KILZ FILLZ Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 some good advice in here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tails0nE Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 well im pretty blown and read all the advice and come to a conclusion... kind of... this girl is madly in love with me... i know, shes told me plenty of times... like i said im like elbow deep in this bitch shes so attatched to me... she told me yesterday as i was leaving "dont worry, soon we'll be able to spend all day and night together... as long as you get your place.." suggesting moving in with me.. while talking to her i asked her if she was serious about us and all that... she is.. so i cant just dump her like a rock... fucked up cause ill have a guilty concious if i do.... so really, i mean i could just stay with her, and see how things go... cause i know for a damn fact shes a freak, its just what her grandma is drillin in her head about this god stuff thats holding her back... SxMamii4: i cant Tails0nE: cant what........? SxMamii4: FUCK YOU Tails0nE: why? SxMamii4: cause i cant SxMamii4: cause if i could.. SxMamii4: i wuld of already she said it herself... plus shes bi, has a best friend who they go down on eachother at times, and when we've gotten "hot" or whatever we might as well just fuck since shes riding my dick so hard moaning loud as hell with titties flappin in my face... eventually i have a feeling she might give in and ill hit it... maybe, maybe not... if i do i know im gonna have to be reeeaally careful with it like fam finding out or not.. yes i know sex can get me in a whole lot of trouble at my age... been there already... so i guess ill have to ride it out and see what happens i guess... or i could just smash the stupid lil ho's in my area... there are alot of girls i know who are down for the horizontal mombo so it shouldnt be hard... but if i do that ill have to be MAD low-key with it... and if i do that, then my guilty concious will creep up on me.... so im probably going to end up riding it out and see how i play the cards delt... if cards shall be delt at all.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyeBee Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 I dated a virgin once that told me I'd hafta wait at least 4 months to fuck. Within 2 weeks of us "officially" dating she asked me to hit it. I said no the first time, just for good measure haha Another time I had a girl who I was talking to for like 4 months that said she wouldn't fuck...we found a compromise and just used to 69 alot I also had a girl once that I talked to for 2 or 3 months that wasn't giving it up, and after awhile I just had a serious conversation with her and told her straight up that I wasn't interested in a relationship that didn't involve sex Basically what I'm sayin is you can either be pimp enough that she wants it just as bad as you. Or you could find a compromise. or you could be honest. Or you could just go with the time tested strategy of getting your nuts off with other people. Hope this cleared your situation up for you haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 tails, im going to put this as light as possible. your girlfriend is retarded. she claims that the god she believes in does not allow her to have sex until marriage which leads me to believe she is of some sort of western belief. as far as i know all western belief systems also say bi and homosexuality is forbidden. any type of sex is forbidden. this means that her licking another girls snatch is just as bad as you raw dogging her, pulling out and using her face as a napkin (spilling your seed). never, EVER stay in a relationship because you will feel guilty afterwards, that will just eventually make you so fed up that you will break up with her in some blown up over the top way like calling her a fucking circus act and spilling a drink on her head (witnessed this in a bar recently). her moving in with you does not mean you will be beating her guts. in fact that shit would be a horrible situation if it ends up that she wont give it up when you live together. you are 17, she is 15, how on gods green earth are you able to afford a place to sleep that isnt the homeless shelter? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tails0nE Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 yeah the whole bi thing i dont get neither.... her grandma makes her study the bible i guess jahova witness or whatever the fuck... im not big into religion.. dont know why.... but if shes down to go past the religion for some carpet munching then shes bound to have sex... i dont get it neither and still we might as well just fuck if she gets into pornstar mode all the time things get heated up... patience is a vertue or whatever i guess... and i have a way to have enough money for a place and then some... not an illegal way but i know ill have enough money for an apartment and all the works.. and yes her moving in with me doesnt gurantee i will smash every night... i know this... and now that u mentioned it will probably turn out fucked up.... like i said im just going to play the cards i guess... if it comes to a point where its all messed up or anything then im eventually gonna toss her and move on... and ayebee those choices really are the only things i got to work with... be on pimp status, find a compromise, honesty, or smash the local hoochies... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 Jehovah's Witness. oh god dude. that religion is ridiculous. I have a friend with cancer that is a JW and she will not take a blood transfusion because of that religion even though it will help her immensely after surgery. she has to wait in bed for i think several weeks after surgery or chem o in order for her white blood cell count gets up to a reasonable number again. her husband has to wipe her ass for her during this time and she shits into a bed pan. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tails0nE Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 yeah it is ridiculous... im not big into relgion, i dont know why... i kind of think just follow the basic things like dont kill, steal i guess, and the other major commandments if anything, and all is well... kind of common sense really... i kind of believe in god and all that but not completly so i dunno about this whole religion thing and dont have much of a say so on it... but her grandma is grinding this book into her head.... and since its fam of course shes going to follow or whatever... i told her its your decision on what religion, if any, you want to believe in or believe is right.. "shes made her decision"... so yeah im still stuck with those options so im going to have to see how everything goes... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 oh and also, being a Jehovah's Witness she is not allowed to have a relationship of this type with you because you are not a Jehovah's Witness as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tails0nE Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 really? well that fuckin sucks.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 leave a bag of cess in her mailbox for her parents to find Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyeBee Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 Jehovah's Witnesses are fuckin crazy....my best friends girl is a Jehovah. Well, actually, her Mom is and she just now started studying that shit, like this was the first Christmas that she didn't celebrate, shit like that. He broke up with her a few weeks ago but he's still smashing, I told him that's likely to stop at some point too with the new religous kick This kid's whole family loves Jehovahs...his Dad is married to one, his brother was chasing one for years....fuckin weird, they must have magical vaginas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heavyLox Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 14? me?? naw... 17 homie... shes gonna be 16 in a month or so.... this is the best thing i have ever read on this site. I remember when there was a World sized gap between being 14 and 17, now all i can see is from age 0- until you're a dumb ass, will be for most of your life, the only thing that changes is your ability to recognize just how much of a dumb ass you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAR Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 14? me?? naw... 17 homie... shes gonna be 16 in a month or so.... LOL. I assumed you were twenty-something, I should have read the aim conversations more carefully. Disregard my advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c-walk Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 at heavylox: now that right there is the best thing i've read in a real long time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SerialSkiller Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 TailsOne: it seems like shes very keen and doesnt give a fuck about the rules/religion that shes been forced into believing/following, shes just to scared to fuck i reckon. i dont know why she would be goin down on girls and not fuckin you though, that seems a little bit weird. whatever you do, dont move in with her...just ride it out, it sounds like your probably getting your rocks off anyway if shes ridin you that hard, sooner or later your gonna have sex. stop stressin so much about it, if you like spendin time with her just do it. and hit up that threesome with her friend son!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c-walk Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 yea i'm ganna have to go ahead and say dont move in with this chick tails... you are young as fuck man and there is no need to get yourself into something that heavy. especially with her being bi there is a good chance that its going to get to you sooner or later, and as far as fucking her... dont stress it cause if you end up fucking her this young she'll either be so in love with you or she's just end up crazy. i mean thats my two cents, just ride out what you got and if it gets to hectic, bounce but dont be a dick about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tails0nE Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 good points... you make a good point thirstyman... and the whole bi thing i dont get neither... and ad far as her riding me all crazy about it... thats just a big ass tease.... cause she'll hop right off after a while and im stuck laying there like a jackass.... yeah she does seem scared but it will just take time i guess... and the whole drilling the religion into her head thing is probably making her lean towards the "no sex" side some more... and i dont really plan on having her move in with me... she just said she would love to move in with me and its up to me if i want her to... cause once i graduate, im moving in with my sis for a little bit, stacking up some paper, and gettin a room mate or 2 and getting my own place... if it comes to that point where we're together for that long, which im not sure will happen, i have no problem with her comin by, sleepin over a couple nights or so... best bet is to just take it day by day and play the cards being delt... and i plan on having that threesome once, or if, i do end up smashing... plus if i do smash i already know shes gonna be head over heels for me... ive taken a good amount of v-cards in my day, and they all did the same thing... just wanted it even more... so only time will tell i guess... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAR Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 I'm going to break it down real simple. If she's a religious devout and your not, then your probably not meant for each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest shai_hulud Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Tails...my man. I am going to tell you the last thing you want to hear, but you need to hear it before you make a BIG mistake. THIS GIRL IS STUFFING ON YOU. I don't doubt that she's a virgin, but if she's got you this sprung and still hasn't fucked you yet, then you can look forward to more of the same. If she loved you, she would say, "I'm not going to give it up till marriage. That's that. You can stick around if you want, but if that's too long, then you have every right to leave and find someone who will make you happy." She would NOT be going to see her ex that punches her in the face and not telling you where to find him so you can square up because "he's tougher than you". (I think this was you, if not, never mind.) She would NOT be getting into freaky bi scenes with her girlfriend, and telling you about it. She WOULD stick up to her parents and tell them that she wants to see you, and that she's going to do it one way or the other...and that it would be better if she had their blessing. She would NOT be blaming her decisions to not sleep with you on some strict, religious grandmother drilling Jesus into her head. She'd let you do what you want, and would NOT be trying to manipulate you by hanging the possibility that you might get to hit it someday. Everything I'm hearing makes me think that the sooner you get free of the romantic side of this relationship, the happier you'll be. Stay friends with her if you want, but if you think that there''s some pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, well...you might want to reconsider that. You're seventeen. You should be out doing what YOU want to do, which obviously is going out, drinking and smoking, and laying pipe and generally having a good time. Waiting for someone to make up their mind like this is going to make you bitter and will NOT turn out well in the end. I know this is probably what you don't need to hear right now, but dude...you're going to be on the hook because you already gave up the goods. You gave her the attention she wanted...the bitch of it is, if she ain't fucking, then she ain't fucking. Don't force it, there's plenty of girls that will and won't put you through half the headaches for the sack time. Good luck either way. If you decide to stick it out, then you are a far, far better seventeen year old than I was. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tails0nE Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 damn i wasnt expecting all of this advice... and shai i get what your saying completely, you seem like you have a good knowledge of many things... she DOESNT see her ex that punched her in the face.. (yeah it was me) he calls her and what not... not too long ago he called her again but i discussed the situation with her and he wont be bothering her anymore... she handled it herself... she has stuck up for me to her parents many of times... when if first tried to talk to her ma since she didnt like me, she would not stop babbling in spanish on how much she cares for me and ended up saying, "but..... but mom.... i just love him soooo much and want to spend all the time i can with him... and... and..." became speechless... and yes i am 17, but i've been to parties and lived up all the hype of being my age and older, when i was a freshman... i've lived up all the hype already... anything you can think of ive done it already.. partied from the around 4 in the afternoon till 8 in the mourning, beer pong, keg stands, running trains on drunk eruo bitches, ive done alot... my mom sells apartments where we live, and she became close friends with these two 20 year olds who lived upstairs from us.. one night they came down, one left, the other (mike) came in my room and was like "hey if u aint doin nothing u wanna chill or sumthin?" i figured why not... went to his crib, smoked like 2 blunts and just talked the night away getting to know eachother... the following weekend i was at their crib partying like a rockstar with people twice, and three times my age and drinking everyone under the table.. i became to be known as "the lil drunk dude" at the parties.. or called "lil 40" since i always had a 40 in my hand... i've smashed a girl at every party of theirs or any party i went to with them... every weekend i was at their crib.. my guy mike would come home from work at like 11 on a friday, just walk right on in the crib like he lived there, talked to the parents a bit, told me to get dressed, and we were out the whole weekend... and my parents wouldnt even trip or blow up the cell phone.. since they knew him well, i would just say, "yo im going to mikes" they would reply with "alright have fun.. make sure your phones charged." the parties i've been to with people my age, have been LAME AS FUCK... im used to everyone with a drink in their hand, more females than males, and all the things you or anybody at the age of 21 would be doing at a party... and the people around my area my age arent on that yet.. its just a bunch of wanna be gang bangers stupid drunk, yelling stupid shit, throwing signs and dipping signs like its nothing... they come in the party with a couple bottles and weed, but be like "ya'll wanna sip on this bottle with us? throw the fin.. u wanna blow this blunt with us? throw down the sawbuck and its all good.. i got that purp, that dro, blah blah blah"... niggas yelling GD ALL DAY KING KILLA but throwing the wrong signs... throwin down the forks and the crown up as they yell it... niggas in my area are stupid... they're clowns.. and i guess being in that type of enviorment with all those older people matured me... cause i became real close friends with everyone that would be at those parties.. and since i was young they would encourage me to finish homework and what not... my guy mike even told me a couple times like "yo finish your work first... then come on upstairs ill have a beer waiting for you.." really come to think about it people told me i was always mature for my age... like "damn dude your like a 20 year old trapped in a 14 year olds body..." relationship wise, ive had my share of those as well... ive been in the whole "i love u baby" type relationship before, that crashed and burned, ive been in the "fuck buddy" relationships as well... and with this girl ill have the guilty concious creep up on me if i do her bogus.. i already did her bogus before over summer school... i was a reeeaaal asshole over the summer and didnt give a fuck about anything... but she still took me back and still wanted to be with me... so this decision is going to be tough... like i said im probably just going to have to see how the cards are played... if it gets hectic as hell im probably going to have to end it, if things go smooth as a babys bottom, well just see what happens... like i said im just going to have to take it day by day i guess... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Y.FRESHJIVE Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 when your at a party and they girls are like 18-24ish, and every ones drinking and having a fun time. to me it is alot easier to hook up,get with a girl, get a number etc.. agree, disagree?? it all depends on the girl tho. when i go to a place ex: party i try to spot out a few girls that i will go for that night. i was at a party new years, starting seen this one chick at the party, i talking too her, she was real cool, good looking, none slutty. we hit it off, played some beer pong, and like 2 hours later we were in my friends bed room, and it was a done deal. funny because before i went to the party, i was bugging out cause i havent got any pussy in like 4 months. but i guess thats how it is. well theres my rant :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest shai_hulud Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 I wasn't expecting that either. Anyway, I was 17 once. (Back when dinosaurs still had square wheels...:rolleyes:) I was doing all kinds of crazy shit in my teens. I had a couple of those girls along the way...and I always knew within a week or two if they were going to give it up or not. If not, then it was no big thing. Some other girl would come along that would, and that's all I really needed to know. All I'm saying is, don't sell yourself short. If she's not ready to sleep with you, then that's that. You should just peace her out and hope to be friends with her. However, it sounds like you want more than she does, for whatever reason...and, it sounds like you already know that there's a lot of opportunity to have fun out there. So, best of luck. It just sounds like you're going around in circles over this, and it's really a much easier situation to resolve than you think it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fox Mulder Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 my girl of three years just broke up with me in the beginning of december. i had a really good job but i didn't know anyone else in the area so i quit and moved back home. a week later i come to get my shit from "our"/her house and we make up. have some of the best sex of my life. we say we are going to do a trial seperation. we still chill and shit. we go out to a bar xmas night she kisses me. i smile and tell her that makes me so happy. then she pulls me to the side and tells me she can't do it anymore. my heart is crushed once again. i don't call her. she calls me new years eve(her bday) and asks why i didn't call her to wish her a happy bday. she is still down in my area for xmas break.i have never been this depressed in my life. to add to all this i have a serious substance abuse problem(opiates/benzos) which i am in the process of trying to kick. she had no idea about my addiction until i told her after the break up. no one new about my habit except for a few close junky friends. but this whole break up is making it hard as shit. i honestly have never felt this bad in my life. heartbreak and dope sickness is horrible. all in all i know i gotta stay strong and not do anything real stupid. i'm currently trying to get into an out patient treatment program. life ain't so good. peace J oner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest shai_hulud Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Damn, dude. I hope that turns out okay. Just stay home for a while and get well. That's about all you can do. Try not to think about shit that is going to make you want to fall off. It's gonna be rough, but stay strong and do what you think is right. I'm not a big fan of rehab, but if it's bad enough that you think that you need it, do it. Better that you get straight than get stuck in a cycle. I've been in more or less the same spot before. The only thing you can do is ride it out and be glad you had the sense to see where you were headed before you got too fucked up. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fox Mulder Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Thanks man. my drug situation isn't as bad as it could be. like how all my friends i started this with have moved to the needle and i haven't. i still look healthy pay my bills and maintain. but it definately isn't good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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