Sex vs. Generational gaps

[YouMad.GIF]

I had seen some crazy german scat VHS early in the game.

 

That stuff was still around, it just wasn't accessible to most people

[earl broclo ESQ]

The question here earl, is, is this a bad thing? as it isn't just porn that this generation is unsheltered from. And is growing up around this stuff going to result in 50 year old perverts in 2035 or is it going to be people that think of sex as much less of a big deal. As all the old pervs today were from the 70's? Which is fairly sheltered? Discuss

 

 

It's definitely not just porn that is pushing all this. It's been said in here already, but it's the media's portrayal of sex, celebrity ideology, babies having babies, kids on meds, and pop culture in general. As for the future, I'm definitely scared. I'm getting to that age where I'm probably going to start having kids in the next couple years. If I have a son, I can at least raise him with a level of respect and knowledge, that he probably won't grow into a creepy pervert. But if I have a daughter, I'm going to be like a polar bear mother with her young. I mean the idea of some young kid forcing my daughter to let him throat fuck her, would probably put me over the edge. If she found she enjoyed that on her own, than that's fine. But being peer pressured into that is more like rape in my eyes.

 

And if some older guy comes creeping around, I'll personally lynch the mother fucker with a bass string.

[earl broclo ESQ]

I never saw real deal skat videos, until i was like 25 or 26. It was at school, and some kid showed it to me on Bangedup.com.

 

Speaking of early porn. I'd say around 1981 I discovered my neighbor's Playboy puzzle. They didn't mind me playing in their yard or garage, and that's how I found it. It was like a tall Quaker Oats can that contained the pieces and the fold out centerfold for reference. It was this beautiful 70's brunette with the perfect body. When they used to go away, I used to sneak into their garage to look at that. At 6 years old, it was like a stealth mission for me. I had escape routes set up, and entry points where my Mom wouldn't see me sneaking around their garage. There was also a couple times when they came home while I was in there. That's when I felt like Charles Bronson, trapped by the Nazis. Thankfully, they only parked the car in the garage during the winter, so I could always just wait for them to go in the house before I left. I remember when I was 9, they were having a yard sale, and the puzzle was one of the items. By then it had been a while since I grew board of looking at it, and found other porn in the woods. But that puzzle gave a 6 year old boy's day some extra excitement.

 

As for the up all night USA movies? They never showed nudity. It was the Cinemax/Showtime/HBO deals. I remember waiting in bed for my parents to fall asleep. Then waiting for 1:30 am, so I could sneak downstairs to watch Hardbodies.

 

 

That was probably 85/86. Then there was all the dubbed foreign flicks.

 

 

 

Lady on the Bus

 

Then there was all the classic Andy Sedaris flicks. They where just guns, tits, and explosions, and ferraris.

 

 

[rice eyes]

It's definitely not just porn that is pushing all this. It's been said in here already, but it's the media's portrayal of sex, celebrity ideology, babies having babies, kids on meds, and pop culture in general. As for the future, I'm definitely scared. I'm getting to that age where I'm probably going to start having kids in the next couple years. If I have a son, I can at least raise him with a level of respect and knowledge, that he probably won't grow into a creepy pervert. But if I have a daughter, I'm going to be like a polar bear mother with her young. I mean the idea of some young kid forcing my daughter to let him throat fuck her, would probably put me over the edge. If she found she enjoyed that on her own, than that's fine. But being peer pressured into that is more like rape in my eyes.

 

And if some older guy comes creeping around, I'll personally lynch the mother fucker with a bass string.

 

 

I think the pop culture is having a HUGE impact on the kids today. We have 10 year old girls singing songs like Promiscuous Girl, when they don't even know what the word promiscuous means.

 

adj.

Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners; indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners.

 

also, fuck hannah montana!!

 

[Mauler5150]

Hard ticket to Hawaii! YES!

 

Anyway, I saw my first porn when I was 6 years old, actually my brother (who was 4) found some old VHS in our neighbours house and we watched it and I remember being confused as fuck when I first watched it, as it was weird in some aspects (a guy and girl being tied up on the floor having honey put on them so that ants could bite them and shit) but it was most definitely a porno. Actually after racking my brain it was called 'Dirty Western' from memory, so I guess in a way I was exposed to shit like this from an early age, but I do agree on the death videos being fucked up and back in the day that shit was underground.

 

Also in high school I remember seeing a VHS of girls getting fucked by dogs and shit that some friend of mine bought around that he got from a asian guy that lived in trenchcoats we went to school with when I was 15 or 16. We first thought the video was fucked then we messed with the tracking and we thought it was a regular porn but we were shocked when the picture and sound came in and this girl was blowing a dog before getting mounted by it. It was bizzare to say the least hahaha. Come to think of it, that same friend who showed me that video managed to get his hands on all kinds of freaky porn, lactation videos, sex freaks with some hairy woman (I mean full gorrilla status) and Long dong silver. When I see that Long Dong Silver video floating on the net I get bizzare memorys of that weird video hhaha.

[earl broclo ESQ]

Anyway, I saw my first porn when I was 6 years old, actually my brother (who was 4) found some old VHS in our neighbours house and we watched it and I remember being confused as fuck when I first watched it

 

 

This reminds me of a porno memory I have. My best friend's father had a stash of 6 tapes of porno. They were all three movies each, so it was endless hours of porn to us. We used to have sleep overs where four of us would sneak upstairs after everyone went to bed. Each of us had a task (ie. open cabinet, grab tape, keep look out, write down order in the stack of tapes, and take tapes downstairs while the others make popcorn and grab the bottle of Jolt). So let's just say my buddy's house was where everyone went to on weekends. Kids he went to school with would come over, kids from the neighborhood would come around, and we'd pretty much watch porn and play nintendo until 5am.

 

Well, my buddy had a little sister. She was like 10, and hung out with all the girls her age in the neighborhood. Well, one Saturday afternoon, we're playing soccer and one of the neighborhood kids starts hounding my friend. "Dude, come on, your parents aren't home, let's go watch one!" After a while, we get bored of soccer, and head for the porn. We're sitting there watching this thing, and we don't hear the little footsteps coming down the stairs. They could see the TV, so they sat there silently watching this dude eat a chick out from behind. All of a sudden, one of them yells out "What is he doing to her?!" Around the corner walks my buddy's sister and all her friends. We all scurry to get the tape, turn off the TV, and put it back in the hiding spot without them knowing.

 

A month later, we all go over to his house to watch Hokus Pokus before skating. We walk in, walk downstairs, and there on the floor is all the girls, 10 and under, sitting there watching hardcore porno. The youngest was probably about 5 or 6. She was sitting there staring at the TV with this kind of face:

 

 

I just started laughing. I couldn't stop! He was pissed, and bugged out on her. It really wasn't because it was porn, but more so because she would blow up the spot and the porn would disappear.

[twinky the kid]

we'd pretty much watch porn and play nintendo until 5am.

 

this was my life from ages 10-16.

[Lesbian Fisting]

As an avid internet porn user, Ive seen a rise in anal sex both on the web and in life. Shit used to be super taboo now its more popular than blowjobs.

[a/s/l?]

OH

 

 

 

so that's whats been going on

[dowmagik]

The first time i saw porn on the computer was the late 80s. I'm not sure if it was a BBS or what, but I vividly remember it taking over 40 minutes to download several large pictures. I'll never forget, one pic was of a girl fucking herself with a cucumber, but you could adjust the speed in which she penetrated herself, it was rad.

 

First time I saw porn at all was at my next door neighbors, the kid's dad had an issue of Cheri (i think) that was found in his folks bedroom. Shortly after i talked his older sister (she was 7 or so) into pulling her pants down so I could see her vagina. I remember thinking WTF this girls vagina looks totally different than the ones in Cheri.

 

In junior high school one of my friends found a copy of NUGGET magazine in his dad's bedroom. Holy shit, that opened a door to a world I never knew existed. People wearing diapers, midgets getting ass fucked, amputee porn, people wearing tight latex suits...good times

[Feed Yer Ego]

when i was 18 i was briefly dating this girl who was only 15

 

i was the second person she ever sexxed, but she wanted it all the time non-stop

 

a couple months after i broke up with her she was getting trains ran on her

 

@_@

>

=

 

 

 

also when i was like 13 hot girls from school would casually give me and my friends HJs and BJs just cuz we were the bad boy cool kid types and always had weed

 

 

it's definitely a terrible time to be fathering daughters

[dowmagik]

I don't want any kids, let alone a daughter. My homie has a 5 year old daughter, and his wife is smoking fucking hot, so his kid will most likely grow up to be really hot. Poor bastard.

[earl broclo ESQ]

Shortly after i talked his older sister (she was 7 or so) into pulling her pants down so I could see her vagina. I remember thinking WTF this girls vagina looks totally different than the ones in Cheri.

 

I did this with girls when I was young, but it was really just "You show me your's, I'll show you mine" kind of things. I think that is actually quite normal. At age 8, I pulled the shirt of a babysitter up because she was one of those "early developing" teens. I was 8, had a total crush on this chick, and was like "what are those?" So we're over at my cousin's house (who she was babysitting) and we're playing in the backyard. I don't know what the game was, but it was like "keep away" or something. She feel down, I grabbed her shirt, and "BOOBIES."

 

I was then sent home, my mom had to have a "talk" with me, and I had to apologize next time I saw her. To top it off, she gave me this whole "that was really embarrassing for me, and......"

 

So I learned that lesson pretty young.

 

But the whole "show me your's, show you mine" stuff is quite normal in kids. "let me stick my tongue in your asshole?" That's not so normal. Hell, 7 year olds fingering each other isn't even normal. It's probably happening though.

[earl broclo ESQ]

it's definitely a terrible time to be fathering daughters

 

I don't really think so, it just seems more demanding now. You have to know what your kids are doing, whom they are with. Somehow you have to develop an open trust with them. I mean, you can't protect them from everything, but if you're a strong enough influence on your daughter, it does make a difference. I think now is actually a good time to be a female. Woman's rights and role in society has changed a lot, and if I were to raise a strong female whom I can be proud of --that would be the biggest accomplishment of my life.

[dowmagik]

totally unrelated but kinda funny-

 

last year the old lady and myself were at a strip club and one of the strippers was a girl that my wife grew up with and her dad used to babysit. so she walks over to us, says hi to wifey and says

 

"i saw your dad here last week"

 

one of the raddest moments ever.

[earl broclo ESQ]

this is really interesting concept. i was an '84 baby and honestly had no interest in the internet until i started using it to do research in college and got on myspace and crap. we had it but i would rather be out actually interacting with boys at that age. you know. so i never saw anything too crazy sex-wise online. probably why i've never been fisted/gangbanged/fucked with a squid...i onno. but i did see enough lady-writhing-in-ecstasy porno to be extremely let down the night i lost my v-card. i was like, THOSE NAKED BITCHES IN THE WHITE SOCKS WERE FRONTING. THIS SUCKS. then i got older and learned how to fuck/dated people who knew how to fuck and it got better of course.

 

but anyways, i think it's sort of cool that these kids are growing up watching a lot of porn, but i guess it depends on the porn. i think porn has the potential to be used as a tool, or something positive, especially amateur porn because it shows how real people fuck, and what real bodies look like. i bet if you did a poll of how many chicks were squirters before the internet and how many chicks made themselves learn how to squirt after they saw it on the web and were like, DO WANT, i would bet that there are a lot more of them now, and to me that is amazing. i think that porn has taught women a lot about their own physical capabilities and to me that's a good thing.

 

 

So you weren't watching online bukakke videos when you were 14, but you were watching videos. I'm just curious, and a serious no/pedobear, but do you think the guys you were hooking up with were? I'm only curious because if they were, I'm wondering how dominant and demanding they were. This will only work into my theory.

 

A few years ago, I met this girl who was about 23. I think I was 31 at the time. She was a fox, and I was lonely, so I went with it. We only dated for 3 months I think, but it progressively grew stranger. She would tell me about the stuff she did as a teen, but be weird in bed with me. I have a feeling she might be bi-polar, but I'm not a clinical psychologist so who am I to say. Anyways, she would tell me all about these crazy sex acts she did when she was younger, but it was pretty basic with us. Actually, it was pretty straight forward vanilla sex. I have a feeling that she was feeling obvious guilt for her past, and having issues dealing with it. Almost like an emotional scarring. I know it was the boy she was dating, and a couple others, that kind of pushed her into that shit. So I'm curious how more often than not that was a regular occurence.

 

As for squirters? I've never met a girl who's into that, I have no clue how to do that, and to be honest, I think most those videos are just chicks pissing and faking an orgasm.

[CALIgula]

 

Altho back in the day USA up all night had soft core on it

I use to tape some of that

Bikini carwash company!

 

 

yes!

this!

wonk saggin

[zebradrips]

So you weren't watching online bukakke videos when you were 14, but you were watching videos. I'm just curious, and a serious no/pedobear, but do you think the guys you were hooking up with were? I'm only curious because if they were, I'm wondering how dominant and demanding they were. This will only work into my theory.

 

A few years ago, I met this girl who was about 23. I think I was 31 at the time. She was a fox, and I was lonely, so I went with it. We only dated for 3 months I think, but it progressively grew stranger. She would tell me about the stuff she did as a teen, but be weird in bed with me. I have a feeling she might be bi-polar, but I'm not a clinical psychologist so who am I to say. Anyways, she would tell me all about these crazy sex acts she did when she was younger, but it was pretty basic with us. Actually, it was pretty straight forward vanilla sex. I have a feeling that she was feeling obvious guilt for her past, and having issues dealing with it. Almost like an emotional scarring. I know it was the boy she was dating, and a couple others, that kind of pushed her into that shit. So I'm curious how more often than not that was a regular occurence.

 

 

i would say teenage boys in general are just about the least dominant or demanding of any age group, sexually--or, they were when i was that age. i think teenage girls are a little more sexually complex than their male peers. boys at that age are usually on some in and out, bust a nut type shit.

 

maybe that girl just wanted to have vanilla sex with you, and not other people, because your relationship was different than ones she had in the past. when you switch up the partners, the sexual chemistry between you switches as well. in the way that you might have a lot of sweet girlfriend sex with the wifey but if you just picked up some random slut at a bar you might be a little rougher and less caring with her. you don't fuck everyone the same way.

 

i am interested in your theory (i think this is sort of what you're saying?) that a porn-saturated society breeds more sexually submissive women--but you seem to be saying that they aren't ever submissive by choice, but it's something that gets forced onto them by society, or something they seek out because they're so eager to please. for me it was the opposite: i was always a pretty sexual person but never really enjoyed sex that much until i got older and met someone who was a little more dominant and realized that i definitely tended towards the submissive. it was sort of a shock to me, i think it was because i'm so motherish in other areas of my life and so accustomed to being pushy and virgo-y, that it was just nice to let my mind go and have someone else boss me around, and i think that's the case with a lot of bossy-type women.

[CALIgula]

im currently seeing a 43 year old....thats a generational gap!

[Banana fishd]

this is really interesting concept. i was an '84 baby and honestly had no interest in the internet until i started using it to do research in college and got on myspace and crap. we had it but i would rather be out actually interacting with boys at that age. you know. so i never saw anything too crazy sex-wise online. probably why i've never been fisted/gangbanged/fucked with a squid...i onno. but i did see enough lady-writhing-in-ecstasy porno to be extremely let down the night i lost my v-card. i was like, THOSE NAKED BITCHES IN THE WHITE SOCKS WERE FRONTING. THIS SUCKS. then i got older and learned how to fuck/dated people who knew how to fuck and it got better of course.

 

but anyways, i think it's sort of cool that these kids are growing up watching a lot of porn, but i guess it depends on the porn. i think porn has the potential to be used as a tool, or something positive, especially amateur porn because it shows how real people fuck, and what real bodies look like. i bet if you did a poll of how many chicks were squirters before the internet and how many chicks made themselves learn how to squirt after they saw it on the web and were like, DO WANT, i would bet that there are a lot more of them now, and to me that is amazing. i think that porn has taught women a lot about their own physical capabilities and to me that's a good thing.

 

in the same vein, being able to look up specialty/niche porn so easily online is not necessarily a bad thing. we all grew up watching the same boring skinny bitches with no ass, huge fake ripply tits, and long bleached hair and bikini bottom tan lines that come up to the isthmus of their waists get nailed by some fabio lookalike on a crack steroid cocktail. BORING. now, you have a choice--obviously, the standard for what is considered hot has changed a lot in the last 15 years, but still.

 

 

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x6e1nf_zapp-and-roger-computer-love-1986_music

 

“oooooookkkkkay”

 

No offense intended zeebs…but I don’t think we (or maybe it’s just me)

need porn to teach us how to have sex. The deed is pretty

much ingrained in our system. The pros your describing that easy

access porn can provide for thee young people kinda takes the work

or fun out of living and learning. All the squitring, positions

and woopti doo dahs of intercourse will kinda come as it comes (ha).

If I am in correct understanding that is how you learned right?

 

Also the skinny fake boobs cliché that was once popular

way back when I am sure was just marketing.

According to the American Marketing Association, marketing is just

 

“the activity, set of institutions, and processes

for creating, communicating, delivering, and exchanging

offerings that have value for customers, clients, partners, and society at large.”

 

Considering the turn pornography has taken and

how common it is that’s pretty terrifying.

Your right. We have choices now. But the choices we are making are kinda

stretching the limits to maybe a numbing point.

I agree with Mauler the next 10-30 years is going to be interesting.

I am pretty much set in teaching my kids how

to research using the encyclopedia.

[Mauler5150]

O am watching some porn doco I saw on the front page of new torrents on demonoid called '9 to 5: Days in porn' and it is interesting so far. Will let you know what I think when I am done watching it.

[zebradrips]

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x6e1nf_zapp-and-roger-computer-love-1986_music

 

“oooooookkkkkay”

 

No offense intended zeebs…but I don’t think we (or maybe it’s just me)

need porn to teach us how to have sex. The deed is pretty

much ingrained in our system. The pros your describing that easy

access porn can provide for thee young people kinda takes the work

or fun out of living and learning. All the squitring, positions

and woopti doo dahs of intercourse will kinda come as it comes (ha).

If I am in correct understanding that is how you learned right?

 

 

:lol:

 

oh lordy. i must not have 'splained myself very well.

not that it should be, but just that it has the potential to be used as a tool.

i agree that good old fashioned trial and error is the best way to learn how to bone.

the future will definitely be interesting...

[Mauler5150]

Well after watching that doco, it seemed that there is a certainly personality type that is drawn into the world of porn, however it remains to be seen exactly how the current easy access to porn will affect this generation and their mindset.

In summary, I learned that Sasha Grey has an uncanny resemblance to my sister, and even though I am impressed by her mindset and everything, she just isn't appealing to me due to said resemblance. I learned that these porn relationships are all fucked up thanks to Otto Bauer and Audrey Hollander. To me I could see them grudge-fucking their on screen partner to spite their real life partner and to me, that is just fucked up. I have a new respect for Katja Kassin, as I can see now that she is just a normal person trapped in the porn world.

Either way I recommend that anyone with an interest i nthis topic should really watch this and see hwo the people involved in the industry view it, and to me it seems that one point that was made by some girl in that it is the public's demand to see double anals/creampies/more kinds of fucked up shit etc that has resulted in it becoming prevalent in modern day porn and it isn't really the mindset of the performers. In all it was really interesting to watch.

[zebradrips]

yeah, the girl who set up our twitter has us following all these porn stars, and a lot of them seem to live pretty normal lives.

 

 

except for this one i read the other day that said "it's a beautiful morning. would be a shame not to be forcibly facefucked in the park today."

[nnout]

yeah, the girl who set up our twitter has us following all these porn stars, and a lot of them seem to live pretty normal lives.

 

 

except for this one i read the other day that said "it's a beautiful morning. would be a shame not to be forcibly facefucked in the park today."

 

 

 

she's a keeper

[c-walk]

Or a creeper...

[earl broclo ESQ]

Or a head case with baggage.

[2009]

[Hayabusa]

old ass motherfuckers up in here

[dowmagik]

Or a head case with baggage.

or she has a sense of humor