okay.
this may come across as some dumb jealousy shit, but I can't figure out what to do, and what better place than 12 to ask for help.
my girl and I have been together for about a year and a half, and I'm pretty convinced she's the lovely of my life.
there's just been some weird shit going down.
a month after we starting seeing each other, she went to a party at some dude's house I didn't know, they were all drinking and shit, but lacked to tell me about it.
I eventually found out, and when asked about it, she told me she didn't want me worrying.
WELL, had she told me first I would've been cool, I would've told her to be safe, and blah blah blah.
The best part is, the guy sent her an email afterwards.
They used to have a thing for each other, and this email was 100 mushy ass questions about him.
no thanks.
we talked about it, she replied and told him she was over him, and that was (supposedly) that.
Here we are, over a year later, and we just got into a huge fight, right as I was going out of town.
suddenly he pops on on her facebook friends list, and when I asked if I should be worried, and how I thought she was done with his bullshit, she said she added him because at one point they were just "friends".
I love her, and really want to believe her, but Dude McDudesauce creeps me the fuck out and I'm not really feeling it.
What should a homie do?
Do I have the right to show concern?