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an ex-x (2ex-es ago) just contacted me out of the blue, i still love you i miss you etc. FUCK THAT

 

dude you cant see it now but she did you the biggest favor of your life.

 

you get to start fresh over, no baggage and residual problems this time around.. as soon as your mild heart attack puppy love chest pains are over you'll be the man again. 22 is the perfect age to party like a rockstar for the next year get your head straight and then become a little more tasteful and sophisticated in choosing a new chicken wing.

think about it... your sophomore (coincidentally an apt word chosen for this situation) taste is that of a child, its corny at best. what are kind of stupid bullshit were you into in HS? now you can make the next decision as a man and with confidence not circumstance.

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Honestly...I'm hugely cynical when it comes to the high school sweetheart scenario. You got people thinking they've seen it all when in reality they haven't even tested the water.

 

One of my best friends is in some disgustingly long relationship that started early in high school. I know if he marries this girl they're both gonna be miserable about 2 years after the rings are on. You can't base your life around one relationship, when you're young you should be out meeting girls and smashing your way across the proverbial great plains. Even if you're not the type of dude to fuck mad girls, at least get into a couple serious relationships before you even entertain the notion of marriage. Niggas STAY playing a dangerous game when they propose at 20.

 

This was more of a personal rant, seeing as I can't really apply it to you and your girl, illstate. I don't know all the intricacies. Even so, get out there man. Do you. As far as people on here go you always seemed like a decent guy, so get back in the saddle and good luck.

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i got out of a 3 and a half year relationship a year ago and i'm still an emo little bitch about it. you're young. keep friends around at all times. also, try to get out of your parents spot. move in with a friend. it'll help you get your mind off shit and it'll be nice to have someone around that's there for you to unload your shit on. keep your head up.

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Welcome to life.

 

Your girl is a typical smut and wants to fuck other dudes.

Being freinds with her will not only make you look like an even bigger chump than she apparently already sees you, but it'll also open you up to seeing her with other dudes.

Nomatter how much you lie to yourself, you're NOT down with seeing her with other dudes.

 

Get your manwhore on and move the fuck on.

 

hate to say it but... THIS^^

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i got out of a 3 and a half year relationship a year ago and i'm still an emo little bitch about it. you're young. keep friends around at all times. also, try to get out of your parents spot. move in with a friend. it'll help you get your mind off shit and it'll be nice to have someone around that's there for you to unload your shit on. keep your head up.

 

i dont think he has freinds:confused:

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AND I'D LIKE TO TAKE A MINUTE JUST SIT RIGHT THERE

 

I'll tell you how I became the prince of a town called Bel-Air

 

In West Philadelphia born and raised

On the playground is where I spent most of my days

Chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool and all shootin' some b-ball outside of the school

When a couple of guys who were up to no good

Started makin' trouble in my neighborhood

I got in one little fight and my mom got scared

And said you're movin' with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air

 

I begged and pleaded with her day after day

But she packed my suitcase and sent me on my way

She gave me a kiss and then she gave me my ticket

I put my walkman on and said I might as well kick it

First class yo this is bad

Drinkin' orange juice out of a champagne glass

Is this what the people of Bel-Air live like

Hmmm this might be all right

 

But wait I hear they're prissy, bourgeois and all that

Is this the type of place that they should send this cool cat

I don't think so I'll see when I get there

I hope they're prepared for the prince of Bel-Air

 

Well uh the plane landed and when I came out

There was a dude looked like a cop standin' there with my name out

I ain't tryin' to get arrested yet I just got here

I sprang with the quickness like lightening disappeared

 

I whistled for a cab and when it came near

The license plate said "Fresh", and it had dice in the mirror

If anything I could say that this cab was rare

But I thought man forget it yo home to Bel-Air

 

I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8

And I yelled to the cabbie, "Yo Holmes, smell ya later!"

Looked at my kingdom I was finally there

To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air

 

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Dont know if you are still keeping up on this illstate.

 

However I had a long term (6 1/2 yrs) fall out 3 years ago ... It has taken me time to get back on my feet but I am stronger and better off.

 

Plus you are 22 ... let the fun begin ... dont get serious with a girl again for at least 5 years !!!

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she sounds like she doesn't respect you.

sounds like there's a lot of jerking around going on.

which you're both to blame for, because she shouldn't be jerking you around,

and you shouldn't have ever made her think that you would stand for said behavior.

 

first love is a bitch.

you gotta go through a few of those before you're ready for wifey.

 

good luck young buck!

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listen to DAO, Earl, and HSAMS.

 

there's been a couple times i thought i lost "the one". eventually i found a better one.

 

cut off all contact for at least a couple months. bang a few broads. even if they're not that hot. give it time to get out of your system and you'll be in a better place to evaluate things.

 

also, why not live in the house you own and have a couple of your least scummy friends rent out a room or living room or whatever?

 

and when you buy that car don't get a new one. save a few g's and get something in good shape that's a few years old. you're young enough that most bitches really don't care what you're driving. especially when you own your own house.

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she needs to re-think what she really wants,

give her space, play it cool!

 

Keep your self busy, do lots with friends, so

you don't think about her 24/7

 

Talk to her but don't sound sad, or too happy.

 

If its true fate has already written you guys in the

books already!

 

I been in the same thing as you, went out with a girl

when I was 15, for 5 years, then she wanted some

space. Now its been 8 years, I'm giving her space

still!!!

 

It didn't work for me but I hope it works for you,

stay up playa!!!

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