famecrazy Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 so basically one of my best friends last night told me he didn't like my girlfriend. went on about all this shit she does that pisses him off and how im different when im around her blah blah. i've been going out with her for about 7 years now, and as far as i knew she pretty well liked by all my other pals. at the time we were both pretty wasted so i didn't give it much thought, but now that it's the next day im pretty pissed about the whole thing. the things he weren't necessarily malicious just pretty crude and disrespectful. to make things worse i got this guy a job, so i see him everyday. not sure if i should bring it up or let it slide. truth comes out when you're drunk i guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swindle Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 maybe ask some other friends about it. i have a friend and we all hate his girlfriend and he knows this but we are all polite and civil towards her. is your friend civil towards your girlfriend? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poesia [ ] T Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 you get a pass 5mh anyone else would get random pics and the famous pic of couple cuddling with girl holding friends hand behind his back. But not today, today i say fuck it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tavaruawon Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 Teehee. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richard Pryor Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 i have a mate with the same dealio as swins, we all call her devil woman. and when out mate spends time with her he refers to it as " Doing some Hours " that said u still have to be polite to her face, i think you mate has over stepped the boundrys and you should check him considering youve had your Mrs for 7years, Although, did she crash the company car? ahahahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
famecrazy Posted March 8, 2010 Author Share Posted March 8, 2010 i'm pretty sure i'll just tell him to keep his mouth shut. i don't really subscribe to the bro's over hoe's theory. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poesia [ ] T Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 7 years thats a bit he should know that that should count for something Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soup Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 People in long-term relationships are boring. That goes for my friends in long-term relationships too. Their girlfriends and I get along fine, but my friends call me less than their GF's do. I just see them all completely mentally stagnated as individuals and kinda wish they'd move on already. So either subscribe to my perspective, or tell your friend to make new friends... unless you want him to keep you warm at night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TreSixO Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 I was about to say you might want to listen to him, until u said u were together for 7 years. If it didn't come up in the first 6 years of knowing you, it's probably just him being in a bad mood or hating or jealous or whatever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soup Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 ^^^^That. You probably misunderstood him and really he just feels under-appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
famecrazy Posted March 8, 2010 Author Share Posted March 8, 2010 well, it's pretty hard to not take it personally soup. this dude needed a job so he could pay rent, i got him one and now that he's back on his feet and doing well he gets loaded and starts giving me a piece of his mind. i guess i can be thankful he said it to me and not behind my back but still, why do people feel the need to comment at all? if that's not personal i don't know what is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soup Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 Yeah well you gotta work on not taking it personally, and he's gotta work on not taking whatever he dislikes about your gf personally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swindle Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 i reckon ask him about it once hes sober. info straight from the source Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soulkillers Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 punch him in the mouth then get him a beer. dude is jelly. he wants your life.if it was a few months then maybe its ok but 7 yrs is a long time and he should have said something by now.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tango 24 Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 were his problems with your girl legit ones or just some bullshit reasoning? inquiring minds would like to know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
|O__________o|-robojones Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 nobody said just get dude drunk again but this time spike his booze with ghb and its only gay if you give his passed out body a reacharound yet? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CityonSMASH Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 dude dont sweat the technique literally days ago i had a recently married homie over cause i had to bail out on the stag, which was kinda gay. so ya, they "wed" the other day and couple nights ago, loaded, i proceeded to tell him how much i didnt like his (now) wife and nobody else does either. another reason alcohol is a vital part of progressive society cause that shit needed to be said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaolinmasta Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 Maybe dude really doesn't like your girl. We've got a mate in our group of friends that has the worst g/f and she fucks with his head badly. He ended it with her and EVERYONE came out ragging on her and saying wtf were you even thinking being with her etc. Now they are back together and shits awkward hahaha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soup Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 dude dont sweat the technique literally days ago i had a recently married homie over cause i had to bail out on the stag, which was kinda gay. so ya, they "wed" the other day and couple nights ago, loaded, i proceeded to tell him how much i didnt like his (now) wife and nobody else does either. another reason alcohol is a vital part of progressive society cause that shit needed to be said. Yeah but people expect no less from you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IOU Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 I ain't read too much, but of course I read what Poe said.. Cuz it's Poe.. Seven years. Your dude is being a bitch straight up. Even if he don't like her, dude needs to deal with it without being an ass to you. If your dude got issues and shit, then he should walk. It's obvious you ain't walking, so fuck him. I just had a conversation tonight about this very thing. True friends will stay with you regardless. Also, I'm drunk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotsauceinthedickholewastaken Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 if she was your new girlfriend he has the right as your friend to let you know your making a mistake....but after 7 years...he should shut his mouth. Tell him if it happens again your gonna punch him in his moms face. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercer Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 I don't know, I've got friends with girlfriends I don't like, just haven't been drunk enough to mention it. It's pretty normal especially if dude is flying solo himself or is trying to hang out but you give him the old "I'm chilling with my girl" routine. Worse yet is if your girl talks shit to him or obviosley dislikes him and he cant really talk shit back which is pretty common. Some dudes do act different around their girl or need her permission for anything and it is fucking annoying. Being this mad about a meaningless drunken convo says more about your own loyalty to friends IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swindle Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 Maybe dude really doesn't like your girl. We've got a mate in our group of friends that has the worst g/f and she fucks with his head badly. He ended it with her and EVERYONE came out ragging on her and saying wtf were you even thinking being with her etc. Now they are back together and shits awkward hahaha. this. same sitch even more awkward, they came to my house and got drunk with me, while waiting for others to arrive my friend goes "go on, feel her boobs, they are awesome, shes cool with it" hesitating for minute knowing that she had a crush on me early in highschool i went fourth and grouped said boobies. then my fuckbuddy turned up and i had an excuse to dipsetted out of what could have been a potentially awkward situation. yeah i hate her but her bra is like an E cup and shes not fat 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tango 24 Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 everyone won in that situation, good work swindle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotsauceinthedickholewastaken Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 this. same sitch even more awkward, they came to my house and got drunk with me, while waiting for others to arrive my friend goes "go on, feel her boobs, they are awesome, shes cool with it" hesitating for minute knowing that she had a crush on me early in highschool i went fourth and grouped said boobies. then my fuckbuddy turned up and i had an excuse to dipsetted out of what could have been a potentially awkward situation. yeah i hate her but her bra is like an E cup and shes not fat I believe you, but we're still gonna require some pics of those tits. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swindle Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 i dont wanna blow up my friend like that coz he posts on here but when they break up he'll drop the goods and he has a lot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TreSixO Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 nobody said just get dude drunk again but this time spike his booze with ghb and its only gay if you give his passed out body a reacharound yet? Better throw on a slayer shirt and stick a pizza in the oven just to be sure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotsauceinthedickholewastaken Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 i dont wanna blow up my friend like that coz he posts on here but when they break up he'll drop the goods and he has a lot You're a good man Swindle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frate_Raper Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 Nothing worse then your dude having a shitty girlfriend.Ask him about it and if he's got real beefs hear him out and roll on being friends. DONT RUN AND TELL THE GIRLFRIEND chicks are fucked up and she will be a cunt to him etc. I got alot of shit on chest about a friend of mines lady friend but I can't say it here,he doesn't write but he used to check this shit on the reg. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesbian Fisting Posted March 8, 2010 Share Posted March 8, 2010 The dude is 6 years 8 months too late. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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