CACashRefund Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 but there is no reason why a man can't have 2-3 or 4 families and be a hardworking, honest, respectable good example of a man. If his wives were in agreement with this lifestyle and they were a happy family i dont agree with dawood much, but this makes sense i personally would go this route, but id have no problem with it if the above quote was the case Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Originally posted by Dawood@Dec 18 2005, 06:11 PM Quoted post are your wives allowed to have more than 1 husband? and the exact definition of sleazy is not what i meant. many words in the english language change over time and also hold slightly different meanings than what the definition states, although the definition covers what i was basically trying to refer to you as. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Originally posted by Dawood@Dec 18 2005, 06:11 PM Ok, first, now that we both got all our juvenile name calling out of our systems, hopefully , we can continue this conversation in a respectable manner without acting like 3rd graders calling eachother names. If not, then don't bother responding to this post. #1 The nature of the creator of the heavens and earth thread is not about me. it's about the creator. If you read every page of it you won't find any statements on there trying to big myself up. #2 what is disrespectable or condradictory about desiring more than one woman at a time? As long as you take care of them equally and they are in agreement to be co wives then there should be no problem and I don't see how that is sleazy. #3 why do you think I beleive women are less than men. I don't beleive women are less than men, I never said it or implied it. I only said that 4 of them were better than 1 one of them, is this implying that men are better than women? You seem to be overlooking the fact that when a man has more than one wife , they should have an open and honest relationship, meaning that he is truthful to both or all of his wives. He should look after the needs of them equally, spend equal time with them and treat his children from each of them fairly. He should'nt lean toward one of them so as to leave the other one hanging. I looked up the defenition of sleazy here's what it said... Dishonest or corrupt; disreputable ex: Some sleazy characters hang around casinos. Now, if a man was dishonest with his wives off hanging in casinos, then yes , I would agree with you, but there is no reason why a man can't have 2-3 or 4 families and be a hardworking, honest, respectable good example of a man. If his wives were in agreement with this lifestyle and they were a happy family, (and I see this all the time) then give me one good reason why it is sleazy because , according to the defenition of sleazy in the dictionary , and the conditions I mentioned about a man who decides to have more than 1 wife, then this is NOT sleaziness, nor are his wives less than him , this was an implication you made. I never said in any statement ever that women are less than men , ever, so address me with what I say, not what you assume about me. I would hope that you would want to be treated in the same way. Or would you like that people who don't even know you would slander you, call you names and make accusations about you based on their own interpretation of what you meant when you made a general statement. I don't think you would. You seem Quoted post the thread -- you mention many times how you follow your religion and how respectable your religion is. thats all i was getting at. by thinking you deserve more than 1 is reducing their worth and raising yours. unless of course they are allowed to have other husbands. then its just a big orgy and then i'd be fine with it. and the accusations thing - you already did this to me in this very thread. but lets both take the high road anyway. i'll admit i get angry easy and when i get angry i like to use expletives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest imported_El Mamerro Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Would you join a lovely lady with 3 husbands? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawood Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Originally posted by El Mamerro@Dec 19 2005, 01:16 PM Would you join a lovely lady with 3 husbands? Quoted post no way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted December 20, 2005 Share Posted December 20, 2005 and with that dawood i rest my case. long live fairy tales! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaBar2 Posted December 20, 2005 Share Posted December 20, 2005 This guy is an acquaintance of mine. He's the real deal, no fairy tales. http://www.bfree.org/media/washpost.htm http://www.patriarchy.bfree.org/bfree/beliefs.htm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawood Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 Ha, Ha , yeah right Kabar, he just wants people to buy his book. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krakatau Posted December 22, 2005 Share Posted December 22, 2005 Originally posted by CACashRefund@Dec 18 2005, 11:18 PM but there is no reason why a man can't have 2-3 or 4 families and be a hardworking, honest, respectable good example of a man. If his wives were in agreement with this lifestyle and they were a happy family i dont agree with dawood much, but this makes sense i personally would go this route, but id have no problem with it if the above quote was the case Quoted post Thirded, I guess. I really don't think it matters if Dawood wouldn't marry a woman with three husbands, either. I don't really think it needs to be a two way street. That's like saying dudes have to give other dudes blowjobs if they want one from their girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CACashRefund Posted December 23, 2005 Share Posted December 23, 2005 well its not even that dawood is saying he wouldnt want to be with a woman with three other husbands because thats his personal preference. and if dawood wants to have three wives thats their personal preference to share him. so to each his own i guess if all parties are consenting adults or the equivelent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuyorican Posted December 23, 2005 Share Posted December 23, 2005 isnt this about jose padilla, the chicago puerto rican muslim? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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