yo i hate this shit, i was with a girl for a little while who tried to pull this type of reverse psychology crap on me. she would take insignificant things i had said meaning no harm and turn them into a reason to fight and tell her shitty friends how much of an asshole i was.
So i just decided to start treating her how she obviously wanted to be treated -- that shit worked like a charm. she ate up the asshole routine for a long time...bitches is crazy.