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giftgiving

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by Mr. Mang, Jul 17, 2005.

  1. Mr. Mang

    Mr. Mang Elite Member

    Joined: Feb 27, 2002 Messages: 2,901 Likes Received: 1
    i have a question about something...



    i have this girl friend of mine.. we used to date. she was always good to me but recently has been really bitchy with me for no reason when i really do my best to be her friend. shes been ignoring me a lot lately and just been generally pretty cold.

    it was her birthday a few days ago, and i got her a really nice gift thinking the situation would have smoothed out a lot by then. well, it hasnt. and when i tried to get in contact with her a few times to give her the gift, she flaked on it. said she was too busy or whatever.

    is it my place to try anymore? i could use the gift i got her. although i got the gift for her and told her about it, i just dont feel obligated to try so hard for someone that doesnt want to put forth any effort at all.

    should i just keep it? im really leaning that way, but thought i'd get some advice from people here. i can depend on 12oz for some good advice..
     
  2. fatalist

    fatalist Dirty Dozen Crew

    Joined: Mar 10, 2004 Messages: 6,354 Likes Received: 25
    just give her the gift, and then stop talking/trying or whatever with her. She'll feel pretty shitty after that.
     
  3. sarcasm

    sarcasm Elite Member

    Joined: Oct 30, 2003 Messages: 3,352 Likes Received: 35
    fatalist is right.

    but if i were you, i'd keep the gift or return it for a refund. if she knew that you got a gift for her, and still flaked out to meet up with you, then i'd say she doesn't deserve your kindness.
     
  4. Mr. Mang

    Mr. Mang Elite Member

    Joined: Feb 27, 2002 Messages: 2,901 Likes Received: 1
    the gift is a $400 flight certificate from an airline. non refundable. fuck it. im keeping it.
     
  5. fatalist

    fatalist Dirty Dozen Crew

    Joined: Mar 10, 2004 Messages: 6,354 Likes Received: 25
    Give it to me, i need a ticket anyways!!!!!!!!!

    :D :D
     
  6. villain

    villain Veteran Member

    Joined: Jul 12, 2002 Messages: 5,190 Likes Received: 2
    thats an expensive ass gift for an exgirlfriend.
    must be some of that "one that got away" shit...
     
  7. Mr. Mang

    Mr. Mang Elite Member

    Joined: Feb 27, 2002 Messages: 2,901 Likes Received: 1
    ^ i know. but she was never one to care much about money and was always a good girlfriend. she even flew out to cali when i was there and has hooked me up with hotel rooms and such.


    the plan to semi-reciprocate seemed goot at the TIME but... no love for a hater... shes been flaky and bitchy as hell.



    c'est la vie.
     
  8. Abracadabra

    Abracadabra Dirty Dozen Crew

    Joined: Dec 28, 2001 Messages: 22,906 Likes Received: 113
    use the voucher then tell her all about it then do a poo and pick it up in your hand then push the poo in her face and smear the poo all over her face then point and laugh at her with you poo covered hand and say "your face is covered in poo! you're a poo face!"
     
  9. CACashRefund

    CACashRefund 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Oct 8, 2004 Messages: 14,171 Likes Received: 272
  10. __ __ __ __

    __ __ __ __ Elite Member

    Joined: Aug 31, 2003 Messages: 3,907 Likes Received: 92
    im willing to have the ticket.. cuz i qaint got money to go to NY in november but its a MUST.... ill be ur friend for life.. :king:
     
  11. krie

    krie Guest

  12. Kilgore Trout

    Kilgore Trout Junior Member

    Joined: Jan 6, 2005 Messages: 220 Likes Received: 0
    Dear Mrs. Manners......

    she know whats going on
     
  13. deterrent

    deterrent Veteran Member

    Joined: Oct 20, 2004 Messages: 5,181 Likes Received: 43
    You might want to hold on to it, you ever date and break up with a man on the internet?
    Because I got a birthday in march and could use an internet-ex with your gifts.

    As long as your birthday doesn't come before hand.
     
  14. Dirty_habiT

    Dirty_habiT Administrator

    Joined: Mar 8, 2001 Messages: 18,102 Likes Received: 73
    I wouldn't try with a girl that's doing that to you... it sounds alot like how my ex was being. If you have a bad feeling about it, or you're sitting there wondering a little too much, forget it. The only gift she needs is the gift that keeps on giving... you know what I mean.
     
  15. source

    source Junior Member

    Joined: Dec 24, 2004 Messages: 167 Likes Received: 0
    well i dont know all the background on this thing, but her being a bitch for no reason and ignoring you, makes it look to me like shes found a new man. especially becsuse she flaked out on you when she knew you had a gift for her, thats real shady.
    So if i was you i would keep that shit, cuz i know i regret getting my ex alot of the shit i got for her. shes currently dating one of my boys, who i might beat the shit out of. cunt.
     
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