nxrto
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Poverty and a good woman.
Money can't buy you love, I mean REAL love...
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9 fucking pages already, WTF...
As long as you haven't got anything that ties you to her (kids) then just go do shit you wanna do. Me and my wife seperated for almost 2 years but I couldn't let it go because I only got my son at weekends, so it fucked me up that I wasn't around my son.Was my fault because I was drinking like a nutcase which is why we split up, so I stopped drinking and now we are back together and things are good.
So take time for yourself, go travel, go make a name for yourself at something you're good at. Just fucking enjoy yourself, I bet there was stuff you wanted to do when you were together that she didn't well go find yourself and do those things.
Don't dwell on it, she has moved on, it is time for you to move on too.
Good to hear that you and her got back together again. But yeah, don't dwell on it, you're right.
The reason why I'm so fucked up about this is because I was serious about getting married and having kids. Been in relationships before but this has been the first time I thought of getting married, becoming a father and raising a family. Never been more than ready for it too: stopped drinking, stopped using drugs and finally showed some responsibilty towards myself and her.
It's time for me to move on and get my shit together again. Life aint over.
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Thought I'd share some tips myself for those going through this right now or might have to do so in the future.
1. NO CONTACT! Extremely difficult but don't write, call or mail. You'll find thousands of excuses to contact her but don't. You're trying to let go and this will only prolong the desire.
2. Remove everything that reminds of her and put in in a box or something: photos, gifts,clothes etc. Get it out of your way. You don't need that shit right now.
3. Don't look her up on Facebook! One day you'll find pics of her and the new man in her life and you'll just want to die - trust me.
4. Write your feelings down on paper. Make a list of all the things you don't like about her or why you are better of without her.
5. Don't drink or use drugs. Stay clean n sober so you can deal with the stress rather than avoid it.
6. Read or post stupid topics like this, it helps :lol:
7. Work and Hobbies. Whatever it is that you like to do: draw, sports etc.etc. It keeps your mind of things.
8. Avoid the places the two of you used to hang out and don't play those songs you and her listened to while having sex.
9. Hang out with your homies.
10. Don't start dating someone soon after a break up. All you want is your ex, not some bimbo you don't even know.
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WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T DO COKE.
That's why i havent fucked with the stuff in years.
Cocaine is bad fucking news
Yeah, I agree. I don't drink or do drugs for years now. It will numb the pain but reality will catch up with u sooner or later. You have to deal with it at some point in your life so you better do it now: clean n sober.
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2 years? Guess so..... I got let go after 6.
Its been a lil over a year and a half and I'm part time fucked up over it.
I don't smash random chicks cuz I got a handful of morals that I try to abide by. Besides, quality over quantity. /nograff
I don't date cuz its a waste of time and money. If I don't think you could be future wifey, I dont bother.
Sit through your shit. No, things won't ever be the same. You might not sleep, you might not eat. Do not make contact. Do contact people you haven't seen in a while. If you gotta spill shit on people do it, talking helps.
Don't kill yourself and everything you feel is how you're supposed to.
Fuck....
Just gave you props for this, thanks for sharing.
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Didn't read this earlier. yeah, what he said. She'll be back in no time
No, if you want her back you must have NO contact whatsoever. After some time she'll get curious about what you've been up to and she'll call you.
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Don't try calling her. .
Yeah, that's a good one. I'm following the "No Contact Rule" which is difficult as shit but it's definatly the best one can do in such a situation.
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edit: i just fully read the initial post. dude, man up! for real. also, asking for advice like that here...bad move...haha.
LOL, probably a bad move but some of the comments made it all worthwhile. AND it took my mind of things for a while so it's all good.
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Welllll...it doesn't work that way.
The only thing that's going to get your head right is time. All the other stuff is just stuff to do in the meantime (or it's haters hating, which you should just ignore), but it's not going to make much of a difference besides getting your mind off being bummed out for a few hours.
Oh yeah- it might be a good idea to take a break from getting too wasted/doing illegal shit/any combination of the two if you're not thinking straight. It's a good way to get arrested...one way to compound your misery right now is to wind up being depressed in a cell somewhere.
That's some real talk
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Well, this may be a gay thread to some but I know for sure others are going through the same sh*t as well. And if you don't like it: don't read or post.
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if you cant get her back get the fuck over it..nothing else you can do
Best advice so far: keep m coming
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1. Sit it out. It sucks, but eventually it does get better...might take a few months. In the meantime, do other shit to keep your mind off being bummed out.
2. Don't ask 12 oz for advice.
1. sounds alright
2. too late
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, stalk her facebook,
it'll work.
Yeah, she has pics with her new lover on it and when I saw that I just wanted to die.
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get off your ass and get her back, hang out with your boys....how long were you together??
2 years. Can't get her back: it's really over.
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Tried it but it doesn't help
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Hey guys I need your help. I've lost the love of my life and I'm hurting like hell. Been through a lot of sh*t but this is the worst ever: the pain is unbearable. Can't stop thinking about her, can't eat, sleep etc.
How did you cope with a break up/divorce? Would like to hear your stories, tips and advice.
Thanks.
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if your chick dumps you, move on.
if you move onto a robot, kill yourself.
...LOL:lol: That actually cheered me up
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I think I can use one: my girlfriend for two years dumped me after cheating with another guy. The bastard is now living with her and f#cking her. I am devastated. If someone has tips to get over this PM me.
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Re: Great Pictures~
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can someone explain how they did this?
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Stylewriting from the Underground
This is probably the best book I've ever seen about this period. Had it in my hands when it came out back in 1996/1997 but didn't buy it... Big mistake! Gotta have it!! Thanks for the tip, this book is classic.
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After a year of failed attempts I found and watched Bozo Texino last night.
Cinematic-ally one of the best documentaries I ever did see...Props.
Link?
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Burried alive must suck too btw
:lol:
_____How Do You Cope With a Broken Heart?______
in Channel Zero
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That's because some bitches here spend their lifes posting stupid threads about omelettes,