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I have this problem where I only run into sexual situations on the first night I meet someone. Usually drunk at a bar.

 

It was cool at first but my black book is getting full and I'm getting a reputation as a slut at my one and only club.

 

I've deceided to try to slow down and maybe date a girl but I really can't do it. I'll date them once or twice and really start to like a girl but I always find myself in bed with a new girl feeling semi-guilty... well not guilty about what I did but like shit for fucking when I didn't plan on it.

 

I know I could avoid this situation if I stopped drinking / or going to clubs but it's a part of my lifestyle now. I really don't want no babies or deseases but I know I'm really risking it. There has been twice now where I was so drunk I don't even remember if I used protection.

 

//end rant.

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Originally posted by non-hetero

one and only club

 

if you're gonna live the player lifestyle you might want to expand your turf.

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you live dangerously....

I hope you get str8 soon , the world is out to get you .. dont get caught

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Originally posted by Daze One Million

anyone else not get what this thread is really about... i mean your a man slut....what do you want us to do ?

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Originally posted by Daze One Million

anyone else not get what this thread is really about

 

*raises hand*

 

if you're unhappy about something in your life, change it. if not, shut up

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I don't fucking know someone get me a girlfriend.

 

Here is a situation I have...

 

Okay there is this girl I dated a few times a few weeks ago and I really liked her. She knew I was dating her neighbor too and I have a feeling she knows I slept with her. She was cool with it cause I told her I wasn't seeing her neighbor anymore (true)... it was only the both at once for less than a week. I almost fucked that one up real bad.

 

I kind of feel like coming clean and telling her I have slept with other people since then too. We havn't talked much because she had her reading week then I had mine... I just want to be honest and tell her I want to be with her exclusively. I don't know it might make me feel better. Apparently it's all about me. I'm so fucking selfish.

 

We are hanging out tomorrow.

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Originally posted by Mr. ABC

*raises hand*

 

if you're unhappy about something in your life, change it. if not, shut up

 

Ug you are right.

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Originally posted by non-hetero

I really don't want to live that lifestyle I'm just easy.

 

haha! said like a true champion! what a quote. i wish i was easy...

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Originally posted by non-hetero

I don't fucking know someone get me a girlfriend.

 

Here is a situation I have...

 

Okay there is this girl I dated a few times a few weeks ago and I really liked her. She knew I was dating her neighbor too and I have a feeling she knows I slept with her. She was cool with it cause I told her I wasn't seeing her neighbor anymore (true)... it was only the both at once for less than a week. I almost fucked that one up real bad.

 

I kind of feel like coming clean and telling her I have slept with other people since then too. We havn't talked much because she had her reading week then I had mine... I just want to be honest and tell her I want to be with her exclusively. I don't know it might make me feel better. Apparently it's all about me. I'm so fucking selfish.

 

We are hanging out tomorrow.

 

so are you asking us what you should do.....or what we would do in the situation, we need some workable material here

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I guess what I should do.

 

Or if you actually have a head on your shoulders what you would do.

 

[edit]I forgot to mention I want to tell her about what I have been doing behind her back. Like come clean with her and myself.

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well its good you want to come clean, thats a start, no one can tell you what to do, but i will tell you what i would do, id stay away from that club of yours, maybe only a week or two, but id try to stay clear for at least a month, and see if there are any changes you can see, my bet is that there will be, and then from there you should be able to know and move on to the next step

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I have to do something. But I really don't lead an exciting life aside from the club scene.

 

I think the best I can do for myself is insist of being the DD every time. That way I can make decisions with my head and not my dick.

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Originally posted by non-hetero

That way I can make decisions with my head and not my dick.

 

i hate to break it to you, but unless you get you're dick surgically removed it's still going to be making all your decisions for you.

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Originally posted by Daze One Million

abc got a point there, but im willing to be you can cut that shit off and itll still be thinking for you

 

yep, the dark side of the force is just that damn strong

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is it ur easy or is it that ur a mack fuck daddy and feel guilty about not having any feelings for these women......

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I'm going to ignore your ignorant comments. I've read threads of yours about women and even if I was fucking men I know I'd be doing better than you with the ladies.

 

 

 

 

I've done some soul searching while lying in bed and the issue that has been at hand for weeks has been resolved.

 

I'm going to stop drinking and clubbing. This is only a test but the minimum for my straight edge fiasco is until the end of this term. April 15th.

 

I'll update this thread if I cave and if I make it if anyone is interested. If I make it past tomorrow it will be interesting. Wednesday is my favourite day to go out.

 

The comments here actually helped believe it or not.

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dude, just tell her you want to be with her, but don't tell her how much you've been fucking around. I can't see how telling her that you're a man slut will help things.

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I don't see how being a "Man Slut" is a bad thing. Where I come from single men should get as much GOOD LOOKING ass as possible. I hate this stupid "get rid of the double standard" bullshit. I'm dating a girl until something better comes along, period. I guess I'm an asshole... Whatever...

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i may be young, 19 going on 20 this year, but im at a point in my life were im tired of having to try and find a new girl every couple months, i want someone i can be with long term, that i can trust and be best friends with, fuckin around is all find and dandy, but to me personally there is no future with it, i always look before i leap...just a mentality i have developed over the years non-stop searching for a girl...basically im sick of having to keep trying to find someone, not to mention being a man slut is no more appealing than being a woman slut...no one wants something that every one can get...im all about getting the girls that no one can get

 

 

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and good luck n-h, im willin to bet you will at least make a week :cool:

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I made it half a week without drinking and found out the girl I was willing to stop it all for has a boyfriend.

 

Ahh well I'm trying lavalife now since I never meet girls outside a bar.

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theres been a million and one threads like this giving a situation and asking for advice, you guys sure took your time to start complaining about them.

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