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Friends Vs. Girlfriends

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My girl - never has and probably never will get high. My friends and I have been getting high/drunk/wasted together long before she came into the picture. So she starts getting all sad-ball, that I choose to get stoned and drunk most often, and neglect her. She wants some "alone-time" but she doesnt have any beer, never has the dank - And i seriously love to indulge myself with those things. I hate making these sacrifices that result in me being bored out of my fuckin' mind. Then she does shit that contradict the way she tells me she feels. Therefore Im left wondering: What the fuck are you really feeling? One day shell be like: Im gonna take you home because I dont wanna put you out..and then today shes telling me how much she envy's her roomate and her boyfriend because they see it as "so important" to spend time with only eachother. This girl has some abandonment issues to boot..

 

goddamn.

 

to sum things up: This abandonment thing fuels her urge to consume me.

 

Any pointers? Ive never had a stupid fucking dedication bull crap commitment relationship - humans were never meant to associate themselves with this "lets be together forever" shit. I just wish it was the other way around. Tonight Im gettin' tanked in the name of 'forget about it':dazed:

 

friday I hang with just her..Where the only stimuli I recieve other then boning is sketching in the ol' book..But I do that enough as it is..

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Guest uncle-boy

maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship right now?:o

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Guest platapie

just say yo uhave fun doing it. but i mean maybe you shouldnt be wasted everytime yo usee her. and mayeb some quality time isnt that bad. i kinda like it sometimes. yo ujust gotta explain there are other peopel in this world and you liek some other peopel yo udont have to be togather every wakeign second.

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I said pointers - preferably from those around here with experiance...

man - what else can I say - Id be down to chill with her more often if I had a fat joint... no problems there. But when I dont my friends hit me up to smoke on their bag..

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Guest uncle-boy
Originally posted by B_As_In_Bot

fuck you . straight edge for life.

 

me??

 

straight edge??

 

:confused:

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ah jeeze uncle boy, Im only fuckin' around. (no offense to any of you straight edge people) but that comment was direct toward johnny hornets nest or whoever..that fools eats mad dick on 3 taco tuesdays and shit..

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:rolleyes:

bitch please...

I used to smoke an 18th a day ... I haven't smoked weed for about 6 months ... I like having my attention span back

Yeah I spend most of my freetime with my girlfriend because I like too ... I'm also glad I don't have to be drunk or high or fucking to enjoy her company either

 

Thats why I pity you, who said I was straightedge?

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Guest uncle-boy

i like to git ma' smoke and drink on.

but i love spending time cruising with my girlfriend.:love2:

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Dude, i dont got much against smoking and drinking, but to the point you have taken it. You deserve whatever your getting. Thats seriously fucked up that you cant stand to be withought your girl withought the joint. Quit the shit, addict.

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I admit it..Im a reefer addict (true)

 

Rev. Hornets's Nest + Suburban Bumblefuck = 2 bitchwhipped little monkeys

 

..Go cry home to your mama's

 

:mad:

 

 

:D just kidding fools..

 

I wanna let you 2 know how it really is, I still try and hang with my lady even in a no herb, no beer situation. Im willing to make the sacrifice. Hell, I quit smoking cigarettes for her. I usually make it a point to smoke nugget once a day, at the very least. Sometimes its hard, and it begins to suck - thats why I make up threads telling yall how much it can suck. But no dudes, it really isnt how you think it is.

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just over a year ago, about 2 months before i graduated i had a tight knit group of friends, there were 5 of us, we were inseperable, we did every thing together, and about 5 months before graduation i met my girlfriend (the one i am still with), well anyway 2 months before graduation 1 of my so called friends stopped talking to me and i was like whatever fuck it, all 5 of us were still always together but we would not aknowledge each other, then his cousin another of the 5 decided to hate on me, so i was like fine fuck you too, they wanted to make this a family thing, my best friend who is my cousin started to see what was going on and he told me "blood is thicker than water, family,blah,blah,blah,yadda,yadda,yadda......" any way he started talking to my girlfriend and started telling her i was cheating on her, so that started shit with my girl because he was my best friend she believed him, so any way i confronted him and he was crying to me swearing up and down he didn't tell her anything and i told him i believed him because again he was my best friend. so a few weeks later the truth came out that he was jealous of all the time i was spending with my girlfriend so he in turn stopped talking to me, i am still close to the one who keept it cool, because he too understood what it was like to have a girlfriend.....ahh fuck it fuck friends!

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Guest THEdude

Looks like you'll rather spend time with BOYS

than with GIRLS.

The weed and booze are just an excuse.

 

just playing.

 

any ways

 

spending time with your girlfriend shouldn't be boring or anything, shit when I got with my girl all I would think about was her......but now it's over and dang it sucks not having a chick. (so spend time with her butthead) But hey don't worry, there's a lot of girls out there.:cool:

 

Maybe one day you'll go and buy weed and buy it from a girl and then you two get personal and smoke a J.:o

 

ok don't bother to reply....I know I know, it doesnt even make sense.

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..dump the wench.....

if you cant sacrifice some time from hangin with your boys to be with her....then she must not be worth it......

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Originally posted by wREk OnE

..dump the wench.....

if you cant sacrifice some time from hangin with your boys to be with her....then she must not be worth it......

 

 

 

 

 

True.

 

 

I'd rather spend time with my girlfriend than any of my friends and I'd cancel plans with my friends at any time to be with her.

 

 

She's cooler than my friends, anway.

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Guest sneak

beckham what???

 

oh yeh, on the topic....ill put it this way:

 

pussy or being so out of it, u need a diagram to teach u how to wank

 

i no my choice

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While I don't agree with the exact reasons for you. The rule is.

 

Bros before Hos

Never dick your boys for your girl. Your boys have been there and will be there. Girls come and go as you smack em on the ass out the door.

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Guest --zeSto--

blah

blah

blah...

 

Just be glad your girlfriend doesn't have a pet name for crystal meth.

I'd take a clean and sober girl over a 'user' any day.

 

If she can't deal with the occasional 6-pack you consume,

then there's more to the issue. And try on the other shoe...

She doesn't want to waste time commited to someone who she

thinks may end up a drunk or a 'do-nothing-stoner'.

 

Girls make men out of boys.

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I say...

it has to do with a lot more than the straight edge/good girl shit,

YOU'RE obviously not straight edge and closet geek,

and if the most fun you have with her is boning and then writing,

get a girlie you can do BOTH with,

or atleast one who's down with everything about you

BEFORE you change shit for her

There are plenty of girls out there who are down and DON'T have pet names for crystal meth either...fuck,

just cause you drink and puff doesn't mean you're a fucking crack head.

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the moral of my story:

Everyday pussy calls for sacrifices to be made.

 

Now - to make some of those sacrifices..

 

"Drink, Fight, and Fuck"

-GG Allin

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i dont think that she has abandonment issues. i think that she is really insecure with herself. now that she has a boyfriend, she likes that security that you are there for her. she likes the fact that you are there to make her feel pretty, to make her feel secure....etc. and when you leave her to go out with your friends, it makes her feel like she is alone. almost like you are choosing your friends over her....it makes her feel unimportant. does she have any friends? i'm asking because maybe she needs to get out there by herself and just make friends.

maybe you guys seriously nned to talk about your relationship. i mean, you guys are two completely different people and there isnt something connecting. once you guys talk...things are good...then shitty again, then you guys really need to rethink about being in a relationship or not. she has some personal issues that you cant solve...even if you do stop doing all the other stuff and start chillin with her more often. once you do that, she will grow accustomed to you and want you even more.

so just evaluate yourselves and see what comes out of that.

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