Dear Seyer,
The question of why bad things happen to good people has drained me physically and mentally over time - the conclusion drawn through a desperation of positivity is that, good people, while they never deserve bad things, good people, are strong enough to meet the challenges head on. Good people will find themselves surrounded by those that have felt their warmth and positive nature, and are now ready to give back.
Stay strong yourself, and my thoughts go out to you at this time.
Cheers,
thepro