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I need a guy's point of view

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Alright now....I just started hanging out with this guy....I like him a lot and we've been flirting and whatever, and according to a friend of his, he feels the same. I really want him and I to be a couple, basically what I am asking is what is the best way for a girl to win you over? Is there something in particular that a girl can do to make you melt? I need advice, cause usually my shy ass never makes the first move.

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search for one of the 185THOUSAND fucking threads on this bullshit.

 

The most likely response youll get it have him fuck you in the ass

 

or fuck him in the ass

 

 

errrr

 

whatever works.

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Guest YinzerXpress

get the man drunk and make the first move...

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question is.. what the fuck is HE waiting for!?

 

I dont know how old you are but that post fully reminded me of high school dating politics.

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Guest YinzerXpress
Originally posted by Ken Barlow

Geez....if you need to ask 12oz for relationship advice, then buy a vibrator and lock yourself in your room now.....

 

listen to him

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The problem, as I see it, is your desire to "be in a relationship." It sounds like you already have a relationship with this guy, but you want the relationship to be different, as in "More emotionally exclusive and intimate."

 

Since very few teenaged boys are mature enough to handle the responsibilities of a mature, adult-like relationship (hey, it's a lot of work--who needs that shit when you're like sixteen?) then what you get when you fall for a boy is a boy's level of involvement.

 

Teenagers are very self-centered (no criticism, I was too, back when I was a teenager) and it's all about "me." What I want, what I need, how I feel, etc.

 

Mature adults are much more concerned with their partners' feelings than with their own. They are much more concerned with identifying and meeting their partner's needs rather than their own. Everyone is seeking to get their own needs met too, but the difference between adolescence and adulthood is largely a matter of compassion, empathy and committment. Would you expect a seven-year-old to appreciate Proust? Then don't expect committment and emotional intimacy from a high school boy. He's not capable of meeting you on that level, mainly because boys and girls mature at different rates. Sixteen-year-old girls are generally not attracted to sixteen-year-old boys. They find older young men more attractive, perhaps seventeen or eighteen years old. When she is eighteen, her male peers will still seem immature and childish, and she will probably find college boys more attractive (probably hardly more mature than high school boys, but maybe a little bit.)

 

Bottom line--just aim for friendship. Don't sleep with him unless he demonstrates a serious capacity for emotional committment (doubtful) and wait for him to grow up and realize that you were always supportive and affectionate. Say, when you're both about twenty-six or so. Before then you're just setting yourself up for heartbreak and disillusionment.

 

Just because he wants sex doesn't mean he's really ready to handle being a woman's sexual partner. It's not about your mutual relationship, from his point of view, it's all about (how does this go?) "bustin' a nut." In other words, his focus is on his dick, not your feelings.

Good luck. Why don't you just focus on older guys until he grows up?

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Guest Dusty Lipschitz

annalingus always sealed the deal for me

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Originally posted by YinzerXpress

get the man drunk and make the first move...

 

i second that:king:

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Originally posted by YinzerXpress

get the man drunk and make the first move...

 

other way around. that sexual shit usually works...who cares about the other stuff

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Just be yourself, and talk to him. Ask him out. He will enjoy that. WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG,

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Originally posted by fabled

Alright now....I just started hanging out with this guy.....

 

Originally posted by fabled

Shit, he already knows I'll do all that sexual shit...

 

 

i live in fla, come visit me.

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Guest KING OF HELL

guys are pretty easy. just show up. thats it.

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