Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Since the last time i cried. damn. ive never felt this low.or like this ever. This is how it went down: My girl walks in. Pissed! rushes towrds me. Slaps me. Starts busting out crying.saying "how could you how could you" How could you fuck that ho!!! so im confused trying to figure out whats going on. she says so and so's name. she says how could you fuck her the night before we got together. i didnt know what to do. i couldnt lie. i couldnt say sorry at that moment. it turns out that some "girl" that i had fucked the night before i got with my girl she told my girl that shit my girl was out wit some friends. and her friends brought along that one girl. so they chit chated and my girl was talking about me then that one bitch had to go and open her fucking mouth hell broke out like i said earlier. she started packing her shit. i said baby dont go. i love the girl. i need her. i convinced her to stay but shes in the room crying her eyes out.i layed with her saying sorry there was nothing i could say. besides sorry. this is the most serious thing that has happened with us. and its almost 2 years together. i know i should be with her right now as im typing this but she hit me telling me to leave her along right now. now i know thats not what im supposed to do. but she kept kicking me away. its been a while since i felt helpless and not knowing what to do. i dont ask for advice and im not. but damn. i really dont know what to say. i know she'll get over it and we can move on. im just scared that she wont think of me the same or she'll see me disgusting. my girl was a virgin when i met her. so shit like that pisses her off. maybe some ladies that have experienced this tell me what happens next any guys tell me what happens next im so fucking stuck Sorta help please?:confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaolinmasta Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 ShE'lL gIt OvA iT yA hEaRd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fat ralphy Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 yeah she probably will, but almost a year ago i told my lady i had cheated on her two years before, and i still hear about it....shits tough to deal with for her and for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 fuck. thats what i dont want. but have to live with . from now on. im ganna hear. you cheated on me. we wernt official till the next morning. but. we were still talking and into each other. then the night before. i get bone this chick and the next morning i chose my wifey. now its ganna be hell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fat ralphy Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 are you guys married, how long ago did this go down Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R3@lm1 Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Since the last time i cried. damn. ive never felt this low.or like this ever. This is how it went down: My girl walks in. Pissed! rushes towrds me. Slaps me. Starts busting out crying.saying "how could you how could you" How could you fuck that ho!!! so im confused trying to figure out whats going on. she says so and so's name. she says how could you fuck her the night before we got together. i didnt know what to do. i couldnt lie. i couldnt say sorry at that moment. it turns out that some "girl" that i had fucked the night before i got with my girl she told my girl that shit my girl was out wit some friends. and her friends brought along that one girl. so they chit chated and my girl was talking about me then that one bitch had to go and open her fucking mouth hell broke out like i said earlier. she started packing her shit. i said baby dont go. i love the girl. i need her. i convinced her to stay but shes in the room crying her eyes out.i layed with her saying sorry there was nothing i could say. besides sorry. this is the most serious thing that has happened with us. and its almost 2 years together. i know i should be with her right now as im typing this but she hit me telling me to leave her along right now. now i know thats not what im supposed to do. but she kept kicking me away. its been a while since i felt helpless and not knowing what to do. i dont ask for advice and im not. but damn. i really dont know what to say. i know she'll get over it and we can move on. im just scared that she wont think of me the same or she'll see me disgusting. my girl was a virgin when i met her. so shit like that pisses her off. maybe some ladies that have experienced this tell me what happens next any guys tell me what happens next im so fucking stuck Sorta help please?:confused: i think you should break up with her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 naw not married. and i had sex with that girl almost two years ago. my girls bent out of shape cause weve talked about this shti while we were together. shit like. who have i been with and that shit. more details and shit and she finds out and i was done with lying. it sucks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R3@lm1 Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 naw not married. and i had sex with that girl almost two years ago. my girls bent out of shape cause weve talked about this shti while we were together. shit like. who have i been with and that shit. more details and shit and she finds out and i was done with lying. it sucks break up with her if shes not happy and all your doing is making her misserable then break up with her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fat ralphy Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 yeah same shit happened to me, i never told her and i could have told her and not telling her is lying etc etc.....shit is hard man but if you guys get along most of the time it will likely work out, me and my girl fight alot but we are still getting over this, all i can say is FLOWERSMADAPOLOGYJEWELRYOUTTODINNERONER has been my status for quite a while. the saddest thing is my girl would never do shit like that to me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClownPrince Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 The fact is, you weren't together, you had no true "committment" to the girl, but nevertheless you two had something going, so she's going to feel betrayed regardless of how long ago it happened or what your situation was at the time. I've learned one thing with girls i've dated, they hold grudges like no other animal on this planet. If you admit to being wrong, and assure her you're there for her, you guys will stay together, and she'll still have feelings for you...as she still does, but chances are, she'll trust you just about as far as she can throw you, so expect a much controlling relationship from this point onward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 i pretty much told her that ill be here for her and i admit i was wrong and ill always love her and to fat ralphy my bank is about to be broken. but its worth it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 i think you should break up with her if im the one thats in the wrong why should i brake it off? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fat ralphy Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 yeah dude, dont break up with her, and you can tell she still wants to be with you cuz if she didnt she wouldnt have gotten all crazed ladies show their cards and are not to hard to read I agree with ClownPrince Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 she'll get over it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CALIgula Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 honestly, it was before you guys got together...so it really shouldnt even matter. shes just upset. give her time to cool off, and explain that she meant nothing to you, and your current girlfriend means the world to you. but DONT act like you did something wrong, cause you didnt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hatetown Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 sing her Lets Stay Together. shit works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makeithappennn Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Al Green is the best thing to help a bad relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 thanks you guys i knew i could count on my second family. things are going better already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suca Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 being a female opinion, if that happened to me i wouldnt even be in the house with you right now. i mean, it sounds ilike you two were going steady and she was gonna give herself to you for the first time, and you knew she that, but you still went and fucked another girl the night before she gave herself for you. and then, when you had the "sexual history" talk, you lied about it. to her, im sure all she can think abuot is how she can never trust what you say- ecspecially about the important things. i might get over it, but the relatoinship would be wriecked because i would never be able to trust you again. but that just me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tuff Tone Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 honestly, it was before you guys got together...so it really shouldnt even matter. shes just upset. give her time to cool off, and explain that she meant nothing to you, and your current girlfriend means the world to you. but DONT act like you did something wrong, cause you didnt. dont break up with her, it sounds like you really love your girl. true love is hard to find. me and my ex girl had a perfect relationship and i started fucking with hardcore drugs, she stuck by my side but then i fucked up again and she left. its been 2 months since she left and that shit still hurts like a bitch i still talk to her, im trying to get her back but she said she needs more time. im going fucking crazy without her being here by my side everyday. so i guess what im saying is dont fuck up a great thing, she will get over it you guys will go on, and your relationship will grow stronger from it. like homeboy said, you guys werent even going out so you really did nothing wrong, but i do understand why she is upset im sure you guys were all lovie dovie, and you still fucked that bitch, so im pretty sure she thought you were all hers that night anyways. if you really love her and she makes you happy stay with her, and you will get through this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 being a female opinion, if that happened to me i wouldnt even be in the house with you right now. i mean, it sounds ilike you two were going steady and she was gonna give herself to you for the first time, and you knew she that, but you still went and fucked another girl the night before she gave herself for you. and then, when you had the "sexual history" talk, you lied about it. to her, im sure all she can think abuot is how she can never trust what you say- ecspecially about the important things. i might get over it, but the relatoinship would be wriecked because i would never be able to trust you again. but that just me thats what im scared of. ive been talking to her. little by little.i got her a glass of water. she said she wanted to stay at her moms. she didnt want me to take her. she called her mom and she came and got her. damn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DRUNKEN-ASSHOLE-ONER Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 I read as far as the point where she was slapping you and yelling at you for banging some broad the night before you and her hooked up, then I felt the desire to smack yo for being emo over some psycho broad. Hopefully she'll leave you under HER terms and you don't have to worry about some Lorena Bobbit type dramma. And your freinds should all take turns slapping you for being emo over this nutjob to begin with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 finally.someone on the other side of it. next Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sleeping Pills Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 being a female opinion, if that happened to me i wouldnt even be in the house with you right now. i mean, it sounds ilike you two were going steady and she was gonna give herself to you for the first time, and you knew she that, but you still went and fucked another girl the night before she gave herself for you. and then, when you had the "sexual history" talk, you lied about it. to her, im sure all she can think abuot is how she can never trust what you say- ecspecially about the important things. i might get over it, but the relatoinship would be wriecked because i would never be able to trust you again. but that just me DAMN! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IOU Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 You should ask her who she fucked before you got 'together'... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 it was no one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
screaming hand logo Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 finally.someone on the other side of it. next yeah fuck love son keep a bitch broke and shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DRUNKEN-ASSHOLE-ONER Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 if im the one thats in the wrong why should i brake it off? Because you weren't in the wrong. You werent even "with" the broad when you fucked the other jawn. Your girl is actually the one in the wrong for bringing you all this dramma over shit that has absolutely nothing to do with her or yalls relationship. Grow some balls and a spine while your at it. Instead of crying like a fag, you should be flipping the script and yelling at her for being stupid about this shit in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
screaming hand logo Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 i had the same kinda a deal cept my girl was not a virgin and she got more mad that i lied then anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porcelain Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 it went like this. we were into each other at the time... talking. chillen here and there.maybe 4 times a week. i basicly liked her new i was ganna be with her. then i fucked this 1 night bitch. how would you feel if your girl fucked some dude the day before you became official and before that you had almost 3 months of building up? i know why she is pissed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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