Dear Wise
My kid's mom had our first child when I was barely 22 and I was far from ready. Don't conceive until at least 28. You'll regret not being a good father in the early years, trust me there. It's a lot harder than you think it will be, unless you just bale and if you have any heart you'll regret that too. I'm just now able to take care of my daughters well enough and I'm 29. So unless you're mentally and financially stable, you'll have some sort of regrets. Oh and you're ready to forget about a good social life.