d-town_bomber Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 try to find some shit in common. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jah Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 Originally posted by dot. a good rule of thumb is always to let the other person do the talking...which normally means that they're talking about themselves....but people are comfortable doing that.... and then go off from there. umm no. not unless you want to fail misserably. if you just try and let the girl talk and she doesnt really have shit to say youre fucked. plus, girls want an effort to be put out. they want a guy whos interested in them and therefore willing to initiate the conversation. like with all animals, the male makes his display and the female ahs to bite. and no, talking about yourself is not the greatest idea either. tell them what they ask and maybe other things they might be interested in but dont go off ona long talk about yourself and how much weight you can put up and how great you are. ask about her. act really interested in her. it helps even more if you really are interested in her. you need to get past the fact that youre talking to a girl that you want to hook up with and just talk to her like any other person. a good technique can be to not try and get with her at first. just approach the situation like you just want to be friends (of course this most likely wont be the situation but it helps to keep that mentality so you can just talk about whatever and not be nervous) and if they seem into it at all give it a shot. ask em if you can call them or if theyd like to do something sometime (have something in mind to do). be funny steer clear of any inside jokes that your circle of friends finds especially funny. stick to ones that most people would find funny. be confident. take control. girls like a guy who can take some initiative so dont try and be a perfect gentleman all the time by doing shit like, "no. pick the movie you want to see.... lets just eat what you like to eat....." NO!! if you ask a girl what she wants to do and she says, "whatever you want to do, " or, "you pick" then just do it. try to pick what you think they wouldve picked though. anyway, yeah. good luck with that. ps. Read magazines like maxim and loaded for good tips on how to please girls if youre not really experienced. some of us know what to do from years of porno watching or we have parents that are nasty enough to think you want to hear about their experiences and tell you everything you need to know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
REGULATOR Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 Regulator- Hi Hot Girl- wanna hear about my life? Regulator- not really, can i just fuck you Hot Girl- go fuck yourself Regulator- damn...:( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jah Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 dude, you know what works.... if youre walking towards a hottie and she looks at you walk up to her, lean over ina spastic way while clinching her shirt and making a sound as if you just got hit inthe gut and ask, "do you have a tissue?" flattery.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest imported_El Mamerro Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 http://www.dabait.com/ahl/Spoiled_Mood.jpg'> Don't spoil the mood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jah Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 haha. that shits pretty classic. on the other hand. you should be rather playful. interaction is good. subtle touches, a little teasing..... have fun with em. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avils Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 first up, never mistake the phone as a median for mad conversation when you've only just got this girls number. all you need to do is ring, be cool and say "hey what's up.. it's ******" she'll be all like "oh, hey.. hi.. hehehe how are you" so thats the introduction out of the way. now things can get tough from here so just remember you're only calling her to ask her out on a date right ? so talk to her a bit about the bar or club or party you were at when you got her number. that should get you a foot in the door.. tell her you had fun hanging out with her and ask her what she's up to this weekend, would she like to grab some tea or a drink or a movie or whatever... if she's diggin you, she'll say YES. remember, the whole thing needn't take more than 5 minutes unless you're getting on like a house on fire. the primary objective is to ask her out so don't punish yourself by trying to keep the conversation going "so... ahhhhhh... *awkward silence* eerrr.. you like... stuff ?" thats just embarrassing for you both. get in, make the date, and get the fuck owt. :king: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuburbianBrat Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 Dude..Just be yourself..not to cocky but not to shy or nervous..if she doesn't like the real you..you don't want the real her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jah Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 Originally posted by avils first up, never mistake the phone as a median for mad conversation when you've only just got this girls number. all you need to do is ring, be cool and say "hey what's up.. it's ******" she'll be all like "oh, hey.. hi.. hehehe how are you" so thats the introduction out of the way. now things can get tough from here so just remember you're only calling her to ask her out on a date right ? so talk to her a bit about the bar or club or party you were at when you got her number. that should get you a foot in the door.. tell her you had fun hanging out with her and ask her what she's up to this weekend, would she like to grab some tea or a drink or a movie or whatever... if she's diggin you, she'll say YES. remember, the whole thing needn't take more than 5 minutes unless you're getting on like a house on fire. the primary objective is to ask her out so don't punish yourself by trying to keep the conversation going "so... ahhhhhh... *awkward silence* eerrr.. you like... stuff ?" thats just embarrassing for you both. get in, make the date, and get the fuck owt. :king: word. dont put in any more work than you need to. if you go on babbling about unimportant shit youll put her off. save the insignificant converstations for when youre onthe date and its one of those times where you can tell youre going to have a silent moment. if they want to keep talkin to you on the phone after you get a date set, go for it. but dont make yourself look like an asshole by talking more than you need to and getting through all the shit you should be talking about on the date. ive been in situations where i talked to a girl on the phone for a while before we went out and when we ended up going out we didnt have shit to talk about. save the small talk for the date so it can hopefully lead somewhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHELLTOES Posted July 9, 2002 Share Posted July 9, 2002 keep it short. "ayo, is we bangin tonite or wha?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DOLR....LED Posted July 9, 2002 Author Share Posted July 9, 2002 dont spoil the mood that shit is halarious hahaha but thanks for the advice evryone keep it comin i still havent got ahold of this girl busy life damn....:o ;) :o ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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