oneeightyone Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 Well,my friends are working, and im woirking, but i need some advice on the quick tip. Last night my girl goes to a party, where upon some guy started to talk to her and what ended up happening was some guy kissed her neck. That's all i know, i had to hear this from my sister of all people. I am very upset that she hasnt told me yet, i talked to her last night, and this morning, and she said some guy invaded her personal space, which did happen, but she didnt tell me some guy started to kiss her. If she doesnt tell me should i run if she does ill probably stay? What should i do here, and am i thinking too much into this? Yea...i need some advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devilush Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 1.maybe she's at fault. she prolly didnt tell homeboy that she is taken. you should first, talk to her before you go ballistic on her or anyone for that matter. maybe that is why she isnt telling you. 2. another reason why she might not be telling you is maybe its not a big deal. he prolly did it and she told him she was in a relationship. maybe she doesnt want you to trip over something that has been taken care of already. talk to her first. dont wait until she tells you.......state what you heard from your sister and see what it goes from there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mental invalid Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 relax.... 1. it wasnt a kiss 2. she told you some guy invaded her personal space 3. your girl is young adult and can handle herself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milton Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 ... A sister will tell you quick you better check your homie... bitches don't give a fuck they tryna check for your homie... I've been in a situation where "nothing happened" all the time, come to find out later my bird was getting coked up and hit once a week. Not to freak you out, if you trust her, its probably nothing and she probably just doesn't want to tell you. Did your sister say what happened afterwards, like did she slap him? Women, :Shakes head: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Overtime Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 http://www.smashco.com/images/mike.gif'> this help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfreshsushi Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 she didn't cheat on you, but she didn't tell you straight up, so you decide. *i had about six more lines written and just decided against it so as not to freak you out. ride the wave, homeboy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poop Man Bob Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 Why don't you ask her if someone kissed her and put the ball in her court? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhAt_dA_fUcK Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 http://www.sublimedirectory.com/pod_archive/pod.jpg'> thats 1-800-937-9428 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 this is great! now you can kiss any girl you want without any guilt! It's the old 'even-things-out' card. It must be good to be you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Quickwood Posted February 2, 2004 Share Posted February 2, 2004 are you concerned about this because you know "girlfreinds" aren't supposed to "cheat", or do your feelings actually come from you ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oneeightyone Posted February 3, 2004 Author Share Posted February 3, 2004 It bothers me because she told my sister, which i dont have an idea why, since my sister is going to tell me about it. from what i understand it was just a peck and it ended there with her saying something to the guy. But why would a guy kiss a chicks neck if he knew she was taken. God damn women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClueTwo Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by onesecondple http://www.smashco.com/images/mike.gif'> this help? It may not help him, but you have done something to my day..Good man.. **As for the thread starter. I wouldn't know what the hell to do in this situation. I think you definitely need to confront her and talk about it. It be so nice if you could just go to bed and forget about crap like this. I will tell ya though, this comment has drastically changed after see dancing Mike.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERIZENO Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by oneeightyone But why would a guy kiss a chicks neck if he knew she was taken. God damn women. THOSE CONFLICT MAN !!!!!! to me its more like god damn men, more guys i know would make an advance on a taken person than girls. dont get me wrong girls can be bigger dogs than the guys but it dosent seem that way in this situation. she may not want to talk to you about it cuz she thinks you will misunderstand the deal and freak out. most guys would ... they couldnt get past the "he did what ...?" to get to the end where your girl was strong and said back off !!! which is the most important part. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by oneeightyone But why would a guy kiss a chicks neck if he knew she was taken. you serious? Guys are dogs. Dont forget that. So figure there's really three ways the girl could tell you what happened. a - 'this dude kissed me totally without an invite (read: assault)' b - 'I was flirting and this guy took it too far then I stoped it' c - 'I was flirting and didn't realise it was wrong untill he kissed me' now would you want to hear any of those? Maybe if you have known the girl for ages and have solid trust, but chances are there's a huge risk for her to tell you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by oneeightyone But why would a guy kiss a chicks neck if he knew she was taken. Because when the jar of cookies is sitting right there on the counter you think "mmmm, it'd be nice to have a cookie." When that shit is on a high ass shelf out of your reach you're gonna think "Omfg....those cookies must taste dope. i'll do whatever it takes to get up there and get a bite." basically guys want what they can't have. Just ask the asshole who tried to steal my gf from me three years back (and failed after i went to the motherfuckers house and threatened his life.) 181....sit down with your chick with a prepared list of questions in mind and talk that shit out. keeping all these thoughts in your mind will only drive you nuts. I should know. i've done that in the past and ended up going to the hospital on account of a massive anxiety-induced panic attack. if i were you, I'd track this guy down and let him know what the deal is. otherwise he'll just assume you don't care and might keep trying to get her. just don't dwell on it 181......take action Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 455 Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 whatever floats your boat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by Kilo7- you serious? Guys are dogs. Dont forget that. So figure there's really three ways the girl could tell you what happened. a - 'this dude kissed me totally without an invite (read: assault)' b - 'I was flirting and this guy took it too far then I stoped it' c - 'I was flirting and didn't realise it was wrong untill he kissed me' now would you want to hear any of those? Maybe if you have known the girl for ages and have solid trust, but chances are there's a huge risk for her to tell you. in regards to above.... a - you reserve the right to hunt dude down b- when your chick goes out of course she's gonna flirt. It's to be expected. When my gf goes on "girls night out" I know shit is gonna go down on this tip just as she knows i flirt with other girls rom time to time. c- you reserve the right to blow up and or/dump the bitch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Like I said.... in a trusting and comitted relationship you can get away with some things. People NEED to flirt. People NEED to still feel attractive/interesting. I guess I'm saying that there's nothing easy for her to say, so he shouldn't really worry about her not coming out with it right away. Hell.... if she didn't like him then she could say whatever the hell she wanted without having any regard for his feelings. He should be glad she cared enough not to hurt him (if that was her motivation). but yeah... girls know how to do the 'headbut-kiss-blocker', soshe wouldn't have an excuse if it was on the lips. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfreshsushi Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by LENS Because when the jar of cookies is sitting right there on the counter you think "mmmm, it'd be nice to have a cookie." When that shit is on a high ass shelf out of your reach you're gonna think "Omfg....those cookies must taste dope. i'll do whatever it takes to get up there and get a bite." this is a great analogy. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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