abcs Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 For the record I make for a terrible boyfriend and just an ok friend. My schtick is meeting broads, sleeping with em once or twice and never calling them again. Met a chik and shes extra nice. Tried to bust a slump and put it on her the first time we hung out and she resisted, im glad because Im not attracted to her at all. Shes extra thick with an ok face but i like short thin girls. I'm not opposed to a little thick but this lady is pretty big, 5'5 165 maybe. Cali-G would probably consider her petite but well. We all kno about him:: solid cat & i'm not hatin:: What should i do? Do i tell her im just trying to be her friend? What if it backfires and she dont want to chill no more? I wouldn't be crushed or anything but I just assume be friends. Not say shit? Not posting a pic, just asking for advice. Last time I did well I had some explaining to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LUGR Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 hmmmmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 6, 2013 Author Share Posted February 6, 2013 or do we not do that shit? she might be a bit bigger that 165. Its probably a personality defect but fat makes me kinda sick, makes me cringe & I want nothing to do with it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brickos Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 165 = 74kg... PASS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shai Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 I don't understand what the issue is exactly...she wasn't interested in hooking up but wants to be friends? Now she wants to hook up? You have a crooked dong? What's going on here? Let things happen and don't project anything on the situation and usually you'll wind up where you're supposed to be. I very, very rarely will initiate a dialogue with a female with the sole intention of hooking up. I won't deny that's it's happened with varying results, but I've learned a thing or two since then...basically I don't want to seem sleazy or desperate, even when that might be the case. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schnitzel Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 Tried to bust a slump and put it on her the first time we hung out and she resisted, no point putting her in the friendzone -you're already there from the sounds of it 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LUGR Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 ^f'real doe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CancerDancer Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 if she doesnt have money or attractive friends i cant really see why you would want to be friends with a female 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crocodile Tears Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 Post the damn pic. Block her grill. Then avoid avoid avoid. They get the hint eventually. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 wouldnt say i was friendzoned. I want to be. I think it was more like she doesnt get down like that on a first date type deal. (which i can appreciate) I just dont want to hurt someone feelings because she seems pretty nice. Im not sure how to go about this. I very rarely initiate a dialog with a female without the intention of hooking up. Im not sure I ever have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 wtf happened to photobucket? I haves a pic. Where should i host? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 if she doesnt have money or attractive friends i cant really see why you would want to be friends with a female thats big point #2. She has a car and i dont drive but I do live in homecare for an 88 year old with advanced dementia. I have nobody sane to talk to sometimes for days on end. So that said. a little non dementia companionship would be welcome. Im looking at it from a perspective that USUALLY if a girl dont put out i dont want to deal & im concerned that phaps she may be the same way. I dont want to smash. I was rolled out on mahldawg and drunk when i tried. Maybe i am friendzoned. I sure as shit hope so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DSD666 Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 yo nigga, send me your address so I can do this 50 tutes of bp to your front door and film it. I'm fucking bored nigga. pm me for new number. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 made this thread knowing full well i would come off sounding bad. im just looking for some perspective. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crocodile Tears Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 wtf happened to photobucket? I haves a pic. Where should i host? http://imgur.com thats big point #2. She has a car and i dont drive but I do live in homecare for an 88 year old with advanced dementia. I have nobody sane to talk to sometimes for days on end. So that said. a little non dementia companionship would be welcome. Im looking at it from a perspective that USUALLY if a girl dont put out i dont want to deal & im concerned that phaps she may be the same way. I dont want to smash. I was rolled out on mahldawg and drunk when i tried. Maybe i am friendzoned. I sure as shit hope so. Im saying you sound like a jerk irl to the chicks you already fuck with. So just keep up the rep in a milder tone and this girl will be gone. I mean I don't get it, if I don't want to talk to a girl I barley know its the easiest thing in the world to shake. Are you looking to keep this broad around for loneliness purposes? Or chauffeur purposes? Your motives sound shitty to begin with. Why would you string along a girl you don't like but don't want to hurt. Stringing her is going to hurt her more in the long run. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MedicineCabinet Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 exactly. crocT. I dont want to use her but i could use a hand getting around. I dont want to hurt feelings either because she is a genuinely sweet person. I am a jerk to chiks IRL but most of em are jerks as well so i dont feel so bad. She is nice so I dont mind having her around for loneliness factor. i dont want to sleep with her and i have a sneaking suspicion thats the direction she would want to take it. I think i need to just let her know i want to be friends and nothing else. The other way would be stringing her along and I dont want to do that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 kinda small but you get the idea 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crocodile Tears Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 OK cool. Would not bang. 1/10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 no i dont want to either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crocodile Tears Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 The real question is why is she such a viable resource? What does she bring to the table that would make you search for perspective, especially here? Sounds like you need a mule. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 IDK man. ethical conundrum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 So do I have that i only want to be friends talk? Is that the right thing to do? Or just not talk to her anymore? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abcs Posted February 7, 2013 Author Share Posted February 7, 2013 pretty much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vanfullofretards Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 It just sounds like you're trying to brag about the fact that a fat girl is trying to doink you. She's being nice to you because she's fat and she wants to doink you. See often times fat girls have to take on the persona of the man because, well, they're fat and sexual attention doesn't usually come to them. This is why she's trying to 'woo' you. Bottom line is, deny the doink, deny the relationship. /wisdom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crocodile Tears Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 /doink Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vanfullofretards Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LUGR Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 What.Would.Kobes.Do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aLBERThOFFMAN Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 Let things happen and don't project anything on the situation and usually you'll wind up where you're supposed to be. This. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vanfullofretards Posted February 7, 2013 Share Posted February 7, 2013 /wisdom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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