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eh. I put in for Chicago and SF. Im making SF happen this year damnit. I got a room booked right up the street from SPAC but im not sure. Im holding onto it tho. Didnt want to ptbm for SPAC and get stuck in the lawn or trying to sell em for less than i paid. instead i'll try my phone strategy from last year

you guys still chat this tiny? When can i find you in there?

Mbox

Glad to see sword still livin

depends on whose terms. You can friendzone but would probably refuse being friendzoned.

Status Report - lesson was learned. This only works if you're 8-12 like in My Girl. So i spend a lot of time with my grandpa, Live with him, clean up after him, feed him etc. The 2 & 1/4 years ive been here we haven't had a real conversation. Hes a good guy but he lost his marbles, lost as in they're gone. Today he thinks im his doctor. I was happy to have someone to chill with a bit. Old fella goes to bed at like 8 and i sit alone until i go to sleep pretty much every day. House is clean. Lots of food, big TV and lots of shit to watch, bunch of tree. I hoped she had some friends, friends enough for playing spades or euchre or whatever. Well. she started trying to get close and I politely resisted. I didn't want to have the friends talk. Finally one night she came by really drunk and tried to gets it in and I was nice but told her straight away. She hasn't called since. Im convinced men and women cant just be friends. If a man and a woman are just friends its because the woman wont let him smash and the guy thinks persistence will pay off or something. Opposite doesn't work. You friendzone a woman they move on.

first thing you should do is tell em your suicidal

i usually ask myself WhatWouldKobeDo before i do anything. My guess is kobe wouldnt hit this with my duck and getmo pushin

friendzoning

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thats what im going to do- nothing. thx

Is that what it sounds like nurga? Fuck outta here. I wouldnt be on here tryin to brag if I was smashin out pre honey Alba. Makes you think i need or want that kind of attention. I dont have regular girl friends/buddies that I dont sleep with. Never have and im trying to wrap my head around the concept. She very well could have some other girlfriends who are smashworthy. Im thinking someone to play cards with, smoke with, grab a drink from time to time, if i got something to do and nobody to do it with or need a favor and a ride. She has a xanax script. When you caregive 24/7 it makes it awful hard to get out and meet anyone. Im not Shai. Im more what gives guys a bad name. Dont mean to be im just immature like that i suppose. I want what i want and thats all I want and then i want if from somewhere else. woke up not too long ago and discovered I have a shred of a conscious. I layed quite a bit of waste in my wake and im not trying to fuck over good people as long as i can help it going forward.

pretty much

So do I have that i only want to be friends talk? Is that the right thing to do? Or just not talk to her anymore?

IDK man. ethical conundrum

no i dont want to either.

kinda small but you get the idea

exactly. crocT. I dont want to use her but i could use a hand getting around. I dont want to hurt feelings either because she is a genuinely sweet person. I am a jerk to chiks IRL but most of em are jerks as well so i dont feel so bad. She is nice so I dont mind having her around for loneliness factor. i dont want to sleep with her and i have a sneaking suspicion thats the direction she would want to take it. I think i need to just let her know i want to be friends and nothing else. The other way would be stringing her along and I dont want to do that.

made this thread knowing full well i would come off sounding bad. im just looking for some perspective.

thats big point #2. She has a car and i dont drive but I do live in homecare for an 88 year old with advanced dementia. I have nobody sane to talk to sometimes for days on end. So that said. a little non dementia companionship would be welcome. Im looking at it from a perspective that USUALLY if a girl dont put out i dont want to deal & im concerned that phaps she may be the same way. I dont want to smash. I was rolled out on mahldawg and drunk when i tried. Maybe i am friendzoned. I sure as shit hope so.

wtf happened to photobucket? I haves a pic. Where should i host?

wouldnt say i was friendzoned. I want to be. I think it was more like she doesnt get down like that on a first date type deal. (which i can appreciate) I just dont want to hurt someone feelings because she seems pretty nice. Im not sure how to go about this. I very rarely initiate a dialog with a female without the intention of hooking up. Im not sure I ever have.

sounds like a terrible idea.

or do we not do that shit? she might be a bit bigger that 165. Its probably a personality defect but fat makes me kinda sick, makes me cringe & I want nothing to do with it

For the record I make for a terrible boyfriend and just an ok friend. My schtick is meeting broads, sleeping with em once or twice and never calling them again. Met a chik and shes extra nice. Tried to bust a slump and put it on her the first time we hung out and she resisted, im glad because Im not attracted to her at all. Shes extra thick with an ok face but i like short thin girls. I'm not opposed to a little thick but this lady is pretty big, 5'5 165 maybe. Cali-G would probably consider her petite but well. We all kno about him:: solid cat & i'm not hatin:: What should i do? Do i tell her im just trying to be her friend? What if it backfires and she dont want to chill no more? I wouldn't be crushed or anything but I just assume be friends. Not say shit? Not posting a pic, just asking for advice. Last time I did well I had some explaining to do.