MystikPW Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 i hung out with this girl this weekend and we hooked up....she is gorgeous and has a great personality...only problem is that she has a reputation for hooking up with guys too quick, falling for them and then screwing them over...now she wants to be exclusive with me...and if it was any other girl with those looks and personality i would jump right into it except her personality worries me...shes the first really stunning girl ive hooked up with since my ex, but i just dont want to get hurt...what she says sounds sincere, but idk what to do...any advice? sorry if this is a little childish, cuz it is...but i dont have anyone else to ask...anyone i would normally ask know us both to well to make an unbiased decision Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GorbortOrman Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 tease said it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomadawhat Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 yes he did.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
META Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 id say go for it. youll always get hurt in relationships, but most of the time the good is worth the bad. do what you got to do. no regrets. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
META Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 one more thing did you ever think to talk to HER about this? put all your cards on the table, man. best of luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest snafuno Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 yo man any way you play your cards in the end someone is going toget hurt! If you want this to last a few minutes then hold out on the girl..Tease her with your dick, don't give iot to her...She will just think about you more and more untill she can't hold back any longer.. Then give it to her. But I would First, have a serious talk with her befre you take the relationship to the next level. DOn't worry about the rep, If you like her because she is cool then go by your standards!! word Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dukeofyork Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 no joke, tell her what youve heard. see how she reacts (shell probably say this time its different) whatever she says, knock that boot until she decides she dont want it anymore. oh, and keep your options open with other women, and dont let her know about it... ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest got tha feva Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 First of all, the fact she has a lot of relationships, and now she wants to be exclusive with you too. That doesn't tell me she's a hoe, that tells me she wants to fall in love and just hasn't met the right guy yet.. If a girl wants to fuck you over from the get go chances are she's not going to have sex with you. She's pretty, and has a cool personality, the worst you have to deal with is her being fickle. So I'd say keep hanging out with her, make it fun and interesting.. Take her out to places she wouldn't normally go, introduce her into new things, be your oh so charming and witty self, etc. The worst that could happen is you make a friend out of the whole deal.. but I think if you don't sit at home and focus on fucking her all the time, she won't quickly have a change of heart about wanting to be with you. A lot of girls that don't learn the rule about jumping in the sack too soon expend way too much of their energy in the begining, then don't really care later on because they have nothing to give. So if you want to fuck her, fuck her. But if you want her to be your girlfriend, you've got to make it about more than sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dusty Lipschitz Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 we want pics Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aztek4two1 Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 yeah i think a photo would help me give you better advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ohno*rock Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 hit it and quit it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metallix Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 a relationship that starts off with hooking up is going no-where quick. a persons past can accurately reflect their future actions, especially in relationships. (like if a girl cheated on her xbf, then she might cheat on you as well) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metallix Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 Originally posted by got tha feva First of all, the fact she has a lot of relationships, and now she wants to be exclusive with you too. That doesn't tell me she's a hoe, that tells me she wants to fall in love and just hasn't met the right guy yet.. If a girl wants to fuck you over from the get go chances are she's not going to have sex with you. She's pretty, and has a cool personality, the worst you have to deal with is her being fickle. So I'd say keep hanging out with her, make it fun and interesting.. Take her out to places she wouldn't normally go, introduce her into new things, be your oh so charming and witty self, etc. The worst that could happen is you make a friend out of the whole deal.. but I think if you don't sit at home and focus on fucking her all the time, she won't quickly have a change of heart about wanting to be with you. A lot of girls that don't learn the rule about jumping in the sack too soon expend way too much of their energy in the begining, then don't really care later on because they have nothing to give. So if you want to fuck her, fuck her. But if you want her to be your girlfriend, you've got to make it about more than sex. you said it well, but how can you start a real relationship when you fucked right away. your basing a future relationship on sex right off the bat, thats destined not to work (in the long run atleast) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest imported_Tesseract Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 Man fuck what you heard, what do they know? Shit, and no NO dont tell her about it. Look at you, you're about to start a relation and you're already 'precautious', stop it. It is visible to her by your behaviour even if you think you're cool. You can only harm things that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zack Morris Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 as it has already been said on here..talk to her and tell her how you feel. Get to know her a bit better before you guys do the horizontal mambo. Let he see if your the type of guy she would like the spend time and let yourself find out if she is te type of girl you want to spend a large amount of time with. Speaking from experience relationships based apon sexual encounters are never a good thing...I had to learn this the hard way with alot of broken hearts. So take your time no matter how hard it may seem it will pay off in the end...trust Zack Morris, I know know the path....plus if you make her wait it ou and you wait it out the next time you guys bump uglies will be that much better...but trust me WAIT until you know her better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MR BOJANGLES Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 you already know theres a red flag on the field. dont go for another foul... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
usedtolove Posted December 4, 2001 Share Posted December 4, 2001 piss on her..if she lets you..shes a keeper:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenFuckingLung Posted December 5, 2001 Share Posted December 5, 2001 do you not have any friends to talk to? i mean....it's ok that you're asking us...but can you really trust us dumb bastards. i like iloveutensil's idea.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr. frink one Posted December 5, 2001 Share Posted December 5, 2001 i would say wait a little while, like past the "screwpeopleovertime", before you really really start falling for her...keep a little distance if you are so worried about getting hurt... as someone else once said "nahmean?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garcia_vega Posted December 5, 2001 Share Posted December 5, 2001 run away. run fast, run far, run, run, run. she will not, i repeat NOT change for you. that type never does. i've been through your situation so many times. it's cool when you get some "attention" from a pretty girl. and if she seems to have a good personality, that's even better. however, this girl has a reputation for a reason, probably because she's a fucking maneater. girls like that never change. they're always looking for someone better, always looking for the next thing. more damn trouble than they are worth. make your escape now before it's too late! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ammo Posted December 5, 2001 Share Posted December 5, 2001 if you pass it up, your just gunna feel retarded for not doing it. and your gunna get hurt in any relationship no matter what. fuck girls. girls are fuckin evil. but take this one and run Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avils Posted December 5, 2001 Share Posted December 5, 2001 Put it in her a$$.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest snafuno Posted December 5, 2001 Share Posted December 5, 2001 Put it in her a$$.... I would have to second that motion!!! stick it in her butt!!! :idea: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zack Morris Posted December 5, 2001 Share Posted December 5, 2001 fuck sticking it in her butt, and fuck pissing on her...PEE IN HER BUTT!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CIPHER_one Posted December 5, 2001 Share Posted December 5, 2001 Originally posted by Zack Morris fuck sticking it in her butt, and fuck pissing on her...PEE IN HER BUTT!!!! I like the way this man thinks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Handjob Posted December 6, 2001 Share Posted December 6, 2001 Originally posted by ElemEnoPee1 i hung out with this girl this weekend and we hooked up....she is gorgeous and has a great personality...only problem is that she has a reputation for hooking up with guys too quick, falling for them and then screwing them over...now she wants to be exclusive with me...and if it was any other girl with those looks and personality i would jump right into it except her personality worries me...shes the first really stunning girl ive hooked up with since my ex, but i just dont want to get hurt...what she says sounds sincere, but idk what to do...any advice? sorry if this is a little childish, cuz it is...but i dont have anyone else to ask...anyone i would normally ask know us both to well to make an unbiased decision You know Ashley too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boring Bastard Posted December 6, 2001 Share Posted December 6, 2001 Listen to CMEUP and Snafuno...... they both summed it up I swear to that!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JELO_016 Posted December 6, 2001 Share Posted December 6, 2001 ex to the next... dont spend all your time dwellin on it... if its ment its ment... just have fun while it lasts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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