Jake Stevens Posted September 11, 2006 Author Share Posted September 11, 2006 TO BE HONEST.. I feel like a lot of people like to refer to suicide as it was selfish, like how you said that he left a lot of people in tears...and lots of people say this..but I know the feeling of fake-ass appreciation. I don't know anything about this case, but for example, in any suicide situation, these people may have said they liked him a lot, but did they ever really hang out with him? Did they ever listen to him? Did they actually care about him, or was he just an accessory of a friend to them? Its something to think about sometimes, because just because these people said they liked him or whatever, it doesn't mean they really cared. i know that adn agree but this kid was like a ring leader of his mates.. they always do everythin together play on the same team go same school etc.. i dunno im jus back from my mates and she still dont know anymore.. shits mad.. there is a old remains if a house in a fields where i live and the house has no plantlife in it at all and when ya in the house even as a 20yr old it gives me the shits.. somethin bout that place.. i know somethings up with it.. i heard old stories of people gettin killed in that place but i never believe... until i also read stephen kings books.. now i think everythin is haunted! im goin back to read pre-school kids books a lot safer and the have lovely pictures.. edit* kinda off topic at the end.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2Blazzed Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 over the weekend this kid billy from around the way. dropped to the floor,seziured for about 30 seconds.Then his eyes rolled behing his dead and his soul left his body,i unfortunantly witnessed this and had some trouble sleeping that night and conducting myself correctly.He overdosed on a high mix on xanax n cocaine."kids like this make me worried for the future of this world"- first police officer on the scene Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
26SidedCube Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 There's something to be said about people considering suicide selfish. I used to agree with this mentality- how could I not? You leave a grip of people on the planet sad and you never have to deal with the reprocussions... seems inconsiderate enough, right? Then I got to thinking about the hell that some people's day-to-day must be (and I'm not talking about people with cushy lives gone sour for a second or a bad break-up) to actually go through with hitting the kill switch and it occured to me that it's pretty selfish of others to expect someone who's condition, be it physical or mental, shows no signs of improving to 'tought it out' and 'hang in there' just so they don't have to go without a friend/relative. People should be more understanding when it comes to stuff like this. I'm not saying every suicide is the most nobile or geniune thing, but there is a certain amount of respect that should be given when a person decides to hit cancel on their life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makeithappennn Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 my good friend killed himself 3 years ago,suicide is a selfish act..but if you feel there is no need for living you should have the right to take your own life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardyHarHar Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 I heard about someone, a doctor, married, who was incredibly suicidal for years. His wife finally gave in, and said, "If you have to do it, then do it." He killed himself by piping his exhaust into his car. His wife and sister defend his decision, everyone else was very upset with them for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoeLarryCurly Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 over the weekend this kid billy from around the way. dropped to the floor,seziured for about 30 seconds.Then his eyes rolled behing his dead and his soul left his body,i unfortunantly witnessed this and had some trouble sleeping that night and conducting myself correctly.He overdosed on a high mix on xanax n cocaine."kids like this make me worried for the future of this world"- first police officer on the scene wow...the same exact thing happened to one of my best friend's cousin about a month ago, minus the seizuring. xanax and yay, along with booze were involved. uppers+downers and booze are never ever a good combiniation before falling asleep. it is really fucked up considering the kid's apartment that he was in was his best friends, who found him all blue, unresponsive, the next morning. and we all know who sold him the yay that night, motherfucker is nowhere to be seen. real sorry you had to actually see that shit go down man. i've seen that shit happen to a few people, but they were lucky to come out of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WeakSauce Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 TO BE HONEST.. I feel like a lot of people like to refer to suicide as it was selfish, like how you said that he left a lot of people in tears...and lots of people say this..but I know the feeling of fake-ass appreciation. I don't know anything about this case, but for example, in any suicide situation, these people may have said they liked him a lot, but did they ever really hang out with him? Did they ever listen to him? Did they actually care about him, or was he just an accessory of a friend to them? Its something to think about sometimes, because just because these people said they liked him or whatever, it doesn't mean they really cared. hit the nail on the head. it seems in some cases that those people were directly or inderictly the cause of the persons depression or decision to take their life because they didnt feel like their "friends" actually cared about them enough to be there for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Stevens Posted September 13, 2006 Author Share Posted September 13, 2006 ok now i just been over in my mates house to see how she was.. cops all there asking questions i get pulled in and told to stay in the kitchen with the lil sister.. she 3.. so i there messin about not taking too much notice to whats going on.. few mins later the police ask me into the sitting room and ask me bout the kid.. i was like wtf? i answer there questions all grand... then they tell me that i have to sign something.. its a murder case now.. FUCK Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
papa_dukes Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 wow im typeless man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
papa_dukes Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 sucks to be you BTW Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DISTRACT Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 I personally haven’t had much experience wit the whole suicide thing, except once a dude jumped in front of a train I was on and being retarded I opened the doors, only to see his mangled body. Scared me for seriously, it was a train full of school kids as well. People are fucked up that’s all I can say. Did that happen about a year ago in melbourne? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Issac Brock Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 Wow, I actually expected a bunch of people ot yell at me for saying that shit in this thread, but I got the opposite. gitme ma props. Nah, but I totally agree with 26sidedcube in what he said...a kid at my school killed himself last year, I never knew him, but it seemed like a lot more people knew him when he died, and it became cool to put RIP <his name> in their AIM profile...I feel like its even more disrespectful for people to pretend they cared when they know deep down that they didn't at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrafWizard Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 I live on the same street as a guy who hung himself because he took steroids, and the mood swings go so bad one day. Its sad stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Issac Brock Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 ^^Yeah, that is soooo tragic, its indescribable. Believe it or not, all you potheads, if you use regularly and decide to quit, you can get the same types of mood swings and get intensely bad depression. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soupBDC Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 What's strange is here I am thinking Ireland's still so fucked up that a suicide thrown in the mix wouldn't exactly be noteworthy. Sure, heartbreaking to see someone throw their potential away, but when your island's dividing itself up into more and more factions, no longer with even the intent of religious righteousness and purification, but simply for right out business... I wouldnt have thought to think a suicide was exactly straying from the norm. There's my ignorance showing... Im sorry for your ex's sister's boyfriend's family's loss. edit: oh, now it's a murder case... somehow my brain just wants to fit it into the big Irish wanker generalization. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c-top Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 ah, the ol' hanging from a tree thing... a buddy of mine who lived out of state, whom i had met through a friend who moved from his state to my state, and he came to visit a few times, hung himself; apparently using a shoelace from a tree in his backyard. he was an amazing skater and a dope kid, major bummer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shitting Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 Nah, but I totally agree with 26sidedcube in what he said...a kid at my school killed himself last year, I never knew him, but it seemed like a lot more people knew him when he died, and it became cool to put RIP <his name> in their AIM profile...I feel like its even more disrespectful for people to pretend they cared when they know deep down that they didn't at all. that sort of shit pisses me off. people acting like they're shattered when someone they don't know that well dies.knowing dead poeple is the new black.... edit - that wasn't aimed at anyone in this thread. sorry for your loss jake s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soupBDC Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 I thought Ireland was doing well as of late.... I doubt it. Then again if I took everything I heard as the whole picture, Ireland would be just a pigpen for the American police force. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Stevens Posted September 14, 2006 Author Share Posted September 14, 2006 that sort of shit pisses me off. people acting like they're shattered when someone they don't know that well dies.knowing dead poeple is the new black.... edit - that wasn't aimed at anyone in this thread. sorry for your loss jake s dude, i not acting all shattered.. im just in a bit of shock.. the kid not that close to me, just i know him and it just a bit of a shock to me and the whole area.. i know what your saying soon as someone dies people all pop up syaing how wonderful that person was.. fuck them they where not around when he/she was alive or prob treated him/her like shit.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 Yeah, I'm pretty sure Ireland is one of the best countries to live in right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
papa_dukes Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 the IRA is some bitches I hear Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Stevens Posted September 14, 2006 Author Share Posted September 14, 2006 it is.. if ya take away the smell in the city the price of shit and the general cost of livin its a deadly place to live.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isor357 Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Translating english bothers me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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