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Pick Ups In Public Places

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Am i the only one who finds it to be a whole new dynamic when you see a cute girl in some public place other than a club/bar/party/show, etc... and you make the attempt to socialize with the intention of getting a number or a date going?

 

When you see a bangin' girl waiting for the bus or in line to get food...there's a whole new approach involved. Trying to meet a girl in public is one of the most challenging things for most guys to pull off sometimes.

 

I usually say something goofy or left field to break the ice. I think once my business cards come in that'll allow me to step the game up.

 

The last time I threw down something on a cute girl I was waiting at a crosswalk and i turn to this cute chick and say

 

"So...uh...you cross this street a lot?"

 

She smiles and sez "Only when there aren't any cars coming."

 

I smiled back and left it at that.

 

I dunno, I guess the point of this is to see the approach other people take when they see someone they dig on at random on the street/at the mall/bus stop/etc and act on it rather than going home and thinking "Damn, maybe i shoulda said or done something?

 

Are you just up front?

 

Do you rock a Lens and disarm'em with something witty/humorous?

 

Wait for her to slip and fall and make like the hero?

 

A rag, choloroform and your buddy waiting in the unmarked black van?

 

 

 

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I also go with the random/funny comment alot. Also, if I'm with a large group of people I find it alot easier to just hit em with something cute and corny while they're walking by

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I always seem to see cute girls walking into my bank I have talked to 3 of them not really spit game just said hello got in some friendly chat. If I see a girl that attracts me anywhere I feel the need to get aquainted. No reason to let life pass you by, you never know who you could meet. Also girls love compliments so why not make her day by going hey I saw you over there by the produce, I felt compelled to tell you that you look cute and introduce...

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"do you cross the street a lot" i'll have to remember that one... but i hear you. i usually say something retarded at first too cause they like that.

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stating the obvious usually works pretty good.

 

 

There was this hot girl getting off BART the other day rocking knee high leather boots and I straight up said to her "Excuse, but i just had to tell you those boots look really good on you."

 

And she dug it a lot. I got a big smile for my efforts.

 

 

I think the really cool thing is walking along and you'll make eye contact and she throws a genuine smile your way first without you having to do anything. This happens to me a lot driving.

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I think talking to girls in a public place is a lot easier than a club or bar or whatever. In public places, you usually have something to talk about, and you're not just trying to get laid or whatever like in a bar.

 

But getting a girl to smile at you is different than picking a girl up.

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Nah its the same thing. Its the gateway to a date, its all in what you do with that smile...say werd...

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Werd? I don't understand.

 

If a girl laughs and touches your chest or something, I can see that turning into a pick up, but smiles are just too common. And if you used a retarded/random comment, it could be a pity smile.

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smiles are just too common. And if you used a retarded/random comment, it could be a pity smile.

 

 

yeah, but if you've been around long enough you know there's a big difference in the smiles you get.

 

When you can tell what kind of smile you're getting, that's when you know when to advance or cut your losses and look somehwere else.

 

Like when I used the crosswalk line on that one girl I got a smile that basically said "ha ha, that's cute!" but nothing more than that...hence me telling said girl "well, have a good one" and moving on.

 

A smile is a definate gateway to getting a number. You get the right smile, it tells you you have been cleared to muster up something to say to get conversation going. There are certainly smiles that a girl can give that communicate that she thinks you're a SMASH!

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yeah, when i was 19....except in those days we typed out PIC....kids these days and their abbreviations. i mean, we used to type "I am laughing out loud right now! I could even start rolling on the floor in the next minute or two!

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I'm not saying smiles are always throwaways, but I still don't consider me picking up a girl by just having her smile at me. smiles do give more confidence though.

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In the mall I'm constantly seeing groups of black dudes yell at girls with awesome things like,

 

"Yo girl what yo name is?!?!"

"EH EH EH EH LEMME GET YO NUMBER!!!"

 

Or the always lovely.

 

"Ay boo! AY BOO BOO! AY BOO!!!!! BOO BOO!!!"

 

FTW

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HOLLAHOLLAHOLLAHOLLAHOLLAlemme HOLLA atchaHOLLAHOLLAHOLLAHOLLAHOLLAlemme HOLLA atcha

 

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I wonder if that shit ever works I see people do it all the time too...

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