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...buy her some dvds and tell her to keep it on the hush...

 

...for real though...12 year olds have kids now adays...it's never too early to talk to your kids about safe sex but it can definately be too late...if you're the older sibling and you really care...which you seem to...volunteer to step in and talk to her about it if her parents don't feel comfortable with it...unless you want your little sister to be a slut, you better step in and do something...

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dear cramps,

 

i don't know the amount of porn she is ordering.

let's just say that her parents wanted to watch a movie on digital cable,

and they couldn't, bcuz a certain someone had already used up their movie allowance for the month.

 

she is into manga. she already got busted for

downloading anime porn off the internet.

she lied and said that wasn't what she was trying to download.

 

she also brought it up one time that she actually

wanted a freakin school uniform like the japanese schoolgirls wear.

 

her bra size is already a 36B. she's bigger/taller than most of the kids in her class;

pretty tomboy-ish and she likes to read. she wants to be a journalist/writer when she grows up.

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i was an early bloomer too. i think i was jerking off when i was 9. i remember i thought i invented it. like, damn, if i use lotion it feels even better?!?! do other people know about this?!?!

 

just tell her not to fuck a lot of boys. she can diddle herself to all the japanimation she wants, just no real penis until college.

 

that's how iquit would handle it.

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your moms needs to find a really neutral spot and sit down with your sister and talk to her about sex and all the emotional things that go along with it. And be honest, if this freakes out your mom need to say im a lil freaked out but not in a blaming or shaming way. for real being mad, if they already try to spoil isnt gonna work, itll drive her more into the closet. And feel its something she needs to hide from the folks. but at twelve you cant really appreciate the larger ramifications of a digging on hard core porno. I mean is this a reflection of how she sees ladies, is she down to be treated like a porno chic, is that acceptable to her? Thats a worrisome thing right there.

 

Moms need to realize there are a lot of issues working here, even if ole girl just needs to get her self, there are many angles to consider before the talks but there should be talks. Maybe her home girls a all doing it and she's trying to be cool? Fuck i have no idea what lil chics do these days.

 

but plain and simple flappin her gums at you wont do much. Moms and ole girl need to talk. And moms need to start the talking. Just dont let her get one of those 'slang' books on how to talk to the kids.

 

 

 

 

this is where i stop being supportive and suggest her next stepbe a web cam pruchase.

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early bloomer...taller than most in class. alwready spells out kindof the odball in that world (sad but true ..middle school kids are a bitch)..and waaaay in to anime...to the point of sexual lust..

 

problem. as heavy lox stated with kids learning off of peers...same with the porn...it becomes accepted.

 

the anime porn scares methe most..that is a almost total male domination, sick perverted kind of porn...prety mutch any person who is waay into anime porn or "hentai" is a sick fuck deep inside....and i DO perseeve it to be true. hentai has a large feature of tourture,rape,molestation,multipule partners,all out true and cruel debotchery...and for a 12 year old girl whom is not mentaly matured at ALL (chicks dont till atleast 15 ususally) all i can smell is disaster.

 

witch goes back to the compuslery masturbation...if she isnt a bad looking girl...and learns that a sudden need to get off must be served...and by following hentai and hard porn rule well....this can happen..

 

note...if a girl finds something sexually appealling, she is bound to try it...so if this current senarrios seem appealing to a girl of 12 whom doesent understand whats really going on...what is there to stop her but herself.

 

i turned these into links because they are really not work safe.....and kinda wierd...

 

slave i sugest ckicking to see what your dealling with.

http://images.jlist.com/c5/katekyo_q79.jpg

http://images.jlist.com/c9/junks_q43.jpg

 

now im not posting these to be discusting and stupid..im showing an example of what she is currently "interested" in at the moment from the inforation i have recieved from slave (thank you)..BUTT...ha..what boy could resist an offer like this...then leading to the impression..boys are fun..boys like me...when i do the sex..

i have seen this case (i attract attention to me with sex) shit alot....what does most of that lead too?

 

depression

a constant need of attention

social anxiety

loss of ones sence of "love"

STD's.......alot of them.

then the reall booter....being in a porn....easy money when your able to turn off your emotions like you did all through high school....its just a fuck..its just a cum shot..its just 8 guys...its just herowin...i

 

not to be to harsh

 

 

 

conclution... I say a best result to try and fix..(seems really bad as it is) would be to really sit down and talk about the do's and don'ts of sex and sex itself. dont scold the girl for her discovery..just dicorrage the porn orders (haha) and try to mention...to make it a "private habbit"

 

 

but have a nice LOOOOONG discution about it...

 

 

i think it needs to be addressed asap...thank you for listening to Dr.Cramps

 

phd in i read sci american and harpers too mutch.....not to mention the sociology and psyk shit on PBS at 3 am..its cool:lol:

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thanks everyone for the valuable, and funny advice. i know this is natural for someone to be curious, but in the back of my mind i can't help but wonder if she's going to have a distorted point of view when she gets older. she'll probably just grow up to be a horny, normal teenager. i'm just thinking about it too much just bcuz, i didn't grow up that way. oh well, thanks again everyone...

 

oh and you're right eff; the joy of sex is kinda outdated. i never did get to see that book though, but i heard it was pretty retro...:lol:

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i say have the sex talk and all that, but i wouldnt focus on the masturbation issue directly. you said shes a recluse, have her play sports or something. get her out of the house, and then shell probably only masterbate when shes in bed at night or something.

 

 

and how the fuck did she get credit card numbers?

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Originally posted by rental

i say have the sex talk and all that, but i wouldnt focus on the masturbation issue directly. you said shes a recluse, have her play sports or something. get her out of the house, and then shell probably only masterbate when shes in bed at night or something.

 

 

and how the fuck did she get credit card numbers?

 

she didn't get credit card numbers, with digital cable you can just order off of the tv and it gets billed to you.

 

 

my post was the one that involved credit card numbers.

 

 

and i have no fucking idea how he got the numbers.. i probably left my wallet on the table when i visited or something.

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Sex education like most education should be left to the schools.

Those classes were the best, so much fun and very interesting at the same time.

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guess what? the problem just got worse...

 

i just found out that this little bitch

has been lying about EVERYTHING.

 

she hasn't turned in no homework for the past

how many weeks now, and now they're gonna

have a little meeting at school about it. she's is

constantly mouthing off to her mother. right now

she has no cable tv and there is a filter on the computer...

 

her naive father bought her another anime book,

not knowing it was on some homosexual shit. he

didn't even bother to open the book and check it!

unfucking-believable...

 

i wanna beat the shit out of her now. but i know if i

yell she's going to cry, and then she's gonna keep on doing it...

 

i wanna smoke a cigarette now even though i don't smoke.

breathe in, breathe out...

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tell 'em to tape the fuckin' porn so their mastubating habits dont run the family into debt.

 

 

edit: i can spell

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If it was my son, I'd beat him really bad, and not allow him to go to school for the next month, for fear of child services coming after me.

 

If it was my daughter, I'd get my wife to beat her. Or, I'd try some approach like telling her it's not very lady like to watch porn. That there's better things in life like playing baseball. Tell her about my buddy who hasn't been laid in seven years, and is addicted to porn like crazy. That it has warped his mind, and that she doesn't wanna be some lonely woman with a warped mind when she's older, most likely.

 

by the way, my buddy who is messed up because of porn, well, his mom bought him his own copy of Joy of Sex when he was ten.

 

P.S. You say some of it is anime porn? I hope it's not japanese anime tentacle porn!

 

When I was 12, thinking about Brenda Walsh doing the nasty with Dylan McKay got me horny! This girl needs to play sports! And lots of it!

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Originally posted by Weapon X

When I was 12, thinking about Brenda Walsh doing the nasty with Dylan McKay got me horny!

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Wow...Wasn't expecting all this at all. So many people have given excellent advice.I guess all I can say is it seems that the lying and stealing is a big issue here. If she needs to have porn she can get it with her babysitting money or something. I hope the school situation gets sorted out.. :o

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damn no kidding, i wish she would play sports, or be active, or something!

 

we went to disneyland once, and she got tired after a couple of hours.

she's not very active at all; active imagination maybe...

 

she's kinda overweight too. she loves to eat.

her dad belittles her often and tells her to lose weight,

and to stop eating so much. it hasn't motivated her at all to lose weight.

she has low self-esteem due to her dad talking to her lilke that.

maybe this is what's driving her to escape to anime porn wonderland...

 

::sigh::

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Originally posted by slave_one

damn no kidding, i wish she would play sports, or be active, or something!

 

we went to disneyland once, and she got tired after a couple of hours.

she's not very active at all; active imagination maybe...

 

she's kinda overweight too. she loves to eat.

her dad belittles her often and tells her to lose weight,

and to stop eating so much. it hasn't motivated her at all to lose weight.

she has low self-esteem due to her dad talking to her lilke that.

maybe this is what's driving her to escape to anime porn wonderland...

 

::sigh::

 

aw, what a turkey! That's no way to treat one's own daughter! If you are close with this girl and see her often, you need to big her up lots and lots. she won't have to watch what she eats so much if she plays basketball or soccer, though. It would be a huge investment for her future well-being. It all makes sense, the way you put it. She probably just made a mistake ordering that porn, and I bet she feels embarrassed by it, which is too bad, since it doesn't sound like she needs the lower self-esteem. I hate seeing kids down and out like that!

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i watched the R.Crumb documentary, and they talk to this chick who has been into porn her whole life, to the point that as an adult, she edits a few adult rags, injcluding but not limited to Juggs and Leg Show..

 

in the docu she talks about spending her whole 18yearoldbday gift on porn. and how happy it made her!

 

well, some people are what they are i guess.

 

i was well aware of sex and orgasms at an extremely early age..truth be told, i cannot remember when i discovered that sexual stimulation=pleasure because it was at such an early age

i was very lucky though, to have very stern (but not prudish parents) who really taught me the importance of love and respect in sex.

 

if a person knows that, they can't really go too wrong on the subject later (you hope)

but if they don't...who the fuck knows what the potential is.

 

i'd be torn up about this if i were you..

on the one hand, telling her parents might not do anything. if they can't see the problem now, they may not ever.

but girl has a huge potential to become a sex-worker

 

if i were you i would talk to her about the seedy, nasty side of sex.

let's face it, she has already seen what there is to see.

she needs to understand how to keep herself out of potentially dangerous situations..

 

i can see the guys here aren't really seeing it.

sure, she's doing what comes naturally (no pun intended) and maybe it is curiosity, or now has become the fulfillment of very natural needs and urges, but in today's sexual climate, a woman needs to understand HOW TO PROTECT herself and WHY IT IS SO IMPORTANT..

 

i'm talking about the whole gamut:

internet predators, personal/classified ads, becoming a sex-industry worker, AIDS/HIV, and all the other STDs, early pregnancy, and a devaluing of what should be a sacred act.

 

while these lessons might not be as vital to young boys, women are at a much higher risk for that type of shit, and if they become victims, the consequences have the potential to be far worse.

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!@#$% always comes correct.

 

I think American parents in general are just too scared of the subject.

 

I never got the birds and bees talk from my parents. Instead, I got an in depth sex ed class at the catholic elementary school I was attending. Apparently the school sent something home to my parents letting them know all the 5th graders were receiving the class. When my parents found out, they simply said if I have any questions... to just ask them.

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Originally posted by SteveAustin

!@#$% always comes correct.

 

yes, always...

 

kids are so freakin spoiled nowadays; this girl's got everything;

when i was 12 i had no cable TV and no computer, not even a TV in my room!

her parents give her everything she wants. i had to work for my shit.

she doesn't even do chores...

 

do you think she will comprehend the seedy side of sex if i attempt to explain?

she says she's just curious, but there's too many other signs to think otherwise.

 

they're getting me to talk to her about all this stuff, but i'm not a very confident

speaker. i might screw up her whole entire view of sex & life if i say the wrong thing...

 

man, i really wanna smoke a cig.

did i say that already?

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