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casual dating, rules of the game

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by THUMB WRESTL, Jan 7, 2003.

  1. THUMB WRESTL

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    casual dating, rules of the game

    Discussion started by THUMB WRESTL - Jan 7, 2003

    i don't date to often, but i kind of want to get back into it, when you guys take girls on a date, do you pay for everything? open car doors? how far do you take it when it comes to spending money and treating them like a queen and all that good stuff?

    i'd like to know, and also what type of girls they are, like say it's a casual friend, but you kind of like her, or someone you've been talking to for a little bit, and so on, how far do you go on throwing down the money and to what extent for which girls?
     
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    THUMB WRESTL - Replied Jan 7, 2003

    also, say it's like a good friend of yours, or a semi good friend, but you like her, or have a crush on her, whatever, if you take her out to eat, and pay and to the movies and pay, how much do you try to get out of her? just a kiss? maybe more? play it by ear?

    i hate taking girls out, especially girls i like but don't know if they are feeling me, and then paying for all their shit and entertainment, and then not trying anything on them because i'm real hesitant to make a move when I don't know the girl likes me or not. do ya'll just go for it or how far do you push things?
     
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  3. exhibitone

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    exhibitone - Replied Jan 7, 2003

    treat them nice but not too nice
    and try not spending to much money
    then they are going to expect it to be like that always
     
  4. suburbian bum

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    suburbian bum - Replied Jan 7, 2003

    I say pay for everything, be kind and dont try too look overly stupid when you do it.

    But what do i know, i havnt had a date in over 2 years.
     
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  5. DOLR....LED

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    DOLR....LED - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    okay let me try and break this down for you

    Okay...well i dont go around and worship the grounds that girls walk on and if your already good friends with this girl and you have known her for a while..then you probably blew it...hate to break it to you but if she hasnt done anything with you yet.she most likly will never look at you that way and shell say come on guys weve all herd it before "I JUST THOUGHT WE ARE FRIENDS". what makes you think that taking her out and buying her shit will make her want you?.it depends on age groups here too how old are you fucks just give me a age group.so my advice to you on her is forget about it and tell me more info if you want some more..

    trust me..:D
     
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  6. son of sam

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    son of sam - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    yeah if the girl is worth spending money on cool but it shes a slut fuck no
     
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    willy.wonka - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    i dont know...i just trip out.
    you know those situations where it seems like this girl can be your girl??
    we fucked eachother and dont really speak with each other anymore..she told me that she didnt wanna be some girl that "i just fucked".i told her that she wont, but now that she avoids me..i guess she turned out being what she didnt want to be..

    this girl was lovey dovey and now....i have no fucking clue.the last sweet thing she told me "after we had sex" is that she has a gift for me.still hasnt givin it to me, but hey.

    besides this girl being super cool/unlike these bimbos/she loved elephants!her tits were pierced and perfect and she smelt really good.told me that im a passionate kisser/yada yada yada.

    why do girls constantly try to make me into a big asshole.


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    i'll take a girl out on our first date and spend at least 30-40 bucks.i was thinking of takin this girl to a psychic or a shooting gallery.but if i wanted to go all out,i'll fly to cali with her and take her to disneyland or the san diego zoo.

    :sigh:
     
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    willy.wonka - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    the rumor is that im a "sensible asshole"
    which is a bonus i guess.

    "im justa hopeless romantic witha titantic heart,i may look unsinkable, but can still be ripped apart"


    this girl is back in the flirting stage with me i guess, but still remembers what was going on..

    ladies..is this girl afraid of hopping into a relationship?or did i do something wrong?i treated her kindly and we watched movies with each other in my livingroom.she liked to sleep over adn i painted her some sweetass trains on the computer.when we had sex, she was hte one grabbin my wonka and stuff like that.we smiled and hugged eachother.

    or could it be that..this other girl that likes me went up to her and asked if she was my girlfriend/the same night of which i was supposed to meet her and suddenly she started avoiding me.

    im gonna ask her/confront, cause really, this girl left me so confused that it hurt.
     
  9. krie

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    krie - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    well when i started first dating my girlfriend, i treated her really nice cuz i wanted things to go further, showed her a couple of good nights, taking her to dinner etc. i payed for it all and she payed for a few things here and there (like a drink n stuff) and now we been together for 7-8mnths.
     
  10. THUMB WRESTL

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    THUMB WRESTL - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    DOLR-

    im 21, need to go chill in the bars i know, but im not a big drinker unless im around women anyways, and plus im kinda broke, so i dont have extra money to blow on expensive beers/drinks at a bar anyways. plus i need a good girl, not some slut from the bar.

    and the girls im referring to, are like college chicks, and i didn't mean my best friend in the world who happens to be a girl, there is no such thing as a friend that is a girl, and happens to be "fine" to me, can't be a friend cuz i'll constantly be trying to fuck her. plus, i never get put in the friend category, they either love me or hate me, or hate me then love me :D if you know what i mean..

    but yea, say i was in class, and bullshitted with a girl for a bit, and then got her number, and we decide to go out to eat, and then a movie, now i don't mind paying, cuz i more then likely will be trying to get with or get in this girl eventually, but do i pay for everything from the get go just cuz i asked her out? because unless she is really feeling me, i probaly wouldn't try anything in that situation, and then i'd feel like a sucker for spending my money.. just a pride thing i guess.

    what do you think?

    another thing you should basically know, i'm trying to do this alot, with alot of different girls, just go out randomly and have some fun, with a female instead of some fake friend with a dick. but girls swear up and down these days if you want to be seen in public with them you gotta pay their way in everything, and i'm saying if im dropping bills on dates, they better be dropping panties or to theirs knees eventually ;)
     
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    HOST18 DYM - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    Dates are just a way for women to get a free meal. Just hit and split. And dont forget the donkey punch.
     
  12. SHUTMDOWN

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    SHUTMDOWN - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    Willy - I'm really starting to get the impression that you are a cool mofo, with seriously good intentions. As corney as it is , "stay gold". If you dont get the reference, go rent The Outsiders.

    THUMB WRESTL- Dude, I see so much potential here, I'm practicly geekin. Its like watching yourself grow up, I'm pumped. I'm soooo gonna hook you (and anybody else reading this thats really interested) up!

    I see lots of opinions, but no real advice, no offense to anyone. Opinions are just someones perspective based on that individuals experiences. Your experiences are gonna be different than anyone elses, so what works/doesn't work for one cat may or may not help you.

    First off, BE YOURSELF - with the opening doors shit, and how nice your gonna be/not be. If you feel like doing it, do it. If not , dont. Its as simple as that. If you fake shit, and you find a keeper, over time you'll stop doin the little things, and then she'll know you were fake. Even if she thinks this was "cute", she'll always question your sincerity in the back of her mind... whoops.

    As far as money, do what you can (never stretch your budget for a date), and expect nothing, but learn to watch the Signs. Girls always blatently advertise whether or not they want to get down, but they very rarely use words. Learning, and learning to recognize the Signs is VITAL. Not only will it help you read the girl, but it tells the girl your not just an Average Frustrated Chump, like most dudes. Bein an AFC aint a bad thing, its sort of like being a toy - you are interested in something, but you haven't taken the nessisary time to learn about it, and aquire the skills and experience to become good at it.

    It sounds like you got the right idea, and I'm feelin your situation, 21 and surrounded by college girls, this is perfect. Now you need to play on Player. Becoming a Player doesnt mean you're required to smash every girl that smiles at you, it just means you are goin to learn as much about girls and dating as you can. Any potential Long-Termer that doesn't respect your player past is just stupid. Try to find yourself a "wingman", somebody in the same boat, with same desire to learn as you. Its real tough to find a good one, trust me.

    Now, here's EVERYTHING you need to know http://www.fastseduction.com/
    Look past the gayness of "trying to be a Player" and really use this shit, since there is some seriously on point info in it. If you study this shit, and pratice it, you will never again ask you self if you could have bagged the hottie that passed you in the paint isle at the walmart. And to you guys that take a girl out on a date and then wonder at the end of the night whether or not you could have scored, pffffffft... I ORDER you to read this.

    Good luck, Thumb and Willy, I know you will be coochie ninjas soon enough.
     
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    Born Loser - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    I FOUND THAT GIRLS WANT WHAT THEY CAN'T HAVE. SO PLAY IT OFF LIKE OYUR NOT THAT INTERESTED. GARUNTEE SHE'LL BE COMING AFTER YOU.

    TREAT'EM LIKE A PROSTITUTE..
     
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    Dr. Dazzle - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    I would say start off small if you don't want to be throwing down the big bucks if you don't even know she likes you. But hopefully they'll be willing to pay for some things too, it's the year 2003 for god sakes!

    But what do I know I'm hopeless with the ladies.....:(
     
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    Spike - Replied Jan 8, 2003

    If you just want a girl to fuck, only give her as much as you need to get laid.
    If you're looking for a girlfriend, treat her like you'd treat your best friend, but a bit more valiantly. 'Nuff said.
     
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