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yeah.....and her husband had an affair with another woman who put her head in a gas oven 6 years later.

 

 

her son just hung himself a few months ago.

 

 

 

sheesh.

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Quick question for anyone who cares to answer

 

My girl is thick, in the good way, but she wants to lose weight. At first I didn't believe her, but now she's getting all serious and starting to hit the gym. She's always mad self conscious even though she looks great and I'm always telling her that.

 

So how do I tell my girl to not lose weight without sounding like a dick and her paying attention to me. She's legitimately not fat, but thinks she is.

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daddy issues = no love from dad, throw yourself at any dude to try and get love from him.

 

 

well no shit. I was commenting on "daddy issues" in reference to why women expect dudes to read their minds...

 

there's more to it than just throwing yourself at a dude to get love from him.

i.e. trust issues, fear of abandonment, fear of intimacy, the need for approval...

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Quick question for anyone who cares to answer

 

My girl is thick, in the good way, but she wants to lose weight. At first I didn't believe her, but now she's getting all serious and starting to hit the gym. She's always mad self conscious even though she looks great and I'm always telling her that.

 

So how do I tell my girl to not lose weight without sounding like a dick and her paying attention to me. She's legitimately not fat, but thinks she is.

 

if you genuinely think your girl looks good and tell her that on a regular basis there is not much you can do my friend. did something spark her interest in this out of nowhere? and how's the relationship? i know lots of girls who like to make plans before jumping ship.

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Quick question for anyone who cares to answer

 

My girl is thick, in the good way, but she wants to lose weight. At first I didn't believe her, but now she's getting all serious and starting to hit the gym. She's always mad self conscious even though she looks great and I'm always telling her that.

 

So how do I tell my girl to not lose weight without sounding like a dick and her paying attention to me. She's legitimately not fat, but thinks she is.

 

It's not always a bad thing for females to hit the gym. Get her doing some squats and lunges. Those will work her legs and ass to help her tone up, but not necessarily lose weight. Sit-ups and crunches for a flatter stomach. She will feel better about her body if it's more toned, even if she is the same size.

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It's not always a bad thing for females to hit the gym. Get her doing some squats and lunges. Those will work her legs and ass to help her tone up, but not necessarily lose weight. Sit-ups and crunches for a flatter stomach. She will feel better about her body if it's more toned, even if she is the same size.

 

Im seeing a girl with a perfectly good HUGE heart shaped ass. But she wants to lose weight. As a girl with a large ass lili, did you notice your ass got smaller when you lost weight?

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if you genuinely think your girl looks good and tell her that on a regular basis there is not much you can do my friend. did something spark her interest in this out of nowhere? and how's the relationship? i know lots of girls who like to make plans before jumping ship.

 

Nah she's always been like that, since I've known her. We've got a great relationship, no complaints, but she'll even turn off the lights before we have sex, starve herself, stare at herself in the mirror type shit. I mean, I'm kind of a skinny/toned dude myself, but I think its because she used to be active (she's got a blackbelt in martial arts) and wants to get back to that way...but I honestly prefer her thick than thin.

 

And yea like before I'd never believe her when she said it, but now she's going to the gym on a regular rotation, she's got a work out buddy, doing meal plans. She's lost a few pounds already.

 

Edit @Lili, I'm only asking because I had an ex who was fat and got skinny and her skin started sagging. I wuldn't want that with my current girl

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Im seeing a girl with a perfectly good HUGE heart shaped ass. But she wants to lose weight. As a girl with a large ass lili, did you notice your ass got smaller when you lost weight?

:bawling: did you just call me fat??

 

yes. but it also got perkier from riding my bike.

 

goose egg, it sounds like your girl has some body image issues. let her do her thing. sorry homie, sex in the dark sucks. the more comfortable she is with you, maybe at some point she will be more comfortable with her body. chances are, if she used to be slimmer and toned, her skin has more elasticity and is less likely to be saggy.

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:bawling: did you just call me fat??

 

yes. but it also got perkier from riding my bike.

 

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i would never mamas. your body is super great... Duh. i'd totally smash /no homo

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coming on 12oz for women advice= bad idea

coming on 12oz for women= eon

*sorry eon* just sayin

I honestly cant think of a good place to meet chiks

bar/club is were i find all the everything in hindsight

its far from ideal. Im not about to go to church. Fuck

all that. Maybe the library. Atleast you may find one

that talk too damn much

 

 

in the bed son.......

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low self-esteem/daddy issues. yeah. most stuff goes back to that. and most girls that say they just like dick got too much of it from daddy...... sorry

 

Uh, no.

 

Girls who whore around a lot with a bunch of different dudes want the attention, and have low self esteem. Back to the whole not enough love from daddy. The women I've met who got too much love from daddy tend to be afraid of men (read: lesbians) and/or have that angry feminist attitude where they need to "fight" for their rights. I even worked with a male to female transsexual who went through the change because of fatherly abuse as a child. She is so afraid of men, she gets panic attacks around them...

 

If you get a girl who is trying to fuck you all the time, chances are she loves the cock and you're doing it right. She'd probably rather fuck the same dude over and over, rather than have to find another guy 'cause you're not giving it to her often enough. But I guess it depends, too. I've met girls who are just trying to get dug out by any dude all the time 'cause they literally *need* it, like on some junkie type shit.

 

Look at it like this, if a girl is straight playing herself to get laid, she's got issues. If she's got game and would up and walk away if you don't play your cards right, she's got some self respect.

 

Sex is supposed to feel good. Women *should* masturbate as much as dudes (ok, maybe not as much as some dudes). But it would definitely keep some women from being emotional, needy little girls.

Everyone tries to turn it into some sort of a complex when women like it too much, yet forget the fact that more men than women visit prostitutes, go to strip clubs, and are the consumers of sex-related products (porn/toys) is rarely addressed. Double standards are for the 1950s.

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i dont get the whole daddy issue thing.

 

"Often though, in the colloquial sense, the idea of having daddy issues relates more to the fact that a girl received inadequate or inappropriate attention from the father figure in her life. An absent father might trigger a girl’s desire to seek male approval elsewhere, and as a teen or young adult, to do so in a sexual manner. An abusive father might seriously wound a father/daughter relationship. Girls, or young women, might express unresolved daddy issues by seeking relationships of a sexual or romantic nature with older men, or alternately, they might replicate their poor relationships with fathers by having abusive partners. Generally, daddy issues implies that a female remains incomplete and seeks some sort of fatherly or familial relationship with mates, which is not the best foundation upon which to build a relationship.

Fathers or strong and consistent male presence in a girl’s life do have a significant affect on self-esteem. This is largely undisputed by experts in psychology. Feeling attractive and loved by “daddy” (or other strong male figure) can help a girl have more confidence and strength. This is not necessarily penis envy, but it does appear as though girls and women can prosper better in their lives if they had positive male input from a father figure. Without that, girls may express daddy issues in seeking out father figures, or placing even very good men with whom they are in relationship, in positions that they really can’t adequately fill.

*** Daddy issues can thus be perceived as attempting to work out problems with the father/daughter relationship, either its complete absence, abuse of the relationship, or unreliability. A woman who goes through life without these issues is often one who had a secure and loving father figure in her life. A person still working on this may try to make today’s relationships “serve” a need that was not adequately fulfilled in childhood and adolescent years. This can lead to poor relationships with men in the present and the future, until the women is able to reconcile a past father/daughter relationship, often through therapy, that wasn’t altogether satisfactory."

-from http://www.wisegeek.com/what-are-daddy-issues.htm

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Uh, no.

 

Girls who whore around a lot with a bunch of different dudes want the attention, and have low self esteem. Back to the whole not enough love from daddy. The women I've met who got too much love from daddy tend to be afraid of men (read: lesbians) and/or have that angry feminist attitude where they need to "fight" for their rights. I even worked with a male to female transsexual who went through the change because of fatherly abuse as a child. She is so afraid of men, she gets panic attacks around them...

 

If you get a girl who is trying to fuck you all the time, chances are she loves the cock and you're doing it right. She'd probably rather fuck the same dude over and over, rather than have to find another guy 'cause you're not giving it to her often enough. But I guess it depends, too. I've met girls who are just trying to get dug out by any dude all the time 'cause they literally *need* it, like on some junkie type shit.

 

Look at it like this, if a girl is straight playing herself to get laid, she's got issues. If she's got game and would up and walk away if you don't play your cards right, she's got some self respect.

 

Sex is supposed to feel good. Women *should* masturbate as much as dudes (ok, maybe not as much as some dudes). But it would definitely keep some women from being emotional, needy little girls.

Everyone tries to turn it into some sort of a complex when women like it too much, yet forget the fact that more men than women visit prostitutes, go to strip clubs, and are the consumers of sex-related products (porn/toys) is rarely addressed. Double standards are for the 1950s.

 

much better breakdown. i do admit there are exceptions to every rule (not that's even a rule or anything) . and of course not all sexually hungry ladies got it from daddy. i just tend to think brevity is the best way to go for these boys most times.....

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unless you want to be her bitch. grow a backbone. if you sit around taking shit from anyone your going to be treated like shit in return. yeah its true what they say about picking your battles. but dont sit around with your mouth shut while your girl or anyone for that matter talks down to you when you know youve done nothing wrong.

 

 

i agree with you 110% but even through years of doing just that, in the eyes of my ex gf's...i'm still wrong.

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Quick question for anyone who cares to answer

 

My girl is thick, in the good way, but she wants to lose weight. At first I didn't believe her, but now she's getting all serious and starting to hit the gym. She's always mad self conscious even though she looks great and I'm always telling her that.

 

So how do I tell my girl to not lose weight without sounding like a dick and her paying attention to me. She's legitimately not fat, but thinks she is.

 

 

 

So here is the deal - until she stops watching TV, reading magazines, looking at the internet, or watching movies, there is no way she will feel like she is at a 'good weight' until these influences tell her so. its just how america roles, unfortuntely. it takes A LOT of hard work, strength, thought, and a positive attitude for a woman in america to like the way she looks and/or her weight.

 

I think its awesome you like her and tell her. someone in her life at one point might of said the opposite which also doesnt help her feeling the way she does.

 

 

also, going to the gym and eating healthy isnt a bad thing for anyone. but if she gets obessed, just watch out. being a positive influence is awesome. maybe go to the gym with her and tell her that her progress is going great.

 

 

edit and ps - telling her not to loose any weight will just make it worse. trust me.

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