TresOne Posted March 3, 2004 Share Posted March 3, 2004 -You've only been with this girl for a year and you want to marry her? Slow down. I've been with my girl for 4 years, and marriage ain't even in the picture yet. Plus, you're 16 - that shit is just puppy love, son... it doesnl't always last. Don't set yourself up for hearbreak, especially if you think you're depressed now. -you're 16? Are you in school? If not, get your ass innit. If you are, then concentrate on that shit too. Sounds nerdy, but at your age, education is one of the most important things in your life, or at least it should be. Ain't go girl gonna marry your ass if you're a dropout and work at McDonalds. Apart from the rare exception, you can't get anywhere without some smarts nowadays, and the papers to prove it. -If this chick cares about you as much as you obviously care about her, then she'll put some effort into it as well. Sounds to me like you're then only one trying, and that's not a good thing. You'll know if she's as serious about the relationship as you are soon enough. -Don't even talk about marriage, that shit's a farce at your age. Get your diploma, then a degree or something, and then get a job. Can't support a fam without them shits. -Relax. This isn't anything to get depressed over. Just teenage foibles, that's all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOZACK Posted March 3, 2004 Share Posted March 3, 2004 ha! THIS KID ID 16?! you are NOT ready for marriage....don't try to convince anyone (or yourself) otherwise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
why write? Posted March 3, 2004 Author Share Posted March 3, 2004 i wasnt saying im gonna marry her, but i was like using it as a example of how much i love her, and thats not a problem....thanks, i feel much better today...things are going good....and her friend caused us to fight and break up...shes told my girl to cheat on me, i mean how can i deal with my girl having a friend who tells her to cheat on me and tries to hook her up with kids? my girl refuses this but i dont want her to give in one day u know, i think thats fucked up personally.....and i know im 16 and im not like planning out a marriage with this girl im just saying thats how i feel for her and shit... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devilush Posted March 3, 2004 Share Posted March 3, 2004 well even if you arent planning a marriage (which you shouldnt at that age), you have so much more to learn from this relationship. its only been a year! her friend is fucked up and honestly maybe you should just tell her to stay the fuck out of your relationship instead of using your girl as a middle person. your girl is still young too.....she needs time to clear her head about her friend. either that or get fucked over big time by her friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
why write? Posted March 3, 2004 Author Share Posted March 3, 2004 yeah i told her friend to stop fucking around in my relationship, and the funny shit is that she friend likes me, i duno its really confusing maybe you understand, maybe you dont..but im just saying my girl stopped talking to her because i explained to her about how her friend does things...im not trying to control her i just dont want my relationship ruined over some bitch that i hate... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
why write? Posted March 4, 2004 Author Share Posted March 4, 2004 ill make a bet with you....what you wanna bet that i will give three shits about this same girl in a year from this date? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 Someone made a really good point earlier.. Don't worry about girls right now, pay attention to school. All throughout high school I didn't do any of my work, I mean, I paid attention and retained some of the information, but I would have retained a lot more if I had done the work instead of worrying about how Danielle or Sarah looked that day. Now (with my C/D average during high school) I have to work 2 jobs while going to community college. Shit is no joke kid. No fucking joke at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Overtime Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 Originally posted by E MARTYR dude, you wont give two shits about this girl in a year. watch, you'll see. listen to this man, he knows girls... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ares Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 Originally posted by E MARTYR dude, you wont give two shits about this girl in a year. Not that I enjoy siding with Tease, but I'm going to on this one... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duh-rye-won Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 young people grow apart. you chnage a lot when you're young. in two years you'll be different and she'll be different. the chances that you're still in love are slim to none. you should definitely at least have pubes before you fall in love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaolinmasta Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 I know most of these posts in this thread are giving you shit about being emo im gunna do that but also I just watched this study of happiness last night as your topic is called depressed, they recommend you meditate no shit and it helps become happy. They studied this buddhist who meditates every day for the last 30 years and they estimate that he is one of the happiest people in the world. Not that this is gunna help your happiness but your a emo cunt fo'rizzeal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 Originally posted by E MARTYR dude, you wont give two shits about this girl in a year. watch, you'll see. wow....tease is on fire with the love advice. I can't believe you're sixteen and you wanna marry this chick. get over it. You make me very very glad I am no longer a teenager. Do you have Slipknot posters hanging in your room or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2ten Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 just wait till she fucks an older guy with a better car than yours... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ment2 Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 well, i just got in trouble for smoking pot and im grounded, so im pretty depressed man... can you relate? hehe the funny thing is its true. for the record... you are emo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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