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YES! You have no idea how many times I've wanted to tell women
this..It's so fucking lame to call your girl and have her tell you, "I'm just
sitting in your apartment, waiting for you to get here." Bullshit. Get a fucking hobby,
do something with yourself where you don't need me..so many women have
no clue how great it is to know that you don't need a relationship to be happy,
that being needy is such a huge turn-off..I once dated a woman who made clothes,
played in a band, and painted canvases..I thought she was wifey status
(until I found out she was bi-polar, that is)..My point being, if you really care a
bout this guy, why even question his dedication to something he's so good at?
Why do you look at it as him choosing graf over you, are you going to suddenly
die while he's out, or is your desire to be with him going to fade just because
he has something to do that doesn't involve you? These are all valid questions..