on me gets the, "Well, hope that works out for you, call me when it's all sorted out and we'll go from there" treatment. Especially if I just met them. She's just looking for sympathy, so don't be that dude. Don't be mean about it, just tell her you're in school and have a job and you can't do much right now. Meaning, "I'm not gonna be your shoulder to cry on while you don't do shit about it." If she wanted to go home, she'd go to the Salvation Army or a women's shelter, and they'd give her the money for a bus ticket. Seriously. Don't get me wrong, I feel for people who are in abusive situations. But, it sounds like you're coming up and if you let this sidetrack you, you'll regret it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Share Posted December 31, 2007 thanks shai and i already gave her those remarks in different words. she acceptted and still wanted to play xbox 360 with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lord_casek Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 smacky: read this and don't post in your thread until you have read it. http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html -casek Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
^ . ^ Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 its usually not the best thing to start fucking people who work for you/with you/etc. hayabusa basically broke it down; you'll just wind up being her personal shrink, because if she really wanted to leave homeboy she would. sounds like a weak minded dumb girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 does anyone else get the impression this dude is like 15 and doesnt own a company? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Share Posted December 31, 2007 it's fucking blocked cuz i'm at work so i'll read when i get home. until then everyone comment and i'll wait, read, and then post. until then... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercer Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 There is all ways a problem trying to take a chick out of an abusive relationship. They either want to get shit on by dude or have personal problems that you won't want. Either way you could be the rebound guy, so smash. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Share Posted December 31, 2007 does anyone else get the impression this dude is like 15 and doesnt own a company? 24, fulltime student, fulltime job, promotion is a side bit. try again bro Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lord_casek Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 it's fucking blocked cuz i'm at work so i'll read when i get home. until then everyone comment and i'll wait, read, and then post. until then... here's an introduction, you gotta read this. it will make you grow up quick. Foundations of Ladder Theory Sally: We are just going to be friends, OK? Harry: Great, friends. It's the best thing...You realize, of course, that we can never be friends. Sally: Why not? Harry: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape, or form - is that men and women can't be friends, because the sex part always gets in the way. Sally: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved. Harry: No, you don't. Sally: Yes, I do. Harry: No, you don't. Sally: Yes, I do. Harry: You only think you do. Sally: You're saying I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge? Harry: No, what I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you. Sally: They do not. Harry: Do too. Sally: They do not. Harry: Do too. Sally: How do you know? Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her. Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive. Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too. Sally: What if they don't want to have sex with you? Harry: Doesn't matter, because the sex thing is already out there, so the friendship is ultimately doomed, and that is the end of the story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 how can you be full time at school AND work a fulltime job?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metronome Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 sounds like your typical female bullshit "he hits but me he loves me, I can change him" type situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blood fart Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 Hip hop is stupid. So are you. And the girl you want to make it with. I hope you all get cancer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smacky636 Posted December 31, 2007 Author Share Posted December 31, 2007 Thanks Casek oh bro dont get it twisted i'm gonna bag it no doubt. i was just throwing this out their to get others reaction to the situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hayabusa Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 dont get me wrong sure smash but ggirls like this want attention, they want someone to pour their shit out to all the time and they always hope their man will change so when the guy pulls a nice sweet guy thing for about a week, shes gone and back at it because shes still in love and is hoping to somehow salvage everything and is blind to the fact that there is nothing there to slavage regardless of how hard she tries dont get trapped as the shoulder to cry on guy while she gets her bearings back and fucks some other dude in the end trust me if it were me, this would def., not be worth the trouble/effort Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blood fart Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 I hope she gives you the clap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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