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**fixed, with photo contribution because top of the page sappy nonsense didn't seem like much of a accomplishment

 

Broke a lace. Pretty huge accomplishment for a old head like myself. Means the shredding was productive like a mf.

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you have even the slightest interest in having kids, don't trip on the standard not in the place you wanna be shit. I am apparently having another one this fall. I wanted nothing to do with having children and I damn sure still don't co-sign the whole "I couldn't picture life without him/her" or "he/shes the greatest thing to ever happen to me." But. There is something about the levels of love that come along with this shit that kind of doesn't compare to anything else at all whatsoever and that's cool. My pull out game just kind of failed one day and with a chick I had zero interest in being with but I did the "Responsible respectable" thing and 6 years later I have 3 nights and her mom has 4. We live a fine comfortable life and not shit has changed. My approach differs from a fuckload of other parents and finding people on my level is next to impossible at least in my circles but it's just not terrible at the end of the day. Kids don't suck the entire universe out of your ass. They just annoy the ever living fuck out of you and it's hilarious and awesome. 

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2 hours ago, Hua Guofang said:

@Dirty_habiTI was 48 and three days when my little girl was born. Would I have been ready much before I was around this age? No, I would not and I was living in part of the world that I would not force on a new child. But have I missed out on a lot because of having a kid so late? Yes. My body is starting to crap out, so by the time she's into mountain bike riding, or whatever she does, I won't be able to do it with her, and all of that kind of stuff. It's also a serious likelihood that I'll not meet my grandkids.

 

But, whaddayado? Life is what it is and we all have very different requirements and we just gotta go with what you think is best. You're obviously a thinker and don't seem like the kind of bloke to take responsibility lightly. I'm sure that you'll make the right decision for yourself and your family, whatever that decision ends up being.

 

BTW, great shelving system. I have some similar stuff and it's solid. I wish all of my shelving was like that, instead I wasted money buying cheaper shit and I barely trust it to hold minimal weight.

I hear you on being older - I'll be almost 60 at my son's 21st and almost 63 at my daughter. 

My wife was 39 when our first came and she really struggled - she was 10 years older than most of the women in the mum's group and as such not so concerned with being a yummy mummy which meant she got isolated from the group pretty fast.

All of her friends that had had kids had them years earlier and it's one thing both she and I struggled like hell with was that everybody else's kids appeared to be growing up 

so fast while ours were growing up so slowly. But while I painting world wide my mate was at home with screaming toddlers which I never saw.

 

3 hours ago, Hua Guofang said:

 

 Now, I can't believe how much I love this shit, even committing all the time that usually would have been my own, to the family gives a strong sense of self worth. I do worry that I've brought a child into a fucked up world, but my goal is to make the world a better place than I found it. And if I replace myself with some one that is positive, capable and virtuous then I've achieved my aim. Having a family really is fulfilling.

This.

 

11 minutes ago, NightmareOnElmStreet said:

Kids don't suck the entire universe out of your ass. They just annoy the ever living fuck out of you and it's hilarious and awesome. 

Ive been trying to write something but this captures it succinctly!

 

 

P.S as a male over the age of 40 I can appreciate that shelving system even if I'd have no use for it.put boards on back for when you're dying to paint and you have a boring mini wall that might scratch the itch sometime.

 

 I got a dog

 

 

 

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Thank you @NightmareOnElmStreet, that made me have a good chuckle.... about the kids.  I should get out and ride my BMX bike more because my lack of physical activity is starting to show.  I fucked up and missed the deadline for open enrollment so I don't have health insurance this year.  I picked a great year to do that dumb shit btw........ so anyway, I have to be extra careful to not fuck myself up in any way because out of pocket expense will put a fuckin crater in anyone's bank account.

 

I think the main requirement for me right now is to just get into a house and least get on mortgage payments.  I think after that is done then it will be time and that isn't too far in the future.  We're saving now and paying debt off.  Surprisingly it's been easier since this shelter in place order because I've been saving a lot of money on not driving my truck to and from work, not eating lunch out, not eating much of anything out, and just generally not being motivated to go out and spend money anywhere.  I've already weened myself off of purchasing online for the most part before any of this went down..... so this corona virus thing has done good things for Dirty's finances.

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co-sign on the saving money trip. I deliberately stayed away from online purchases other than books so when we come out the other side of this, we'll have some resources to enjoy - turn a negative into a positive type thing.

 

@Schnitzelobviously, I'm much older than new dads but my wife is also considerably younger than me (*nods smugly), but she's still older than the yummy mummy crowd. Fortunately, the mother's group here had a relatively higher average age and it was the younger, more superficial mums who didn't stick around. Pity for your missus though, as that group really has been a great resource.

 

I was able to watch all my friends that now have kids at 21 and to learn from their experiences. I'm really glad that I didnt' have kids sooner, I would have just fucked it up.

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15 hours ago, Dirty_habiT said:

 Maybe I'm being selfish.... I dunno. 

I'll be 39 in another 2 months and am kid free. I settled years ago that not having kids is probably for the best. My wife doesnt want kids either. We enjoy a level of freedom to do as we please. Plus my wifes sister has plenty of kids. She has a set of twins and triplets and another one. We're both scared that a pregnancy might result in a litter of children. Plus we're both selfish,  admittedly, and we dont want to be put into a situation where we end up resenting our children or each other. 

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1 hour ago, Steel Schnauzer said:

I made my girl cum 12 times In a row

 

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4 hours ago, KILZ FILLZ said:

Milf?

That would be it. But usually the 20 somethings that are still into being glamours and talking about themselves.

 

The ones in our mothers classes (fuck you, I went to mothers' classes) were fucking airheads and nobody wanted to listen to them.

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Yummy mummy is such a cheeky thing to say

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10 hours ago, Dirty_habiT said:

@Hua Guofang- what is a "yummy mummy"?

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or this sort of thing but with an expesnoive pram/stroller/pushchair and a kid called atticus

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 then in five years they become those schoolmums

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I'm sure we do (not 100% on spartan but if it's about fitness and you can broadcast you did on SM then we've got it)

Tough mudder definitely

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Finished the shelving.  It took $150 more in lumber today to complete.
 

 Bonus shot of rare dodge colt I have.  She's dirty. 

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1 hour ago, Schnitzel said:

image.thumb.png.e1964e1a07f9933159b32f7c609a927d.pngthis s

 

or this sort of thing but with an expesnoive pram/stroller/pushchair and a kid called atticus

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 then in five years they become those schoolmums

And in 15, anti-vaxxer Karens (or in Australia's case, Sharons)

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1 hour ago, Hua Guofang said:

I wish when they say MILF in porn they actually had yummy mummies.

sick of milfs that are 20 years younger than me

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Weeded out my strawberry patch and planted a few more strawberry plants to expand it a little more. Also planted three new raspberry bushes. 

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58 minutes ago, misteraven said:

Weeded out my strawberry patch and planted a few more strawberry plants to expand it a little more. Also planted three new raspberry bushes. 

I found the culprits that were stealing my strawberries on the weekend!

 

the bloody Currawongs!

 

Pied Currawong - eBird

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^^ tbh the milfs post sounded like it was intended at the "random thots" thread lol

 

also: achieved some weeding of, and added a little more stone to the edges of, the gardening beds around the apartment building i live in.

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I forgot to add yesterday that we picked up 32 bricks from the shop yesterday and brought them back home with us.  We're going to make a pad in the back yard for the gas grill (that we never use) to sit on.

 

@Hua GuofangCurrawongs.... that's a cool looking bird.  Reminds me of a smaller grackle.

edit: upon further inspection it appears to be a giant grackle.... lol.

 

I've got a fruit eating story from within the past few weeks.  My neighbor has a peach tree that my friend that used to live there planted in the back yard when he lived there.  It's gotten to where it puts out maybe 30'ish or so peaches during the right season.  Anyway, this time the tree put out quite a few peaches..... they BARELY started to turn from green to orange/red and the squirrels just went ape shit on them.  That tree never got a fully ripe peach on it this year and they're all gone.  My gf and I caught the squirrels several days in a row for a week navigating that little tree out to spindly limbs to get a peach prize at the end.  It was entertaining for sure and the neighbor didn't care that they were doing it.  We have some FAT squirrels running along the fences now and I told my dad jokingly that i was going to get some sweet, peach flavored squirrel meat.

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Let me get this straight, sir.... @Dirty_habiTyou did all this work on building a big ass shelf just to riddle it with unorganized car parts🤔 I hope you at least get some crates on that bitch. Hows a guy supposed to find things amidst all that clutter, son?! 

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