my coworker is the type of dude who FLIRTS with girls very aggressively, just putting it out there, telling them they're fine, asking for numbers, finding accidental ways to touch them, etc. it works for him, but it attracts a certain type of girl. not necessarily a slut, but a girl who wants to be chased like that.
on the other hand, nobody would ever call me a flirt but I get numbers as often at work, I just attract a different kind of girl. maybe more shy or more reserved, the good ones are more mature and independent. true people in their own right, no barbie dolls here.
so do you young bol, but reap what you sow.