SteveAustin Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 Re: Re: Smart. Originally posted by Smart what good are 'the facts'?... I mean, you know the only fact that matters, right? Trust me, just get your shit and walk away... tell her "It's not you, it's me"... just get away clean. Seeya... smart is right the fuck on point. this is the ONLY option. if she's cheating then she's thinks she's pulling something over your eyes. if you go and just pick up your shit and go....she'll flip out and wonder what the fuck happened. whatever you do, don't tell her you know, because then she can rationalize the break up. If you give her no reason at all, she'll think there is something wrong with her. head games. after doing this proceed to the nearest meat market and pick up something new. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swif1 Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 so how did you find out she was cheating on you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zodiac ying Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 Re: Guess what? Originally posted by effyoo She doesn't know that I know. this is the best part. so when you go get your shit she wont prepare herself for you taking everything of value. if she tries to stop you tell her you know. if she fronts, knock her out. then go home get a porno jerk off and never fall in love until you accidently impregnate some girl you were never really attracted to. take it from me, i been there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 that's why fuckfriends is always better than being a boyfriend. but yep, smart is right. Cut her off. She will hate herself, and you, for a long, long time. If she calls, don't answer. If she emails, don't write back. If she sees you at work/school, don't even force out a "hey". It will eat her up inside. You're obviously better than her, so why associate yourself with moral and social subhuman scum? It may be hard, since you dealt for so long, but that makes it all the better. She is not worth your breath, or even eye contact. although pistol's idea of confrontation at work sounds appealing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seven.13 Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 Ouch...I feel for you. Being lied to is the worst feeling in the world and it can drive you a little nuts. Calm down before you talk to her..try and plan what you will say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 Originally posted by ink Lunatic Ouch...I feel for you. Being lied to is the worst feeling in the world and it can drive you a little nuts. Calm down before you talk to her..try and plan what you will say. I disagree. I bet you will regret whatever you say to her. If you're gonna plan it out, plan it out for a year. Dude, you went out for 3 and a half years, and she lied to you for 4 months. She's lucky her graduation picture is not on the front page of the paper because of you. Cut the girl off. It'll frustrate her for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zodiac ying Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 ROB THE BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zodiac ying Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 how come thats not huge? i guess ill never be a real supercomputerthug Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zodiac ying Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 OKAY OKAY OKAY - HERES A PLAN MY MAN........... GIVE US ALL HER PHONE # AND EMAIL ETC SO THAT WE CAN TORTURE HER FOR OUR OWN PLEASURE. I CAN FREAK GIRLS OUT LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER. POST PICTURES OF HER NAKED. YOU BLOW HER OFF, CANCEL YOUR # ETC. NEVER TALK TO HER AGAIN, AND LET US UNLEASH THE MOTHERFUCKING FURY. not that i care but if your down im down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fabled Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 i feel you effyoo... I feel your pain man, I found out 6 months ago that not only was my boyfriend of 5 years cheating on me, but he was cheating on me with my best friend.....people in relationships can be cruel sometimes. hey any writer in Indy single...I'm looking, obviously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteveAustin Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 I'll never understand the best friend cheating thing....just don't know how people can do that. Cheating is one thing, but cheating with the best friend is way beyond. One of my ex's was fucking her speech teacher. She was on the debate team and got a C in her speech class. She was ultra pissed...I just thought it was because she did lousy. She actually complained to me about her grade and how it shoulda been an A. I kept telling her to take all her papers to the dean if she felt that strongly about it. I found out about that a few weeks after I found out about some other dude she fucked. All I've got to say is...I understand why the teacher gave her that grade. I would've given her a D, because she sure as shit wasn't performing on a C level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fabled Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 The whole thing I don't understand about cheating is if you got a good person at home willing to do anything for you, why in the hell would you want to cheat, you know its just going to hurt them in the end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoink Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 then that person most certainly was not ready or respected a strong lasting relationship, in short its tough, and hurts alot, but better for you to be rid of someone like that, who wasted so many odd years of a relationship, and find the right man/woman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fabled Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 I never really thought about it from that perspective. it actually made me feel better thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RumPuncher Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 so after you walk out all cool and collected, chill for a week or two. then call her up you: I just found out about something that you need to know. her: What is it? you: well I went down to the clinic and the Doctors said that HISSSSSSSSSS *click* Then never answer her calls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curious Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 dont chase her, cause once a cheater always a cheater! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sneak Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 Originally posted by Kilo7- so after you walk out all cool and collected, chill for a week or two. then call her up you: I just found out about something that you need to know. her: What is it? you: well I went down to the clinic and the Doctors said that HISSSSSSSSSS *click* Then never answer her calls. ahahahhahaha this is THE way to go... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pistol Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 I was gonna suggest zesto's option. But I think it's a bad idea. I mean she might go around telling people you have genital herpes or something thus making fucking her friends a bit harder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RumPuncher Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 But if she tells anyone anything you can just say "fucking bitch! they though I had cancer and she goes and starts rumours becasue she's got herpes!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T.T Boy Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 sometimes people do stupid things they regret. havent you ever done something you regretted? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RumPuncher Posted April 10, 2003 Share Posted April 10, 2003 Originally posted by T.T Boy sometimes people do stupid things they regret. havent you ever done something you regretted? trying to cover for something TT ? I can honestly say that I've done a few really dumb things and broke a few hearts along the way, but this just seems way worse. I've been the other guy a few times, but usually without knowing. I've slept with another girl while in a relationship. What that girl did is totaly unexcusable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoink Posted April 11, 2003 Share Posted April 11, 2003 Originally posted by fabled I never really thought about it from that perspective. it actually made me feel better thanks! your welcome, theres always the up side ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smart Posted April 11, 2003 Share Posted April 11, 2003 he said she's been cheating since January, that's plenty of time for her to have felt guilty and come to him first with a promise, instead she's been covering it up... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seven.13 Posted April 13, 2003 Share Posted April 13, 2003 Once is one thing, after that its just blatantly disgusting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatbastard Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 that sucks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ken Barlow Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 Damn...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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