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yo shit I need some input.

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okay.

this may come across as some dumb jealousy shit, but I can't figure out what to do, and what better place than 12 to ask for help.

 

my girl and I have been together for about a year and a half, and I'm pretty convinced she's the lovely of my life.

 

there's just been some weird shit going down.

 

a month after we starting seeing each other, she went to a party at some dude's house I didn't know, they were all drinking and shit, but lacked to tell me about it.

 

I eventually found out, and when asked about it, she told me she didn't want me worrying.

 

WELL, had she told me first I would've been cool, I would've told her to be safe, and blah blah blah.

 

The best part is, the guy sent her an email afterwards.

They used to have a thing for each other, and this email was 100 mushy ass questions about him.

 

no thanks.

 

we talked about it, she replied and told him she was over him, and that was (supposedly) that.

 

 

Here we are, over a year later, and we just got into a huge fight, right as I was going out of town.

 

 

suddenly he pops on on her facebook friends list, and when I asked if I should be worried, and how I thought she was done with his bullshit, she said she added him because at one point they were just "friends".

 

I love her, and really want to believe her, but Dude McDudesauce creeps me the fuck out and I'm not really feeling it.

 

 

What should a homie do?

Do I have the right to show concern?

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Guest Ginger Bread Man

if it smells like a duck, walks like a duck, talks like a duck and looks a duck too, he MUST be a duck.

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seriously, even if she didnt, she's trying to push all your buttons. dump her, and make sure you act like you don't give a shit about her when you do it. don't give her the satisfaction.

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buy one of those teddy bear nanny cams n give it to her asa gift n if u see some shit go down

 

heres what youll need

1) a lot of garbage bags

2) an axe(dull/sharp depending on your preference)

3) a hungry dog

4) two pigs

5) 8 gallons of basic pool cleaning acid

6) a large garbage can

7) a flat bed truck to bring the acidy remains of said Dude McDudesauce/ hungry dog/ and 2 pigs to a river

 

all and all if process is needed the dog eating him then the pigs eating the bones and dogs should take 2 to 3 days and give the remains in the acid a good 24 hour soaking period

 

 

enjoy was my plan for a ex but turned out she wasnt cheating so kept it on a sticky note n the back of my mind haha

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hell yeah show concern

 

if you really care for her

 

and want to try to make it work

 

past discretions or not

 

youre gonna have to step to both of them

 

her: check the chick and have her be honest about everything

 

let her know you want to work it out

 

him: step to him, and step hard. its not about a beat down, but lettin him know who runnin the ship

 

if he gets cocky or direspectful

 

as a man you better make him feel that disrespect right back ten fold

 

if she doesnt show that care back to you

 

fuck her off and move on to the next one

 

or you could just kill your self

 

im not a fifteen year old id here

 

married old ass man

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I've been though this.

 

GIRLS LOVE ATTENTION, bottom line.

 

She probably added him to see if he would say some shit... I don't know.

 

If dudes moved on you got nothing to worry about except her feelings for ya.

 

And if you're 100% honest with her, she should do the same. And if she can't, then kick her to the curb.

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like everyone else has said, talk to her, if she isn't showing you the respect or love then dump her, even though you think she is the love of your life that doesn't count for shit if she is showing the same love back.

 

Don't let jealousy eat you up, that will ruin everything you have, just stay calm and deal with the situation, if need be speak to him and tell him that you're with her and if he isn't gonna respect that then deal with him.

 

again like TripleSuplex, I ain't no young kid I'm a married grown up man.

 

How old are you, cos if you're just some youngster then she is just playing games and you probably won't be together forever anyway.

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Next time your with her, wait till your close and lean in on her while she's talking.

 

Pay close attention to her breath, I'm willing to bet it smells like cum.

 

If it doesn't and smells good, like perhaps toothpaste, gum or a mint. You know that it did smell like cum moments before hanging out with you.

 

She's playing you for a fool and she's sucking cock daily without your presence.

 

Its just to bad your to stupid to see it. Or in this case, smell it.

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im all for the pig/axe/acid idea.

 

or you could just cut her open. pump all the blood

out of the and down the shower drain. Cut

it into pieces and put it out in the trash.

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Its just to bad your to stupid to see it. Or in this case, smell it.

 

i mean i know i suggested murder and cruelty to animals a bit but i mean kinda dickish eh?

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go have a vasectomy without telling her, then tell her you want a kid and start getting at it, if the bitch ends up pregnant then she is fucking someone else, then chop up and put in the mincer

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you need to drop this chick dude. ol boy popped up on fb because you got her mad. women are vendictive as hell. they been talking this whole time you 2 been together G. and thats giving her the benefit of the doubt that she was loyal to you and didnt get down with him yet. you shouldnt think you need a chick that looks to get you jealous and suspicious when you piss her off. i was with a girl like that for 3 years. that was 3 years to long. after 1 year of that shit i just started ignoring all that, it made her more pissed cause she thought i didnt give a fuck and was fucking some bitch.

 

WARNING: doing so might cause said girl to go fucking nuts. mine did. been apart for 2 years she still contacts me. got my number some how and just last week called me at 4am. no joke.

 

"you cant trust something that bleeds for 7 days and doesnt die"

 

long rant, im high as shit. didnt read any of the replys so if i said something everyone already said, my fault. hope it helps.

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okay.

this may come across as some dumb jealousy shit, but I can't figure out what to do, and what better place than 12 to ask for help.

 

my girl and I have been together for about a year and a half, and I'm pretty convinced she's the lovely of my life.

 

there's just been some weird shit going down.

 

a month after we starting seeing each other, she went to a party at some dude's house I didn't know, they were all drinking and shit, but lacked to tell me about it.

 

I eventually found out, and when asked about it, she told me she didn't want me worrying.

 

WELL, had she told me first I would've been cool, I would've told her to be safe, and blah blah blah.

 

The best part is, the guy sent her an email afterwards.

They used to have a thing for each other, and this email was 100 mushy ass questions about him.

 

no thanks.

 

we talked about it, she replied and told him she was over him, and that was (supposedly) that.

 

 

Here we are, over a year later, and we just got into a huge fight, right as I was going out of town.

 

 

suddenly he pops on on her facebook friends list, and when I asked if I should be worried, and how I thought she was done with his bullshit, she said she added him because at one point they were just "friends".

 

I love her, and really want to believe her, but Dude McDudesauce creeps me the fuck out and I'm not really feeling it.

 

 

What should a homie do?

Do I have the right to show concern?

 

 

i used to be a chump like you,

i used to let shit like that bother me.

but frankly now, after advice given to my by my fellow oontzers.

nigga, now im bitch-worry-free.

if a bitch wanna hang on my arm, she should know that im the only nigga she should

be talking to.

now im not sayin i dont let my lovelies have male friends.

i just make sure those friends know they best know their place.

cause if they dont, they got a face date with a baseball bat.

and if the bitch persists, kick rocks man and let her be a slut on her own.

she'll come back, they always do.

i would know, i just got a call from my ex last night.

(she left me over some bullshit problems and then started dating a fool who looks just like me...)

so yeah she called.

i found out her life is turning to shit.

and the whole time the call had that "take me back" vibe.

 

TL;DR

let that shit slide once, if it happens again chill her the fuck out and bounce.

trust.

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