Gunm Posted November 18, 2003 Share Posted November 18, 2003 Originally posted by BOZACK chill out and stop being so bitter. and guess what, when you are carrying an unborn child, it's NOT JUST YOUR BODY anymore, dumbass!! and there is no such thing as an unexpected child unless you are raped. if you fuck around without contraception, expect a baby. I don't think she was being bitter. i was glad to see the feminine viewpoint representing in a male dominated thread centering around discussion around a life-altering event none of us with a hairy bean bag will ever hope to understand in it's entireity. Uhm...until that baby is born, i think the mother has a say in what goes down whether for good or ill. As it goes...'you can lead a horse to water but can't make it drink." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devilush Posted November 18, 2003 Share Posted November 18, 2003 whoa. gnes with a kid!!! you've been gone for how long and we hear about this. just kidding. i would take the responsibility whether or not i am ready for a baby. i had unprotected sex therefore...the baby is my responsiblity. i feel that if we ever encountered this situation, we'd be prepared to be the best parents ever. plus, he doesnt like the idea of abortion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WebsterUno Posted November 18, 2003 Share Posted November 18, 2003 *believe* Quote from Alure... "the father of the baby did not want me to have it at all, he says i didnt give him a choice but his choice was for me to have an abortion." Tell me you assholes havent heard this before. Your dawg gets a chic, that he just wanted to fuck, prego. Doesnt care for the bitch, so he says, "Fuck that, I aint fucking up my 'irresponsible' life by having a baby. That bitch better abort it!" Right? Ole boy is just as responsible for that child as she is. It takes 2 to tango. He has a brain of his own, he should have worn a hat. Or maybe numbnuts thinks with his other head. Either way, its her body, her choice. Bitchmade should man up and handle his bizniz, and be a father to his child. There is no law saying you have to be together to raise a child, it just helps if you are. Im a single father and my child is never without. Nor is she faulty of a good education. Just because I scribble my name on walls, doesnt mean I have to be a DEADBEAT father. I look down on 'men' that cant take care of their kids. Fuckin wimps. "What i find so disturbing is how abortion these days, is just like another form of birth control, its so easy for many men to say have one." Yeah, that is sad. Just like divorce is so common these days too. Sucks, but so is life. All you can do is try to live your own life righteously if thats what you choose. "First off its not your body, you will never know what its like to carry a child or to have it ripped out your body.I agree i was being irresponsible, but he cant seem to accept the fact that he was being just as irresponsible as i was." Exactly. No one told him to have unprotected sex with you. He has a brain...no? And, it is your body, dont let anyone tell what to do with it. "I decided to keep the baby, even though he didnt want me too." Good. You go girl. As long as it aint the ole keep-a-fella-baby. Youre alright in my book. I dont like those kind of snakes. "Was that wrong of me?" No. Ask yourself that when you see the lil head pop out and you see his/her pretty lil eyes when they wake up. "Does that make me a stupid broad?" Fuck no. The only thing that would make you stupid, is not taking action and not taking care of your baby. Fuck him, if he doesnt want to be there, you dont need him. You dont need welfare either. Get a babysitter, (mom, grandma, aunt, sister, brother whatever..) and get back to work after having that child. "so, i'm ready to accept my responsibility and i know its not going to be easy." No, it wont, so be ready. Have a baby shower to cut back on costs, like a stroller, a car seat, formula!! Formula is expensive, ad they go through it fast. "I talk to the father now, and he says he's gonna be there and give me money but who knows if he actually will." Dont count on it. If he does, great! Take it and use it for the baby. Just dont let me find out youre using it to go get your nails done and your hair did! Uh uh! That aint cool. Also, dont let me catch you in Dolce and Gabanna, and baby in Payless. I understand, that sometimes you get more when you payless. Especially with kids clothes. They grow so fast. But you know what I mean. Dont be flossing the dope gear, and walk around with your kid in rags. "I dont know, it just pisses me off when people are so naive about such a sensitive topic." yeah, me too. ------ Ok, back to the topic. ------ Gnes, wear a jimmie man. Pill or not. If you aint ready, financially or emotionally, to bring a child into this world, then take the necessary precautions. One of my ex's was on the shot. If you dont like wearing hats, and this is your girl...then talking to her about things like this shouldnt be a problem. I know hats aint the same as going bareback, so I feel ya homie. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Gnes 37 Posted November 19, 2003 Author Share Posted November 19, 2003 thanks for the tips webster i always wear a hat regardless if it feels better without it i am allways watching and asking my girl about any unusualities and to take care of situations asap so talking is no problem . and i had no ideal this thread was gonna bring some much sensitivity about abortions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxcarwilly Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 Re: *believe* Originally posted by WebsterUno Quote from Alure... "the father of the baby did not want me to have it at all, he says i didnt give him a choice but his choice was for me to have an abortion." Tell me you assholes havent heard this before. Your dawg gets a chic, that he just wanted to fuck, prego. Doesnt care for the bitch, so he says, "Fuck that, I aint fucking up my 'irresponsible' life by having a baby. That bitch better abort it!" Right? Ole boy is just as responsible for that child as she is. It takes 2 to tango. He has a brain of his own, he should have worn a hat. Or maybe numbnuts thinks with his other head. Either way, its her body, her choice. Bitchmade should man up and handle his bizniz, and be a father to his child. There is no law saying you have to be together to raise a child, it just helps if you are. Im a single father and my child is never without. Nor is she faulty of a good education. Just because I scribble my name on walls, doesnt mean I have to be a DEADBEAT father. I look down on 'men' that cant take care of their kids. Fuckin wimps. "What i find so disturbing is how abortion these days, is just like another form of birth control, its so easy for many men to say have one." Yeah, that is sad. Just like divorce is so common these days too. Sucks, but so is life. All you can do is try to live your own life righteously if thats what you choose. "First off its not your body, you will never know what its like to carry a child or to have it ripped out your body.I agree i was being irresponsible, but he cant seem to accept the fact that he was being just as irresponsible as i was." Exactly. No one told him to have unprotected sex with you. He has a brain...no? And, it is your body, dont let anyone tell what to do with it. "I decided to keep the baby, even though he didnt want me too." Good. You go girl. As long as it aint the ole keep-a-fella-baby. Youre alright in my book. I dont like those kind of snakes. "Was that wrong of me?" No. Ask yourself that when you see the lil head pop out and you see his/her pretty lil eyes when they wake up. "Does that make me a stupid broad?" Fuck no. The only thing that would make you stupid, is not taking action and not taking care of your baby. Fuck him, if he doesnt want to be there, you dont need him. You dont need welfare either. Get a babysitter, (mom, grandma, aunt, sister, brother whatever..) and get back to work after having that child. "so, i'm ready to accept my responsibility and i know its not going to be easy." No, it wont, so be ready. Have a baby shower to cut back on costs, like a stroller, a car seat, formula!! Formula is expensive, ad they go through it fast. "I talk to the father now, and he says he's gonna be there and give me money but who knows if he actually will." Dont count on it. If he does, great! Take it and use it for the baby. Just dont let me find out youre using it to go get your nails done and your hair did! Uh uh! That aint cool. Also, dont let me catch you in Dolce and Gabanna, and baby in Payless. I understand, that sometimes you get more when you payless. Especially with kids clothes. They grow so fast. But you know what I mean. Dont be flossing the dope gear, and walk around with your kid in rags. "I dont know, it just pisses me off when people are so naive about such a sensitive topic." yeah, me too. ;) fuck yeah. thank you webster. the neo-feminist male outlook. you hopefully have read cunt and you hopefully dont treat women like 78 percent of the men here. another fuck yeah for webster. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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DEE38 Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 I hate alot of you. >>>>>webster dropping knowledge like whoa oner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alure Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 webster..thanks your response meant alot to me its always nice to hear some support especially when your doing it all by yourself. Mad props that you take responsibility of your daughter. My dad was also a single father raising me all by himself, although it was hard for him because well i'm sure he didnt understand alot of things, he was a great father. Arent you scared of the chance of going to jail now that you have a child? I was painting, but i'm not going to do it anymore. Only because i would hate to go to jail, and have no one to watch my son especially cause my family isnt out here. Or also having the chance of him being taken away from me. I'm not looking down on the fact that you still get up, i was just wondering your outlook on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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SukiSukiNow Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 Re: *believe* Originally posted by WebsterUno Quote from Alure... "the father of the baby did not want me to have it at all, he says i didnt give him a choice but his choice was for me to have an abortion." Tell me you assholes havent heard this before. Your dawg gets a chic, that he just wanted to fuck, prego. Doesnt care for the bitch, so he says, "Fuck that, I aint fucking up my 'irresponsible' life by having a baby. That bitch better abort it!" Right? Ole boy is just as responsible for that child as she is. It takes 2 to tango. He has a brain of his own, he should have worn a hat. Or maybe numbnuts thinks with his other head. Either way, its her body, her choice. Bitchmade should man up and handle his bizniz, and be a father to his child. There is no law saying you have to be together to raise a child, it just helps if you are. Im a single father and my child is never without. Nor is she faulty of a good education. Just because I scribble my name on walls, doesnt mean I have to be a DEADBEAT father. I look down on 'men' that cant take care of their kids. Fuckin wimps. "What i find so disturbing is how abortion these days, is just like another form of birth control, its so easy for many men to say have one." Yeah, that is sad. Just like divorce is so common these days too. Sucks, but so is life. All you can do is try to live your own life righteously if thats what you choose. "First off its not your body, you will never know what its like to carry a child or to have it ripped out your body.I agree i was being irresponsible, but he cant seem to accept the fact that he was being just as irresponsible as i was." Exactly. No one told him to have unprotected sex with you. He has a brain...no? And, it is your body, dont let anyone tell what to do with it. "I decided to keep the baby, even though he didnt want me too." Good. You go girl. As long as it aint the ole keep-a-fella-baby. Youre alright in my book. I dont like those kind of snakes. "Was that wrong of me?" No. Ask yourself that when you see the lil head pop out and you see his/her pretty lil eyes when they wake up. "Does that make me a stupid broad?" Fuck no. The only thing that would make you stupid, is not taking action and not taking care of your baby. Fuck him, if he doesnt want to be there, you dont need him. You dont need welfare either. Get a babysitter, (mom, grandma, aunt, sister, brother whatever..) and get back to work after having that child. "so, i'm ready to accept my responsibility and i know its not going to be easy." No, it wont, so be ready. Have a baby shower to cut back on costs, like a stroller, a car seat, formula!! Formula is expensive, ad they go through it fast. "I talk to the father now, and he says he's gonna be there and give me money but who knows if he actually will." Dont count on it. If he does, great! Take it and use it for the baby. Just dont let me find out youre using it to go get your nails done and your hair did! Uh uh! That aint cool. Also, dont let me catch you in Dolce and Gabanna, and baby in Payless. I understand, that sometimes you get more when you payless. Especially with kids clothes. They grow so fast. But you know what I mean. Dont be flossing the dope gear, and walk around with your kid in rags. "I dont know, it just pisses me off when people are so naive about such a sensitive topic." yeah, me too. ------ Ok, back to the topic. ------ Gnes, wear a jimmie man. Pill or not. If you aint ready, financially or emotionally, to bring a child into this world, then take the necessary precautions. One of my ex's was on the shot. If you dont like wearing hats, and this is your girl...then talking to her about things like this shouldnt be a problem. I know hats aint the same as going bareback, so I feel ya homie. ;) I knew there was a reason I liked you. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest WebsterUno Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 *believe* No problem Gnes! Hey, I finally talked to Anime! BCW- what did you mean by this... "you hopefully have read cunt" Alure-props to your pops! Im not doing it all by myself though, and Im thankful for that. Her mom is still around, but were not together. But that doesnt stop me from taking care of bizniz. I take care of all my daddy duties! Am I scared? Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old*824 Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 keep that shit to yourself man. i definitley did not want to know you wear panties and ima puke if you tell me you dont got none on again. Originally posted by E MARTYR i aint got no panties on, aint got no panties on... im so irresponsible that my stance on children is i usually remember to feed the cat. allthough, i did help raise a kid. my ex has a niece and i known her since she was 4 and now shes 12. in fact, she almost got her ass kicked by her moms for taking shit she shouldnt which really lets you know what a incredible task raising a child is these days. anyway, she loves graffiti and is a good artist. kids are awesome you know, but its like you gotta make that committment and single parents get my upmost respect. hah..i was chillen with this one chick who had alittle man and she got pissed as i snapped a picture of her with her son in one arm and a st ides in the other. but at the same time, id say at least half of my friends/aquiantences(sp?) have kids and have either never seen them or dodge child support and thats fucked up you know. my one friend and his ex gave their son up for adoption. it turned out good for them. the adopted parents are really rich and really encourage them to be a part of their sons life and they have to choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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