soupBDC Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 Im sorry to interject the 0 with sort of a serious decision here, but im a little inexperienced in dealing with shit like this so im wondering what people think. Heres the scenario, your biological father you havent seen or heard from in thirteen years has left a message on your answering machine. Your 21st birthday is up and coming so this is likely to be related to that, although the message only says, *this is *****, calling for ******. Please give me a call at ******.* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GLIK$ Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 A) get off the internet and figure out your own life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soupBDC Posted June 9, 2007 Author Share Posted June 9, 2007 Let me rephrase. A is what im doing, but if anyones got something to add go ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CALIgula Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 im gonna go ahead and say...return the call. people make mistakes in the past....maybe he is trying to reconcile. i say give it a chance...maybe he has changed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyeBee Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 He's prolly not hip hop enough to be a father Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soupBDC Posted June 9, 2007 Author Share Posted June 9, 2007 Probably not. Hes on some runaway father springer shit. That shits rap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abracadabra Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 call back, but tread carefully. be sceptical. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soulkillers Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 people make mistakes. and sometimes there is more to what it seems. coming from a b roken home (i hate that phrase) sometimes mom made it seem dad didnt care yet when he tried mom hide the work. so bitterness and anger can make shit happen. call. what do u have to lose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AGOE1 Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 pee in his butt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
groyn shmoyn Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 orphans? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
groyn shmoyn Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 you should return the call... there might be $$$ involved. if its not mentioned within the first 5 minutes... hang up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 ask for all your child support he owes you for 13 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rushawn wuan Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 do you miss him? if so , i say call him back. if your life is fine without him then just keep it moving like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wayne hits Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 Im sorry to interject the 0 with sort of a serious decision here, but im a little inexperienced in dealing with shit like this so im wondering what people think. Heres the scenario, your biological father you havent seen or heard from in thirteen years has left a message on your answering machine. Your 21st birthday is up and coming so this is likely to be related to that, although the message only says, *this is *****, calling for ******. Please give me a call at ******.* wow. this describes what happened to me to a t. 21st birthday, hadnt seen him in 12 years, no bullshit. so i went out. we drank mad beers and shot guns. i realized i didnt give a shit about him. i say give him a call. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Blaze Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 its always boogie hands for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chubbs Posted June 9, 2007 Share Posted June 9, 2007 its always boogie hands for me cosignedddddddddddd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
New Age Demagogue Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 yo, my dad did the same thing but didn't even call me, he found me on MYSPACE haha.. he fucked over my mom and i when i was really little, but i decided to talk to him and kinda feel out the situation. long story short, i found out he was a complete dick and never talked to him since. at least if you talk to him and find out that you DONT want to anymore, you'll have some sort of closure. you'll never have to ask yourself what if. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rental Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 at least if you talk to him and find out that you DONT want to anymore, you'll have some sort of closure. you'll never have to ask yourself what if. exactly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wayne hits Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 yo, my dad did the same thing but didn't even call me, he found me on MYSPACE haha.. he fucked over my mom and i when i was really little, but i decided to talk to him and kinda feel out the situation. long story short, i found out he was a complete dick and never talked to him since. at least if you talk to him and find out that you DONT want to anymore, you'll have some sort of closure. you'll never have to ask yourself what if. same story same synopsis. thats funny you dont talk to him anymore as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bojangles Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 Tough call. I tracked down my Dad this year after 25+ years, drove 3 States to see him and he didn't give a shit. If he's looking for you, give it a shot, at least listen to what he has to say before telling him to fuck off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Quickwood Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 i'd tell him to suck it, same for my dad if he ever tries to call. haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyeBee Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 I feel real bad for people who grew up without a father...it's gotta be real hard to grow into a man without ya dad around /No emo, I just love my Dad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanresistance Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 He's prolly not hip hop enough to be a father or metal enough Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wayne hits Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 ahhhh- i had a stepdad that kicked my ass. /no emo edit*responding to ab Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tango 24 Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 i have 2 parents both not dead both talking to me they are cool with my drug use and graffiti related incidents as long as it doesnt affect my little sister Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reuben Kinkaid Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 orphans? Hahaha I noticed that too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny ballbags Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 at 18 i returned the call..... met the faggot.... was cool with him for a few months..... and then when it became painfully evident that he was a piece of shit our relationship was ended abruptly through the use of a brick... and half of that brick after it had been broken was then used to further punctuate the end.... after a brief visit to unconsciousness and a not so brief visit to the hospital which included 100+ sutures and a diagnosis of significant brain damage it was pretty clear that it was going nowhere so the phone calls stopped... although it was a shit situation, i feel better knowing how it happened as opposed to wondering "what if?'..... /way too much info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodKlot Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 A) get off the internet and figure out your own life. Correct! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shitting Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 at 18 i returned the call..... met the faggot.... was cool with him for a few months..... and then when it became painfully evident that he was a piece of shit our relationship was ended abruptly through the use of a brick... and half of that brick after it had been broken was then used to further punctuate the end.... after a brief visit to unconsciousness and a not so brief visit to the hospital which included 100+ sutures and a diagnosis of significant brain damage it was pretty clear that it was going nowhere so the phone calls stopped... although it was a shit situation, i feel better knowing how it happened as opposed to wondering "what if?'..... /way too much info You bricked your dad? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mauler5150 Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 Fuck johnny ballbags that story is heavy as fuck!! I say call him, what do you have to lose? You can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family. Remember that!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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