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shai you best help her asap I had a girlfriend who was bulemic but I didnt know I only wish I could have known so I could have helped her out...

 

RIP east bays friend.

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I dated her for five years, and have known her for the past fifteen years. It's been going on for a while.

 

I guess she needs to figure it out. Mostly, it has a lot to do with things going on in her head.

 

She's still healthy, but compared to when I met her, a whole lot thinner. She just needs to get over the idea that how she looks has very little to do with whether or not she's happy with her life, or not.

 

Believe me, I've tried. It's more or less up to her, now.

 

And, sorry about your loss, too...that's terrible. Assuming she isn't with us anymore.

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My condolences homie. I recently lost two of my closest friends too. I had a best friend who I would hang out with daily the other guy was atleast every other day, mainly cause he had a girl or he'd be with us daily too, I considered these two indivuals as family. Anyways after an A's game they went out to a bar. I was gonna go with them, but I had a class to go to. They hit the back of a truck and spun out into a tree. The tree hit right where my homie was sittin, fortunately he was passed out and it was such a hard impact that even with a seatbelt on it was an instantaneous death. They worst part about it is that my other friend was the only drivin. They were both amazing human beings and it seems like it is always the good ones that go first. I have since talked with my friend who did it and he's going through a personal hell. He was in solitare for 36 days, naked on suicide watch, with only an hour a day to have human contact. He since has been bailed, but now is in either a half way house or rehab..i really don't know. He told me it was rehab, but he doesn't have a drug or drinking problem, regardless what you might believe. He'll be there for a least a year, then he has 3 counts against him t serve out. All felonies by the way, Felony Drunk Diving, Felony resisting Arrest(not that he was he was just goin crazy cause he just killed his friend), and Involentary Man Slaughter. I have since been a completely different person, life throws you curveballs and it isn't fair, but you really just have to love life and make the most of it.

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No shai it's not. It's a girl from my neck of the woods. She was really "scene" girl, but she wasn't hella emo or anything. She was just this black girl who was real cool, totally one of the guys type deal, she was bi too so like we could totally just be like "oh that girl's cute" or "yeah I'd hit it."

 

I don't mean to say things emotionless, I've had a really hard day and topping it off like this, I haven't got to deal with it yet, I'm still totally in shock, it's cliche, but I'm expecting her to IM me right now. And her screename is on too, it just feels so creepy.

 

She didn't need to be skinny, she was thick, but she didn't have the body type to get hella waif thin like she thought she needed to. And she used to give me that "Oh I'm fat" shit but I always brushed it off. "Fuck you tori you're fine stop being emo" and she would laugh and that would be it. We hadn't talked much in the last month or two, but if I would of known, ya know?

 

It's just, I haven't dealt with much death as far as my friends goes, and this one is really really close to home, fuck, she was only fucking 17. I just keep thinking that. 17, she just graduated high school.

 

Fuck.

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He sent this to his cousin about a month before it happen:

LOVE LIFE

Love life. Life every moment out. Die an honorable death. I'll see you in the next moment. When I can't think, I rely on my heart. Follow me. Follow you. Love Life. I bleed from the souls pores to leave a mark on this cosmic journey. Love Life. Live every moment out. Don't forget to cry, love, laugh, grieve, smile, scream, play. Don't do as I have done, as I would do. Create your own path. Choose yourself's inner beliefs to steer you through the unknowns. Soar as if it were your last flight. Drift with the current wherever it flows, no matter what. Stop in the deepest, darkest waters and sink into eternity. Don't forget to Love Life.

 

If you can read this I love you homie and I miss you more than i can express.

Gone but, NEVER forgotten.

RIP Micheal J. Zombeck 7/28/84-4/20/06

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my condolences to you and her family

 

 

I don't drive if i have half a glass of wine

no bozze full stop.

 

dont do it

 

make it a fuckn mantra if you need

but dont drive under influance

 

its not the wall you hit at 90

its the innocent

 

 

 

 

 

:shakehead:

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RIP DIPAK PRASAD RIP KENTON DORNBUSH RIP MIKEY Z miss you guys. sorry g i know this is your thread, I just like seein there names put into the net only never to be taken down.

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Mike Z. Fuck. You're from the east bay right? I just realized this Mike Zombeck, hella people I knew knew this guy. I think I've met him once or twice. Crashed in pleasanton or something right?

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East Bay, if you're up to it, it's time to go do the damn thing. Let's go paint, throw some bottles and scream at shit...whatever it takes, I'm ready to make it happen.

 

I may go do it by myself, if nobody is down for the Pepsi challenge...but, there's been too much loss lately for me to not want to take some action to get my own head straight.

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I'm down, I don't know how my paint supplies are or if my bottle throwing skills are up to par. But I can try to scrounge up the money to get over there.

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Awesome, I'm here in the place to be. Just give me a time and we'll do this.

 

Plus, I'm already drunk and ready to be breaking shit anyway.

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I just hit my head on the ceiling of my room for the third time today (I live in the basement).

 

I'm gonna start wearing a helmet in my room soon.

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Oh god damn man....I'm really sorry to hear that. Having lost a friend not too long ago i understand you've got to be dealing with some hard grief right now.

 

My condolences to the utmost sir.

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Hey LENS, you should come with us....if you're ready to deal with some bullshit, that is.

 

I've been meaning to tell you that I'm sorry about flaking on the whole free furniture deal...but, shit got crazy at the last minute.

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Hey LENS, you should come with us....if you're ready to deal with some bullshit, that is.

 

I've been meaning to tell you that I'm sorry about flaking on the whole free furniture deal...but, shit got crazy at the last minute.

 

Don't worry about the furniture deal man...i have enough for right now.

 

tell ebp to call me and we'll do this.

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I'll call you. He may need some persuasion, and since I don't have long distance maybe you can get the plan together.

 

I think he just needs to know people are looking out for him. If he wants (or needs) some space to figure things out, I'm willing to give it to him. It sounds like he's going through a hell of a lot, and I want to help him out if I can.

 

Mar, I'm taking your advice, just not in the situation that we originally were discussing.

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Well, the way that body image is portrayed as the key to happiness certainly doesn't help things.

 

As long as you aren't morbidly obese and dealing with the side effects from it, you should be okay with the way you are...but we live in an image-obsessed society, and people are dying from it. That's fucking disgusting.

 

Personally, I like the thick girls...double points if they're confident with the way they look.

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And, yes, I holler at the thick ones. All the time.

 

I'm looking out for EBP, I'm gonna make sure that he knows that if he needs someone to talk to in person, I'm only a phone call away. He's not far from where I live, and he knows where I am since a good friend of ours used to live here...hint, hint.

 

Dude...seriously, call me. Me and Lens are here, man...but, if you need your space, that's cool.

 

Mostly, I need to get out of the house and fucking do something to deal with all the folks I lost lately, too. Also, I have paint, so that isn't a problem...just let me know what's up.

 

Not to steal your shine, but.....RIP Peet Lum, Les, Dominic, L'il Votour...you are all missed, I'll see you someday.

 

All of these people have died since May 30th, BTW...and I haven't been able to deal with one without finding out about the next one.

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Just want to pay my respects and give my condolences to the family and friends... If you need anything G, I'm only a few blocks away... Hold your head!

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See? We're there, man.

 

The Easy takes care of its own...good looking out, man.

 

You used to post in the East Bay thread...no, that was me. My bad.

 

We're gonna come to your house, EBP, and carry you out of there like you won the homecoming game. Come on, I fucking HATE painting in public now, but I'm making an exception in this case.

 

Not for you, but the shit has been adding up lately. If I have to ride my bike there, just say the word, and I'm on the way.

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