Decyferon Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 no I don't think they can, certainly not in the UK, once you have adopted that child you are legally their guardian. I also think that once you have adopted the child there is no right for the adoption agency to give out your details to the natural parents, I think it is only if the child then wants to know their natural parent. I suppose it depends if you adopt from birth and meet the parents or whether you go through an agency and take a child who has already been given up to social services Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 50million Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 it must be way different here. a friend of mine adopted two siblings (one was born a few years after the other). the mother was a crack ho and the father was in jail. i guess the dad got out of jail and they are bringing them to court to try to get the kids back....even though they had the first one for 4+years. they are scared, but they are much better parents than the real ones. someone from the agency has to come in once a month to make sure the kids are healthy and in ok conditions. kinda scary that the government can come in and do that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banana fishd Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 I am adopted. My g-ma adopted me when I was 15 because she was afraid CPS was gonna take us because we been in her home too long as foster kids. Oh and when we were foster kids...its like what you said the social worker comes once a month or every 6 months to make sure the living conditions are cool beans. But after I was adopted I never saw them again. So I think its different if you're adopted. Stuffs suppose to be final then? No more hassle with CPS? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edward Orenthal Norton Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 no once you are the legal guardian the birth parents are out of the picture. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morton Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 A legal adoption makes the adopter sole guardian. There are different types of adoption which have varying amounts of access to the children by their biological parents. Chinese babies have traditionally been the easiest and cheapest although this is changing. Beware of the Russian babies which cost more because they are white but are often up for adoption due to fetal alcohol syndrome. Black domestic born babies are probably fairly easy to come by as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MitchThe$nitch Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 Hope your feeling better. Frankly, I'm a big fan of adoption - but my girl isn't so into it for some reason. I'd rather just not have kids though at this point.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eatso Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 HAIL SATAN! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DRUNKEN-ASSHOLE-ONER Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 no once you are the legal guardian the birth parents are out of the picture. Not always true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illstate Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 sorry to hear that milly, my moms going to get 1 taken out 2morrow and they said it sucks and the pain is really bad she has to be in bed for a week then after cant even pick up a gallon of milk for 3 weeks after the surgery Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 50million Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 yeah thats what happened to me last year, and its going to happen again in january. hope your moma is ok! take care of her... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 50million Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 update went to the docs today. it took 3 fucking hours to get a check up because he was trying to figure out what the fuck was going on. so apparently i have this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endometriosis and this http://www.alternativesurgery.com/education/ovariancysts.php and this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adenomyosis although you cant technically diagnose adenomyosis. hes giving me some cancer medication in hopes that it well help. but i 100% cant have kids (which is a great form of contraception) and he told me specifically to have more orgasms. the movement helps my uterus or something... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illstate Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 more orgasms!!!!!!!fuck the world.. but on a serious note, hope ur all good and u dont have any more problems. my mom is straight shes chillin in bed then gets like 1 month of work so if i was her i couldnt complain to much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IHATEU Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 Endometriosis is super bad, fuck... its like mega period...hope your pussy feels better soon... also bummer about the CHOICE for having kids being gone too... sucks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blood fart Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 This sucks, but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. There is a silver lining to every dark cloud. Or some shit like that. I can't have kids and have been thinking about adoption for a while now. There are still tons of kids born with birth defects because of that whole Chernobyl thing and I would like to get one of those kids. And possibly an Asian with Down's Syndrome. You seem to be taking this pretty good and that is the important thing...don't let it get you down. Feel better soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yinz n'at Posted November 14, 2009 Share Posted November 14, 2009 damn 50 hope you feel better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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